After Qiongqiong and her boyfriend fell in love for three years, the two decided to enter the palace of marriage. The two have a very happy life after marriage, and her husband takes care of his family and spoils his wife, which makes Qiongqiong feel that the future is promising.
However, what bothers Qiongqiong is that her husband has a strong desire, and it was okay at first, and both of them were quite happy.
But after a long time, Qiongqiong is a little unbearable, after all, she has to go to work during the day, and she has to deal with her husband's "bed work" when she goes home at night, which is really stressful.
It's really unbearable, so I will find some reasons to refuse, but it slowly caused my husband's dissatisfaction, and the two even had a conflict because of it.
There are actually many men with high sexual needs like Qiongqiong's husband in life, so why are men keen on sex?
1. Many men are keen on sex for three reasons
A harmonious sex life helps to promote the relationship between husband and wife, and many men are keen on sex, mainly related to the following reasons!
1. Release pressure
After marriage, men will feel tired when they are coerced by the multiple pressures of life, work, family, etc., and through sexual life, they can relax appropriately and release the pressure.
2. Hormone level effect
During sexual activity, testosterone appears in the blood of men, which stimulates the production of male hormones, resulting in sexual urges, sexual desires, excitement, etc.
3. Psychological satisfaction
Many men have a sense of emptiness after marriage, and sex can give men a certain sense of psychological satisfaction, relax and enhance the relationship between husband and wife.
In addition to this, men who have sex properly also reap the benefits of delaying Alzheimer's disease, relieving pain, antidepressant, and erasing some unpleasant memories.
It is generally normal for men to have strong needs, especially at a young age. However, if it is unusually strong or even causes serious discomfort in the body, it is recommended to seek medical attention in time for diagnosis and treatment.
Second, there is also the best time to have a room, good morning or evening?
There are also various different theories circulating on the Internet about when it is better to have sex together.
Research from Harvard Medical School found that having sex around 10 p.m. allows both partners to be more engaged, and sex is a physically demanding activity, so you can fall asleep better after sex.
However, sexologists believe that 6-8 o'clock in the morning is the best time to have intercourse, because after a night's sleep, both parties have physical strength, energy, and high concentrations of male adrenal hormones, which can quickly enter the state and get a great sense of satisfaction.
In fact, sex itself is a matter of both couples' emotions and states, and there is no need to care too much about the rules and regulations, as long as both parties are in the state.
And due to the constraints of real conditions, it is not practical for many couples to have sex in the morning, there is no need to force marital life during this time period, and it is quite good to experience it occasionally on weekends.
3. Too strong demand affects life, and four ways can help solve it
Harmonious sex life is an important part of the couple's relationship and contributes to the stability of the marriage, but some people may cause conflicts if they are too desired.
Experts from Shanghai Jiulong Hospital reminded that if your libido is too strong and affects your life, you can try the following methods to alleviate it.
1. Make a daily schedule
You can make a daily schedule and strictly schedule what you want to do, reducing loneliness, sexual fantasies, etc.
2. Quit pornographic films
Usually watch less pornographic books and movies, and do something else to distract yourself when you have related thoughts.
3. Vent excess energy
During the day, you can skip rope, play ball, exercise, etc., and you can also socialize with others more to vent excess energy and dilute sexual needs.
4. Develop a healthy sense of sexuality
Sex is not terrible, what is terrible is being controlled by sex, and you must develop a healthy sexual concept.
Men seem to have a higher need for sex than women, and the main reasons may be related to hormone levels, psychological satisfaction, etc.
For people who are too desired, experts suggest that it can be improved by creating a schedule, quitting pornography, etc.
Resources:
[1] "Sex Life, Is It Good Evening or Good Morning?" The best time of day to have sex turned out to be ......". Family Doctor.2024-01-08 12
[2] "When is the best time of the day to have sex?" It wasn't even night". Family Doctor.2020-08-14
[3] "What should I do if the subject's desire for xing is too strong and I can't resist? ”》. Shanghai Jiulong Hospital.2023-07-22
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