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Who is creating the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict"?
This is a question worth pondering for mothers.
From the very beginning, many mothers have a bad impression of their mother-in-law, which is also the main factor causing conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
The mother from Henan quarreled with her mother-in-law during the confinement, and the reason was also because she was stimulated by some words circulating on the Internet, and she had a bad impression of her mother-in-law from the beginning of marriage.
After the incident, the mother-in-law also had a tolerance, because the mother-in-law was also confused by her daughter-in-law's operation. I don't know what I've done wrong, and my daughter-in-law will quarrel with me.
The mother-in-law also knew that her daughter-in-law was in the stage of confinement, and she endured it and did not quarrel with her daughter-in-law.
From this incident, it can be seen that the thought of hatred in the heart is the main contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
After many women get married, they are affected by the rumors around them and the gossip on the Internet, and have a bad impression of their mother-in-law, but in the process of getting along, they find fault with their mother-in-law everywhere, so it is easy to break out the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
There are many mothers who are wrong at the beginning, and they are too superstitious about some of other people's statements, which leads to their constant anxiety and stimulates their own anger, but also brings their mother-in-law in.
After getting married, stay away from these people around you:
01
People who create anxiety for themselves
After getting married, every woman is full of unknowns about her future.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also in a sensitive period, if someone creates anxiety for themselves at this time, makes them worry about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and some changes in the relationship between husband and daughter-in-law, you should also stay away from these people.
Because of such anxiety, it is very harmful to a woman's spirit.
People who are prone to anxiety have a very high probability of postpartum depression, and postpartum depression is very scary, so for the sake of their physical and mental health, they should stay away from people with these negative emotions to avoid being created anxious.
02
Indoctrination of negative influences in people
Some families are indeed discordant, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good.
But these people always like to say that his mother-in-law is bad around them, which makes people feel that all mothers-in-law in this world are evil mothers-in-law.
If there are people who inculcate negative influences, they should also stay away to avoid affecting their own family and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Many mothers have been affected from the beginning, have a bad impression of their mother-in-law, always feel that their mother-in-law will target themselves, and will embarrass themselves after marriage, and imagine other people's mother-in-law as their own mother-in-law, if there is such a thought, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also be affected.
Whether the mother-in-law is good or not can only be known after getting along with herself, and it is not something that others can summarize in three or two sentences.
When the mother-in-law treats herself like a daughter, but she hates her mother-in-law, it is only a matter of time before the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law discord.
After marriage, you should avoid being anxious by others, and you should also avoid being stimulated by others. If you want a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you should develop in a good direction, instead of falling deeper and deeper in a bad direction.
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