Many couples in love, after a long time, from the beginning of nothing to talk about, to nothing to say, although two people can still be sure that this relationship will continue to talk, but many times this atmosphere of nothing to say is also quite embarrassing, today I will provide you with a little way to help you increase the topic appropriately.
This method is called the imaginary chat method, I created it myself, I haven't seen the same chat method elsewhere for the time being, if there is any similarity, it is pure coincidence.
Xiaoyu said to redeem
The reason for this method is that many years ago, I was on a bus, and then an old man came up on the bus, and this old man was carrying a sack and a cane in his hand.
This was not uncommon on the bus, but when I saw it that day, a question suddenly occurred to me: where did his children go? Why do you make it so hard for the old man to carry a sack of things in the car?
For the record, I am just curious, and I do not mean to belittle this old man's child.
Then with such a question, I met my girlfriend, and then I discussed this topic with her, but I never thought that she had discussed this issue with me for a long time that day, from why the children did not accompany the elderly, to the later filial piety to their parents, what to do when they are old, and so on.
Maybe I was in a panic at that time, and then this chat gave me a deeper impression, so that when someone came to me about the chat problem and asked me what to do, I would think of this incident, and then I also thought of such a chat method based on this incident, and I named it: Imagine the chat method.
Anyway, I tested it, and the effect was quite good, at least at the level of adding topics, it did have a lot of effects.
So to put it simply, what is imaginary chatting?
Xiaoyu said to redeem
The reason why we feel less and less talked about with our partner is because we are too familiar with our partner and feel that our daily life is so repetitive, so there is no topic for chatting.
But in fact, the repetition of life is the main theme, so in order to keep your life from repeating, you need to be full of imagination about your life.
We can know that although we do the same things every day, the people we meet every day and the scenes we encounter are different, so you should give full play to your imagination about the little things in your life to make your life more exciting.
For example, if you take the bus or subway, you meet different people every day, you can think about what the person's work is, what the person's mood is, or blindly guess what the person's zodiac sign is, what their relationship is, and so on.
Combined with your partner's chat characteristics, take the initiative to start some topics.
For example, if your partner likes to play badminton, you can say: I found that the people who play badminton are really the same as you say, with special attention to detail, I saw two people carrying rackets on the subway today, etc.;
As another example, your partner likes to talk about horoscopes, you can say: I'm pissed off, the two people I met on the subway today are definitely Virgos and so on and so forth.
In addition to the characters, there are also objects and scenery and the like.
For example, one of the pruned flowers and plants passing by today was not pruned well, my obsessive-compulsive disorder, it was really uncomfortable and so on.
Xiaoyu said to redeem
Today's method, in fact, is simple, that is, you look at the things around you with a pair of eyes that discover the beauty around you, and at the same time, combine your smart brain to start a communication journey with your other half.
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