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Fang Ze'an: Tie Han has taken care of his wife tenderly for more than 20 years, keeping in mind the party's kindness and not forgetting his original intention to contribute to society

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Fang Ze'an: Tie Han has taken care of his wife tenderly for more than 20 years, keeping in mind the party's kindness and not forgetting his original intention to contribute to society

Fang Ze'an, male, Han nationality, born in October 1956, member of the Communist Party of China, secretary of the Party branch of the Volunteer Service Center of Dahuaishu Square, Xingfu Street, Huaiyin District.

From a laid-off worker who is in trouble and desperate to a model representative who serves the society, in the past 20 years, Fang Ze'an has taken meticulous care of his vegetative wife, while keeping in mind the party's kindness and contributing to society. He convened alumni to set up the "Combat Hero Yuan Yongfu Studio", raised more than 70,000 yuan by himself, found his own information, worked overtime, and completed and published a memoir of up to 350,000 words in less than two years, helping the old hero realize his wishes, leaving a precious book of patriotism and heroism to future generations. He took the lead in setting up a hotline volunteer team, adhered to the "six hearts" work method of enthusiasm, patience, sincerity, heart-to-heart, heart, and warmth, and served the masses in an all-round way, which was highly praised by the masses.

Took care of his vegetative wife for 26 years without regrets

Fang Ze'an originally had a happy family, the husband and wife fell in love freely, had a very strong relationship, and kept it for life.

In August 1998, his wife suddenly suffered from a massive cerebral hemorrhage, and was rescued by two consecutive craniotomys, although her life was saved, but since then she has been bedridden and in a vegetative state. Fang Ze'an said that as long as my wife is there, I still have a home, and my children still have a mother! Since his wife was discharged from the hospital, he has been by his side in vain and black. In order to prevent bedsores, Fang Ze'an massaged his wife several times a day, turned over and wiped. His wife could not eat on her own, so he beat the food into a paste and squeezed it little by little with a stomach tube. He couldn't accept the doctor's conclusion emotionally, and insisted on using a flatbed cart to push his unconscious wife to seek medical treatment in major hospitals in the provincial capital, even small clinics and small home remedies. Hearing that the words and singing of relatives help wake up vegetative people, Fang Ze'an sang the songs he sang together for his wife every day, and played the tapes of his wife's favorite songs and the recordings of his past singing, which never stopped for more than 1,000 days in three and a half years. "Vain Eyebrows" and "Honghu Water Waves" are his wife's favorite songs before her illness, he keeps singing with tears in his eyes every day, and he insists on singing even when his voice is hoarse. Finally, after dinner, my wife's eyes moved, and tears still hung in the corners of her eyes. My wife, who has been sleeping for more than three years, really has a consciousness! At this time, Fang Ze'an was surprised and delighted, and cried loudly: "My wife is awake!" ”

However, life was even more difficult in the future.

In 2001, the wife had just come out of a vegetative state, but the couple's company closed down one after another. Fang Zean was laid off, with an unemployment allowance of only more than 200 yuan per month, and his wife stopped paying her salary when she was sick and could not go to work until she retired from illness a few years later. Right now, let alone treating his wife, even basic living is a problem. On the one hand, his wife needs to continue treatment, on the other hand, his son, who is studying in an art school and is about to enter college, needs a lot of tuition, plus the more than 100,000 yuan he borrowed for his wife's treatment before, and the pressure has put Fang Zean in an extremely difficult situation. In desperation, he gritted his teeth and sold his only house to solve his urgent need. However, this is not a long-term solution. Fang Ze'an has been a person who refuses to admit defeat since he was young, he is self-reliant, put down his son, works hard day and night, rents a small front room to do funeral services, operators in this industry generally only sell wreaths, urns, etc., and the kind-hearted Fang Ze'an also helps people handle funerals. At the same time, in order to facilitate the care of his wife, he carried his wife into the store, lived there, and did massage while soliciting business. The pressure of unemployment, debt, severe overdraft of energy and physical strength, and the depression of living in the funeral supplies and life and death environment every day often made him feel in a trance, dizzy, and weak...... Life is so difficult, but Fang Ze'an has never given up on his wife's rehabilitation. Ten years, twenty years...... For nearly 10,000 days and nights, black hair turned into white hair, middle-aged became old, and the wheelchairs used to push his wife were changed 5 times, but he had no regrets, he had no regrets, he took care of his low-minded and sickly wife meticulously, and never had a bedsore.

In order to fulfill the promise he made to his wife when he was young, after his wife's condition improved and consulted a doctor, he took out the meager income he had saved over the years, put on a wheelchair, carried a shoulder bag, prepared enough diapers, and took her to Beijing, Qingdao, Nanjing and other places to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. He pushed his wife to the hospital to see a doctor, bask in the sun in the park, go out by train, and after years of drug treatment, his wife lost her hair, and many people mistakenly thought that Fang Zean was pushing his mother, but Fang Zean always said unabashedly that it was his wife, which attracted praise from passers-by. Once, his wife smiled helplessly in the mirror, which made Fang Ze's heart sour, and since then, he has paid special attention to his wife's clothing, and he has bought more than 20 fashionable hats alone. In fact, under the huge mental and life pressure, Fang Ze'an was not in good physical condition, and successively suffered from aplastic anemia, thymoma and surgery for more than 20 centimeters. He said that he must not fall down for his wife, and he will guard her for the rest of his life.

Fang Ze'an: Tie Han has taken care of his wife tenderly for more than 20 years, keeping in mind the party's kindness and not forgetting his original intention to contribute to society

Keep in mind the party's kindness and contribute to society

Fang Ze'an said that perhaps he has endured hardships and hardships, and he can best understand the difficulty of encountering disasters. Although his life was poor, Fang Ze'an donated money and materials to children and poor people in mountainous areas dozens of times. When he heard about the earthquake in Ya'an, Sichuan Province in 2013, he immediately donated his wife's 1,700 yuan salary to the disaster area through the Provincial Red Cross Society. Fang Ze'an said that for people living in difficulty, money and goods are important, but it is even more important to get the warmth of the heart.

Some people say that Fang Ze is very soft and can't see others in difficulty. Once I participated in a public welfare activity, I met Yuan Yongfu, a combat hero who had participated in the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, the War of Liberation, and the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea. This veteran hero has made 14 combat exploits, among which he was awarded a first-class meritorious service in the Jinan Campaign, was awarded the title of "Second-Class People's Hero" by the East China Field Army, and was rated as a "combat model" by the Luzhong Military Region. Yuan Yongfu revealed in his speech that he wanted to write a memoir, but he was powerless and difficult to complete. Fang Ze'an has admired heroes since he was a child, and immediately agreed. He summoned several alumni who were once Jinan No. 11 Middle School to set up the "Combat Hero Yuan Yongfu Studio", raised more than 70,000 yuan of funds, found information by himself, worked overtime, and helped the old hero complete and publish a memoir of up to 350,000 words in less than two years.

As one of the largest public rental housing communities in Jinan, Shun'an Community has residents from all over the city, with many elderly people, many low-income groups, and many troubles, making community management very difficult. In order to repay the care and help of the society, Fang Zean took the lead in setting up a hotline volunteer team to serve the masses in an all-round way. In view of the fact that there are many elderly people living alone in the community, he took the lead in setting up a "group pension mutual aid group" to formulate a mutual aid convention, so that everyone can put the keys together in case of mutual aid emergency. More than 30 neighbors showed their strengths, mediated family conflicts in a good way, helped people sew clothes skillfully, and helped people get haircuts for free. Some of the elderly in the community with limited mobility have also received intimate care from volunteers, who take turns to deliver meals when they are sick and hospitalized, take care of each other at weddings and funerals, help dismantle and sew bedding, pedicures, dump household garbage, and all kinds of small things in the community can be responded to. Especially in the three years of the epidemic, the pension mutual aid group has played an important role, so that the elderly can rest assured, their children can rest assured, and the government can rest assured.

Fang Ze'an is a low-income person, and the pension of the two sick people adds up to five or six thousand yuan, and his wife has expenses for treatment every month. But he is generous, not stingy, and the neighbors joke that he is "poor" and generous. In 2019, Fang Ze'an was rated as a moral model in the city and was rewarded with 2,000 yuan, and he immediately took it out to install 10 open-air seats in the community square to facilitate the elderly and disabled to rest temporarily. Caring people sent condolences money, and he also took out most of it for public welfare. Seeing the sanitation workers' hard work and cold hands in winter, he bought hundreds of pairs of leather gloves for them. Every winter solstice and small year, he will also buy tops and fillings, and invite the elderly and sanitation workers to the call center to make dumplings and talk about homely things.

Fang Ze'an: Tie Han has taken care of his wife tenderly for more than 20 years, keeping in mind the party's kindness and not forgetting his original intention to contribute to society

In October 2017, the "Fang Ze'an Hotline" was officially established. He adheres to the "six hearts" work method of enthusiasm, patience, sincerity, heart-to-heart, heart and heart, and serves residents in an all-round way around the two themes of conflict and dispute resolution and volunteer service for the convenience and benefit of the people. Up to now, the "Fang Ze'an Hotline" has received more than 400 visits and calls for consultation and mediation, received more than 20 banners, and held more than 500 volunteer service activities, serving more than 400 people from Shun'an community residents and Xingfu Street to Jinan West Railway Station, and received more than 400 letters of praise from inside and outside the province. The service content has extended from the initial mediation of neighborhood conflicts to various volunteer service projects for the convenience and benefit of the people, such as free haircuts, sewing clothes, vehicle maintenance, massage and massage, and a number of hotline volunteer service teams have been set up to deeply participate in various key work in the street and community. During the fight against the epidemic, Fang Zean accompanied his wife to the hospital for dialysis, and he saw that the hospital was short of manpower, so he took the initiative to apply to be a volunteer, put on an isolation gown, help with registration, disinfection, nucleic acid testing, and clean up garbage. When his wife was being treated in a rehabilitation center, he saw that many lonely elderly people were depressed, so he took the initiative to come forward to talk and chat, and asked some caring teams to come to carry out volunteer services, donate goods, and carry out theatrical performances, and the old people showed a long-lost smile.

Fang Ze'an: Tie Han has taken care of his wife tenderly for more than 20 years, keeping in mind the party's kindness and not forgetting his original intention to contribute to society

With the development and expansion of the hotline, on March 4, 2023, the "Fang Ze'an Hotline" Volunteer Service Center was officially unveiled in Dahuaishu Square, Xingfu Temple, Huaiyin District, continuing to uphold the purpose of "serving the community and relieving worries for the party committee and government", actively participating in community grassroots governance, and continuously expanding volunteer service projects. He contacted and led the students of the School of Acupuncture, Moxibustion and Massage of Shandong University of Traditional Chinese Medicine to actively participate in social practice, go deep into communities, squares and parks, do massage, acupuncture, physiotherapy for the elderly and disabled, and explain health knowledge. Through the establishment of "Confucius Classrooms" in volunteer service centers, young people and community corrections personnel are guided to learn virtues and good deeds such as filial piety, diligence, thrift, friendliness, and integrity, and to disseminate excellent traditional culture externally, and to unite the spiritual strength of the masses internally. On April 17, 2024, Jinan No. 2 Prison held a special education activity of "Moral Model Propaganda and Transmission of Role Model Power", Fang Ze'an, as a law enforcement supervisor, was invited to carry out moral education and publicity for prisoners.

Fang Ze'an: Tie Han has taken care of his wife tenderly for more than 20 years, keeping in mind the party's kindness and not forgetting his original intention to contribute to society

Fang Ze'an has been hired as an off-campus counselor by many high schools and primary schools in the urban area, and has given nearly 30 lectures on campus. He often takes his classmates to villages, martyrs' memorials, railway stations, subways, and square parks to carry out volunteer service activities. As a member of the "Chinese Dream • Moderately Prosperous" propaganda team, he has made more than ten reports in party schools, enterprise groups, universities, and villages of municipal and district organs, and has always helped residents solve their worries and worries with great enthusiasm and patience, so that the "Yugong Spirit" and civilized practice of volunteer service in the new era collide with new sparks.