In this era of looking at appearance, weight seems to have become an important criterion for measuring a person's beauty and ugliness. However, the story I'm going to tell you today makes us revisit this concept. The protagonist of the story is a fat bride who weighs 200 pounds, and when she appeared in front of the camera, the reaction of netizens was unexpected: ugly and fat, it turns out that there is really no direct relationship!
My name is Xiaoya, I am 28 years old, and I was born in an ordinary family. My parents, who are ordinary office workers, have high expectations for me and want me to live a happy life. I've been working hard to live up to their expectations.
My job is an ordinary office clerk who works from 9 to 5 every day, and my life is dull and fulfilling. However, I have a hard-to-talk secret – my weight. Yes, I am a fat girl who weighs 200 pounds.
When I was a child, I didn't think I was fat, but I thought I was cute. But as I got older, I became aware of my weight. Every time I see myself in the mirror, I feel a wave of loss and low self-esteem. I started trying various ways to lose weight, but the results were not satisfactory.
Just when I was despairing of my weight, I met him – my fiancé, Xiao Ming. He was a sunny, cheerful boy who was very nice to me. He never disliked my weight, but thought I was cute. With his encouragement, I gradually came out of the shadow of low self-esteem and began to face my weight bravely.
Our relationship is getting better and better, and we decided to enter the palace of marriage. However, in the process of preparing for the wedding, I encountered a difficult problem - the wedding dress. Because of my weight, it was difficult to find the right wedding dress. After trying on a few bridal shops, I was a little disheartened.
Just when I was about to give up, a custom bridal shop gave me hope. They said they could tailor a wedding dress for me. After a period of waiting, I finally saw my wedding dress. It is a simple and elegant wedding dress that perfectly conceals my body flaws and makes me look more beautiful and moving.
On my wedding day, I walked on the red carpet wearing that custom-made wedding dress. When I appeared in front of the camera, I saw myself - although I still weighed 200 pounds, I had a happy smile on my face and confidence in my eyes. At that moment, I felt a beauty that I had never felt before.
After seeing my photo, netizens left messages to express their surprise and appreciation. Someone said: "Seeing Xiaoya's smile, I feel her happiness and confidence." There really isn't a direct relationship between ugliness and fatness! Another person said: "Xiaoya used her smile and confidence to tell us that true beauty is inner strength." ”
I was very touched and relieved to see these messages. I know that I am not the most beautiful, but I have proved in my own way that weight does not determine a person's beauty or ugliness. True beauty comes from inner confidence and strength.
Looking back on my weight loss journey, I know that losing weight is not easy. But I believe that as long as we have enough perseverance and perseverance, we will be able to overcome the weight problem. At the same time, I also hope that more people can be like me, bravely face their weight problems, and not feel inferior and depressed because of their weight.
Now, I have lived happily ever after with Xiao Ming. We support and encourage each other to face life's challenges together.