Love is more than just words, it needs to be put into action. As a woman, I appeal to everyone to stop being fooled by hypocrisy, because sweet words alone will not solve the problem. The reality of society requires us to be stronger.
Sometimes, listening too much sweet talk can make us lose ourselves in a beautiful fantasy for a while, but when we wake up, we find that we have not received anything in return. This situation is not inevitable, and we need to keep a clear head and a sane perspective to avoid getting lost in the emotional world.
In Ximei's view, love is not just a symbol of romance, but should be another home that can make people let down their guards. Love can be our spiritual pure land in addition to our loved ones and family, a place where we can feel unconditionally giving and receiving.
When a man truly cherishes you, you feel incredibly relaxed with him. This is because He is willing to invest time and energy in maintaining your relationship so that you don't have to worry and worry about it. By his side, you can let go of all your burdens and enjoy true pleasure.
Because, if the man you love dearly really loves you, he will express his emotions without reservation. You don't have to bother guessing his mind or trying to figure out his emotions all the time. In other words, the man who loves you will naturally express his feelings of joy, anger, sadness, etc.
Men are not ignorant. If he's not honest enough with you, it's most likely because he hasn't fully fallen in love with you yet. Although a man is sometimes not very good at expressing himself, if he truly loves you, he will do everything in his power to make you feel understood and loved.
Note that if a man cares about you, he will be more honest and have no reservations about you.
1. He will be "transparent" with you in terms of making friends
Mr. Yang said that if a man is really in love with a woman, he will take the initiative to bring her into his social circle and let her integrate into his life. This relationship is based on trust and respect, and only in such an atmosphere can the relationship between the two be more harmonious and grow together in the days to come.
Mr. Yang and his current girlfriend are together like they are playing fake. They both knew that they didn't love each other deeply.
Mr. Yang has never dined with his girlfriend or friends. Whenever there is an invitation to a party, he always declines his girlfriend's request. It's his personal habit.
Although my girlfriend hinted many times that she wanted to meet Mr. Yang's friend, I kept refusing her request out of personal opinion.
A man who really cares about you, he always wants to give you security. Even if you don't offer it, he will still take the initiative to bring his life to you and sincerely introduce his friends to you. This is what He wants to show you His world and prove your importance in His life. Such men are worthy of your reliance and trust because they genuinely care about your feelings and needs.
If a man doesn't love you, he will never let you into his social circle. This is a clear signal to let you know that he doesn't want you to be an important person in his life.
Because he can leave at any time while he's with you, he's reluctant to let you get too deep into his private life. He worries that it will end up bothering you and entangled.
This is very obvious, when a man really loves you, his social network will be very transparent and you will not have to make foolish mistakes again.
2. He will be "transparent" to you about his income
Mr. Lee believes that one of the best things a man can do to a woman is to give her his salary as a way to show his intimacy and trust with a woman. This behavior reflects not only the sense of responsibility and family values of men, but also the partnership between men and women.
Mr. Li and his girlfriend have been together for five years, and although there have been quarrels in the middle, he knows that he has a firm identification with his girlfriend.
He took the initiative to hand over his salary card to his girlfriend for safekeeping, and honestly told her about his savings. This is his responsible attitude towards a healthy relationship, and it also shows his trust and respect for his girlfriend.
When a man decides to join you for the rest of his life, he will treat you as his wife and be willing to share everything with you. It is a real commitment that he will have the responsibility to cherish you and your well-being.
If your partner doesn't care enough about you, he will only talk sweet words but will continue to guard against you in action.
Not only is he reluctant to disclose his salary level, but he also doesn't want to spend extra money for you. Even if he occasionally gives you a small gift, he will always remind you and expect you to return the gift.
It's useless to say more, such a man doesn't care about you at all. In fact, the more men who care about you, the more afraid they are of hiding something from you.
It is no exaggeration to say that he will take the initiative to hand over the salary card to you, and even confess his savings and future plans without you having to force it.
As women, we need to know how to cherish the men who care about us. If he has reached this point, it means that he has put us in his heart and wants to spend his life with us.
3. Be "transparent" with you emotionally
Xiao Liu and her boyfriend are able to maintain a sweet relationship because they never let conflicts accumulate in their hearts and always communicate openly and honestly with an open mind. This is perhaps the most important secret in love.
Xiao Liu had a brief relationship before, but soon broke up.
Because her ex-boyfriend is an introvert, she always keeps her problems in her heart, which leads to indifference to Xiao Liu. Gradually, the contradictions between the two parties deepened day by day, and finally broke up.
Unlike other boyfriends, my boyfriend is always willing to share his emotions with me, whether he is happy or angry, he will tell me.
When there is a disagreement, the boyfriend will take the initiative to communicate with Xiao Liu to discuss a solution. This kind of efficient love helps Xiao Liu and her boyfriend deepen their relationship.
Some men are dissatisfied but refuse to express it, they just wait for the opportunity to explode and finally choose to break up. Such men are not suitable for life because they are always hiding their hearts and cannot really share life with you. It is advisable to keep a distance from such people and not to force a lifetime together.
A lovely man will not be misunderstood, he will be transparent about his emotions and make you his partner. He will share his joys and sorrows, so that you can understand him better and spend it together.
If you have a conflict or quarrel with him, he will take the initiative to communicate with you and face the problem together to solve the problem.
Such a man longs to be with you forever and therefore will not allow bad emotions to stir up disputes between you.
Conclusion:
Don't get the mistaken idea that men don't understand details. It's just that sometimes I don't want to do it.
If a man truly loves you, he will want to be transparent with you. He will take the initiative to confess to you and will not hide anything from you. He doesn't want you to be cranky, so he will do his best to let you know what he thinks and does so that you know what he is all about. This open and honest way of communicating is the foundation of a healthy relationship.
Remember, dear girl, that even if you take the initiative, you will not be able to fully understand the man who does not love you.
The man who really loves you will automatically unfold himself and put himself in front of you even if you are silent.