Tantrums seem to be an inevitable part of a child's growth.
Many parents often feel overwhelmed when faced with their children's emotional outbursts, and even take drastic measures to suppress their children's emotions.
However, if we can think differently and allow children to lose their temper moderately, we may be able to "get a blessing in disguise" and harvest an emotionally stable baby.
First of all, we need to understand that a child's tantrum is actually a normal way of expressing their emotions. Children are often unable to deal with emotions as rationally as adults due to their age and cognitive limitations.
Therefore, when they encounter frustration, dissatisfaction, or incomprehensible problems, tantrums become a natural reaction. At this time, if parents can give their children enough understanding and tolerance, and allow them to vent their emotions moderately, then children will be able to better feel the support and understanding of their parents, which will help to build trust and intimacy between parents and children.
Second, allowing children to lose their temper does not mean letting their emotions go. While allowing children to vent their emotions, parents should also teach them how to express and deal with emotions correctly.
For example, you can guide your child to describe his feelings in words, or to express his emotions through drawing, journaling, etc. This will not only allow children to better understand their inner world, but also develop their emotional management skills.
In addition, there are some specific ways for parents to help their children stabilize their emotions. For example, when setting a regular routine
ensure that your child gets enough sleep and eats a reasonable diet; Encourage your child to participate in outdoor activities and sports to release excess energy; Guide your child to learn some relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing, meditation, etc., to relieve tension.
Finally, it's worth noting that allowing children to lose their temper doesn't mean condoning their bad behavior. If a child has aggressive or destructive behavior during a tantrum, parents still need to stop and educate them in time. At the same time, parents should also maintain their own emotional stability and avoid falling into an emotional state due to their children's emotional outbursts.
To sum up, allowing children to lose their temper moderately may be able to "be a blessing in disguise", help children better deal with emotions, and develop emotionally stable and strong inner qualities. Of course, this requires more patience and care from parents to understand and accompany their children's growth process. Only in this way can we harvest an emotionally stable, healthy and happy baby.