introduction
"Unconventional" is a Chinese idiom that means: to put forward a novel proposition, to indicate that it is different.
A senior netizen pointed out: "unconventional" is similar to the word "wonderful", and they all have unique meanings.
It is said that during the Eastern Jin Dynasty, the Buddhist scholar Zhi Daolin befriended Wang Xizhi, Xie An and other famous people. Because they both liked to discuss, they often got together to study the Zhuangzi, a philosophical classic written by Zhuang Zhou during the Warring States period.
In the essay "Zhuangzi", there is such an article -------- "Getaway". Because the writing of "The Getaway" is too obscure, it is called the most difficult work to understand. At that time, many celebrities and celebrities had studied this article in depth, but they never understood the meaning of this article.
After reading this article, Zhi Daolin actually had a unique opinion, and his opinion was called very unconventional by Wang Xizhi, Xie An and other celebrities. Since then, there has been a Chinese idiom of "being unconventional".
The veteran netizen went on to point out that "being unconventional" is an expression of a point of view, which is unconventional and often surprising or incredible.
In fact, this senior netizen's statement is still very reasonable. No, the woman Zheng had a special statement about the bride price when she was asking for marriage on the Internet, and her statement was called "unusual" by netizens?
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
Zheng, a 30-year-old woman this year, is a person who dares to "be different", and in her concept, there is only innovation, not conservatism. She feels that you can't stick to the rules when you are a person, you must have novel ideas, and only in this way can you be unique.
The woman Zheng is single, and because she has reached the marriageable age, she plans to seek marriage for herself through the Internet. But in the requirements for marriage, the woman Zheng began to "stand out from the crowd" again. She pointed out that it was not easy for her parents to raise her, and in order to be able to grow up, she spent a lot of effort, and she should ask for some bride price for her parents.
But in terms of the amount of bride price requested, the woman Zheng proposed that it should be calculated according to her weight, 5,000 yuan per catty! After all, there is also a cost to grow a pound of flesh in the body, and these costs need to be returned to the parents.
As for how much Zheng weighs, Zheng did not say, and according to the lowest estimate of netizens, at least 100 catties weigh, even if it is calculated according to the weight of 100 catties, if you want to marry Zheng, you need to pay 500,000 yuan just for the bride price! After calculating this account, netizens shouted: I can't afford to marry.
So, what do netizens say?
Next, let's take a look at what netizens have to say.
Netizen voices
Netizen Spring Story: According to my visual measurements, Zheng's weight is at least 150 pounds, which is 750,000 yuan, and the price of such a bride price is ridiculously high.
Netizen years are like songs: Zheng is not "unconventional", but "out of line", calculating the bride price by weight, I have heard of it for the first time!
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
The bride price is known as one of the "New Three Mountains".
A marriage and love expert said that in the fifties and sixties of the last century, pulling a few feet of flower cloth and taking ten catties and eight catties of cotton was considered a bride price, and today's bride price is often 100,000, hundreds of thousands, and millions of yuan. The high-priced bride price should be closed!
Lao Hu believes that although Zheng's method of calculating the bride price by weight is unconventional, her unconventionality is a bit exaggerated, which is difficult for many families to accept. Based on this, Lao Hu suggested that Zheng ask for a bride price in a reasonable way, otherwise, I am afraid that he will not be able to get married!
What do you think?