In this world, there are two things that each of us wants to have, one is money and the other is love.
And each of us wants to have a perfect love, but sometimes, love can be difficult because of our own uncertainty.
In fact, a man loves someone and likes a person, which are two different existences, because there is a big difference between these two kinds of love.
- A person who likes you will want to possess you
In this world, many people will crave the possessiveness of others, just as if a person has someone else's things, they will feel very unsure.
But in a relationship, many people can't understand what the other party's possessiveness means for themselves, so in love, they are often hurt.
But when a man loves someone, he will want to possess you, and he doesn't want his beloved woman to be snatched away by other men.
So in this case, he will become very aggressive and will control his relationship with you. In order to make you obedient, he will try to make you obey him.
If a man loves you, he will want to treat you as if you were his own personal property. When a man is able to possess you, it shows that he really loves you.
Therefore, when facing love, don't only see the good side of the other person to you, but also see the bad side of the other person to you.
- A person who loves you will be loyal to you
A person's love has a bottom line, as long as it is the person he loves deeply, he will choose to be loyal to himself.
And if a man loves you, he will treat you as his own, and he can give up everything for you, even if he pays more, he has no regrets.
Especially when a man really likes a woman, he will be especially afraid of losing the other person, so he will be loyal to her.
Because once he doesn't love you anymore, then he won't care about your feelings. Therefore, when a man loves you deeply, he will be loyal to you and will not let himself become a person who betrays his feelings.
And when he likes someone, he will have a selfish thought, even if the other party does something to hurt him, the man will choose to forgive.
Because he loves each other too deeply, he is unwilling to make any sacrifices and concessions in the relationship. That's the difference between two different kinds of love.
- A person who likes you will be more proactive
A person who likes you will take the initiative to find you, he will go to you to chat, play with you, and you will also take the initiative to play with him, and the two people have continuously deepened their feelings for each other in such a process of getting along.
And a person who doesn't like you, he may be hot and cold to you, and he will not take the initiative to chat with you, nor will he take the initiative to play with you, such a relationship will make the relationship between two people very awkward.
So, if a man loves you and likes you as two different beings, then a man loves someone and likes someone differently.
In fact, in real life, there are many couples who are not clear about whether the other party loves themselves or likes themselves when they fall in love. In fact, no one in this world really knows whether they love or do not love themselves.
Therefore, if a man really loves a woman, then he must love this woman, and he will definitely take the initiative to chat with her and take the initiative to play with her.
If a man doesn't like his woman, then he will definitely keep a distance from this woman, and he will not take the initiative to play with this woman.