In married life, what we fear most is that our partner is unfaithful to us, which is also the final bottom line for most people.
However, in life, once some men are separated from their wives, it is basically difficult to be faithful, and of course, there are also men who will always stick to their bottom line and be very dedicated to their wives.
In reality, some couples can indeed be faithful, while some couples are not so lucky, and the most important factor affecting their marriage is the long-term separation of husband and wife.
So, couples who have been separated for a long time, will the man still love his wife exclusively? The real thoughts of the three men may allow you to find the answer in it.
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Mr. Liu: Persistence and commitment
My wife and I have been married for five years, and we have had to be separated for a long time because of our work. I worked in a big city in the south, while she taught in her hometown in the north.
Although we are thousands of miles apart, my love for her has never changed. In the dead of night, I think of her gentle smile and the sweet moments we spent together.
I know that a long-distance separation is a huge test for a couple's feelings. But I always believe that as long as we have love in our hearts, and we have commitment and perseverance to each other, we can overcome all difficulties.
I would call her every day and send her WeChat messages to share our lives and moods. Whenever I have a holiday, I don't hesitate to fly back to see her and surprise her.
I know it's not easy to be single-minded in this world of temptation. But I never wavered. Because in my heart, my wife is the most important person and the most precious treasure in my life. I'm willing to do whatever it takes for her.
I believe that as long as we continue to support each other, understand each other, and trust each other, our love will be like this distance, longer and tighter.
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Mr. Li: Challenge and Growth
My wife and I have been married for three years and we have had to live apart for a long time due to the demands of work. I work abroad and she is at home. This separation has been both a challenge and a growth for me.
In my days in a foreign country, I often felt lonely and lonely. But every now and then, I think of my wife's smiling face and the good times we spent together.
These memories give me the strength to persevere. I know that she is also quietly supporting me at home and working hard for our future.
In the process, I also learned to cherish the time I spend with my wife even more. Whenever we go back to China for vacation, we try to arrange some romantic activities to enhance each other's feelings.
At the same time, I will pay more attention to my wife's needs and feelings in my daily life, and strive to become a better husband.
On the issue of single-mindedness, I think the key is to look at the individual's mindset and choices. In the case of long-distance separation, there are indeed more temptations and challenges. But as long as we have love, responsibility, and reverence for marriage in our hearts, we can remain single-minded and faithful.
For me, my wife is one of the most important people in my life, and I am willing to do anything for her.
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Mr. Gao: Some things can't be avoided
My wife and I have been married for six years, and for the sake of my family's livelihood, I chose to leave my hometown to work in other places. In the past six years, we have lived a life of gathering less and leaving more, and I am well aware of the difficulties and hardships.
When I first arrived in other places, I worked hard with the longing for my family and the hope for the future, hoping to create better living conditions for my family.
My wife often cares about me at home, and she worries that I can't eat or live well when I'm out alone, and I'm tired and tired. At that time, her concern was like a spring breeze, which made me feel warm.
However, as time went on, the communication between us gradually decreased. My wife may be busy with chores at home, or she may be used to my independent life and no longer contact me as often as she used to.
I began to feel empty and lonely inside, and without her care, I felt that life had lost its color. Although my income has increased every month, I am tired of mental emptiness.
Sometimes, I miss her in the dead of night and the good times we used to spend together. However, I knew that as a man, I needed to take on the responsibilities of my family, so I chose to persevere.
When asked if he could remain faithful to his wife, Mr. Gao smiled helplessly.
I admit that I did do things out of the ordinary at some point during a long period of long-distance separation, he said. But this is not my intention, it is just that the physical and psychological needs are unavoidable. However, I always loved my wife so much in my heart that I never thought of leaving her.
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Living apart from each other is a torture for both husband and wife, but on the other hand, it is also a test of feelings.
And those men who can pass the test are undoubtedly qualified husbands and really good men.
In fact, in life, most men will be loyal to their wives, after all, the purpose of their original going out is to make the life of the family better.
Therefore, I also hope that women can give their husbands more care and understanding, and at the same time more trust, so as not to alienate the relationship between husband and wife because of separation.