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Love is an indispensable emotional need in human life, it gives us warmth, strength and courage, so that we are no longer alone on the road of life.
However, love is a wonderful opportunity that can be met but not sought, not everyone can love and be loved properly, and there are many people who can't ask for love in life.
If a woman lacks love for a long time, there will be these 3 abnormal manifestations, see if you have them
01: Emotionally closed, difficult to establish intimate relationships
Some people believe because they see, and some people see because they believe. For some women who have been lacking love for a long time, they no longer believe in love because they have never seen it.
These women tend to exhibit a closed state emotionally. They may have been hurt in the past, or they may have developed fears and insecurities about love and relationships for a variety of reasons.
In this state, it is often difficult for them to establish intimate relationships with others, and even when faced with other people's overtures, they will instinctively resist and avoid.
This kind of emotional closure can make those around them feel cold and unapproachable. But in reality, it is just the result of their deepest desire for love and fear.
They need to learn to open their hearts and rebuild trust in love. It may take time and patience, but as long as there is an expectation of love, they can surely reap an abundance of love.
02: Self-denial, lack of self-confidence and sense of worth
The saddest thing about women is to have a "sense of unworthiness", and for those women who have been lacking love for a long time, this sense of unworthiness will make their lives full of gloom.
They will self-deny because of the lack of love nourishment, feel that they are not worthy of love, worthless, and have a bias in their self-evaluation. This kind of self-denial mentality will further lead to a lack of self-confidence in life and work, and it is difficult for them to fully realize their abilities and potential.
This manifestation of self-denial can cause them to miss out on many opportunities and even affect their mental health.
Therefore, it is crucial for such women to reinvent their self-perception and build self-confidence and a sense of worth.
Only when they themselves believe that they are worthy of love can they meet the love that belongs to them.
03: Over-dependence, seeking external recognition and comfort
The more things they don't get, the more persistent people will be, and the more they will cherish them. That's why we often say that money goes to those who don't lack money, and love goes to those who don't lack love.
A woman who has been lacking love for a long time will want to try to catch it once someone is a little bit kind to her. They can show a state of over-dependence in their relationships.
They may overly seek the approval and comfort of others to fill the emptiness and insecurity in their hearts, or even give up their bottom line just to maintain a relationship where they feel loved.
This over-dependence can make them passive and vulnerable in their relationships, as well as more vulnerable.
A healthy relationship should be built on an equal footing, and if a woman is required to constantly accommodate and retreat to maintain, it will be difficult for the relationship to be truly loved.
Being loved is a happy thing, but being loved is never the whole of life.
A woman who has been lacking love for a long time can learn to build a healthy relationship by focusing on her emotional needs and finding someone who can give her emotional value to love herself.
But if there is really a little less luck and there is no one who loves you, we can also love ourselves.
Love is not something that can only be given by others, you can also be the one who nourishes yourself. I hope that every woman can be loved, loved, and enjoy her life in love.
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