Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
A woman's heart is like a cup of hot tea.
If she is left alone for a long time and treated indifferently, she will gradually become cold.
Many women enter marriage, thinking that they are married to love, thinking that they have a happy life, and they have opened their arms to her since then.
It's just that there is a distance that is difficult to cross between ideals and reality. Women will also choose to leave with grievances and sadness after recognizing the reality.
The following types of men will force their wives away.
02, he was very good to others, and gave his bad temper to his wife
Around me, there are men who are very nice to everyone else around me and very patient. Everything is thoughtful, even to strangers, full of kindness.
In front of outsiders, he tried his best to maintain his perfect image.
I often think that my brothers, friends, classmates, etc., are very important. Be responsive to their needs and do what they say.
But he gave all his bad temper and bad mood to his wife.
For example, I often vent my dissatisfaction on my wife because I am angry and frustrated outside.
It seems that in his eyes, his wife is a person who can be bullied at will, and she should bear his suppression and accusations.
This kind of differential treatment by men will hurt his wife's heart and force her away.
A woman will feel that she is the least important in his heart.
03, full of disgust for his wife, and disapproving of her from the bottom of his heart
In a family, if husband and wife cannot accept each other, respect each other, and appreciate each other, then it is difficult for each other to go long.
If so, the man is self-righteous and does not know how to respect his wife at all.
No matter what she says or does, men will habitually hit her, belittle her, and have disgust in their eyes.
In his heart, he never regarded his wife as his partner, nor did he want to recognize her dedication to the family.
He was very narrow-minded that his wife was just an appendage to himself, and he needed to look at his face to live.
When others mentioned his wife in front of him, his face was full of disgust.
It seems that marrying his wife lowered his social status and made him lose face and dignity.
His dislike for his wife will be unabashedly revealed.
As long as there is a chance, he will ridicule her, ridicule her, and make her embarrassed.
If a man does this, he is tantamount to denying his wife's all, and even if there is more reluctance to this family, she will reluctantly leave.
04. No matter what happens at home, my wife has to worry about everything
The home belongs to two people, and the husband and wife need to work together to manage the marriage and maintain the marriage.
Some men don't care about anything at home, commonly known as "hands-off shopkeepers".
A man who shakes his hands like a shopkeeper will increase the burden on his wife, so that she doesn't even have time to breathe.
Men don't care about family matters. I just think about eating, drinking, and having fun, and how to make my life more comfortable.
The piles of housework at home, the crying children, the elderly people, and the endless troubles, and the ensuing financial pressure, all of which were lost to the wife.
If his wife asks him to share the burden, hoping that he can have a man's responsibility, he will also ignore it.
Even, he spoke ill of his wife, completely ignoring the hardships she endured as a weak woman.
My wife will feel isolated in her marriage, obviously it is a marriage of two people, she often feels that she is fighting alone, her heart is exhausted, and there is no hope ahead.
A man who has no sense of responsibility is chic and happy by himself, and lets his wife carry the weight forward.
In the end, he will force his wife away and end up alone.
05, giving his heart to a woman outside of marriage, unfaithful
The male protagonist in the movie "Mobile Phone" is called Yan Shouyi, who is the host of a TV station.
He gushed endlessly on stage and talked eloquently in front of outsiders. When I returned home, I had nothing to say to my wife.
Later, he met Wu Yue, an editor at a publishing house, and developed feelings for her. And hide their betrayal with one lie after another.
One day, he went out to work and left his phone at home. Wu Yue's flirtatious text message happened to be seen by his wife, and his secret was completely exposed.
Surrounded by great grief and despair, his wife resolutely divorced him and parted ways from then on.
An unfaithful man will break the last hope in his wife's heart and make her face the cruelest reality.
He indulges his heart wantonly, ignores the bottom line of marriage, and will eventually be eaten by desire and pay a heavy price.
Bai Yang said: "Unchastity is the greatest force in destroying families and feelings. ”
When a man gives his heart to a woman outside of marriage, he gives his wife a hard slap.
His betrayal of his marriage will completely destroy the expectations in his wife's heart and force her to leave.
06. Summary
Most of the happiness in a man's life is brought by his wife.
We must learn to treat our wives well, be grateful for everything our wives have paid, and take care of each other's feelings with our hearts.
With his wife by his side, he will never give up, and he will have more warm times for the rest of his life.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.