01
It is said that the daughter who marries out spills the water. When a woman gets married, she must have a clear understanding of the current situation, and she must have a vision when she returns to her parents' home.
My name is Zhong Min and I have been married to my husband for 5 years. Every time I go back to my parents' house, I always prepare a large bag in advance. After I returned, I was afraid that my sister-in-law would show me a look, so I always rushed to do it and buy things.
It's not that I'm groveling, it's that I can't bear to have my parents compromised for me. My sister-in-law went back to her parents' house and was cautious and swallowed her anger. I thought my sister-in-law would do the same.
But I overestimated my sister-in-law, relying on her in-laws to be an elderly daughter, even if she is married, she still likes to go back to her parents' house to point fingers, which is not pleasing to the eye.
02
When my husband and I got married, we had just moved into a new house, and my in-laws moved in with my sister-in-law, who was 24 years old at the time.
I desperately shook my head and refused, signaling my husband to refuse with my eyes. But as soon as the in-laws cried and begged, and as soon as they pulled out how hard they had pulled the two older children, the husband relented and compromised.
My in-laws and sister-in-law moved in, and my husband's two-person world naturally came to an end. I was very unhappy, I felt that my in-laws' family was very excessive, and I had to live with my in-laws' family before I lived in a two-person world.
I had a hard time, but my husband was very adaptable, saying that living with his parents, there were people to cook, someone to do hygiene, and someone to do housework, so why not do it?
03
I lived a collective life in my in-law's family in this way, and the quality of life was naturally none. And a year later, my sister-in-law got married, and I was happy for a long time.
I thought that when my sister-in-law got married, my in-laws would go back to my hometown, and we would be able to resume the life of a family of three. As a result, after the sister-in-law got married, not only did there be no fewer people in the family, but there was another brother-in-law to eat.
The sister-in-law's mother-in-law and her mother's house are not far apart, but the sister-in-law did not go to her mother-in-law's house to eat after marriage, but came back to her mother's house every day to eat. Every day, as soon as the meal arrived, the mother-in-law called the sister-in-law and asked them to come over quickly.
At first, I didn't care too much, two more people are nothing more than two more pairs of chopsticks, which are not worth much. Tearing up his face with his mother-in-law for this matter, he will be coerced by his mother-in-law not to help take care of the children.
04
However, the sister-in-law is not a person who keeps to herself. While rushing to my house every day, eating and drinking, he complained about my cooking skills and living standards, saying that I was stingy and unwilling to spend money.
After being told several times by my sister-in-law, I was a little angry. As a result, all the in-laws came to persuade me, I am the eldest sister-in-law, be generous to my sister-in-law, don't be stingy.
For the sake of family harmony and conjugal affection, I did not mention it again. However, some people just don't have the eyesight to see. The more you tolerate her, the more she will have to do it.
Under my compromise and tolerance, my sister-in-law became more and more arrogant and willful. When others go to eat, they will always pick up their tails and be a man, and they will not point fingers. But the sister-in-law is the opposite, the more she comes to rub the rice, the more picky means and times she has.
05
On my mother-in-law's 60th birthday, I got up early in the morning and started to talk. It took several hours for one person to put out a large table of food. As soon as my meal was served, my sister-in-law pinched it and brought her husband back to eat.
For the sake of my mother-in-law's birthday and helping me take care of the children, I didn't complain that my sister-in-law was cheating and playing tricks, pinching some to rub the rice. As a result, the sister-in-law sat at the dinner table, picked up a piece of meat, disliked that the meat was old and firewood, and threw it back, and then picked up a piece of meat and smelled it, but she disliked the smell and couldn't eat it.
After this, the sister-in-law had already sandwiched the whole table of dishes, but complained that the meals on this large table were not to her liking. She's pregnant now, and she's delicate.
The sister-in-law's words made the mother-in-law's family overjoyed. My sister-in-law has been married for 2 years, but there has been no good news about her stomach. Not only did her in-laws often give birth, but even she herself began to get anxious.
06
Fortunately, God treated her well, and after more than a year of hard work, she finally got pregnant as she wished. Seeing that the whole family was revolving around me, my sister-in-law was even more picky about my food, and she was also coquettish to her mother-in-law and husband, saying that she was greedy for something now, and asked her sister-in-law to make it for me.
My husband was a little embarrassed, but he still motioned with his eyes for me to meet my sister-in-law's request. I had no choice but to go to the supermarket to buy the ingredients and make sweet and sour pork ribs for my sister-in-law that she likes to eat.
As a result, people either disliked putting too much sugar, or complained that the vinegar was too little, which did not suit her appetite, threw the chopsticks, and had a seizure in front of everyone, and asked me to make a stewed prawn for her again.
I was so angry that I worked hard back and forth for an hour, and as a result, people dropped their chopsticks when they said that it was not delicious. I couldn't bear it anymore, so I directly issued an eviction order, whether I like to eat or not, and if I don't eat, I will pull people down and leave.
07
Seeing that I drove my beloved daughter away, my mother-in-law was furious, and without saying a word, she raised her hand and slapped me, saying that this is my son's home, and you are not qualified to be the master of the house and bully my daughter.
Covering the left side of my face that was beaten, I was blindfolded for a while. After reacting, I looked at my husband, but instead of standing up for me, he advised me to let his mother and sister do more in everything. His sister is now pregnant, and the whole family has to hold her and coax her.
I sneered, my sister-in-law was pregnant, and the whole family was on high alert and cared for. But when I was pregnant, my in-laws didn't take me seriously.
The mother-in-law even said that if a woman does not get pregnant and give birth to a child, you will be hypocritical, and you will not even be able to go to a class or cook. So, when I was pregnant, I worked until I was in labor. As soon as I finished my maternity leave, I immediately returned to work, for fear that my husband would be under too much financial pressure alone.
I will take out the divorce agreement and have a showdown with my husband, either send your parents away, or we will divorce, and you will live with your parents in the future. Brutal and willful sister-in-law, I have already served enough.