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The relationship between mother and child is the most precious in this world, and the elderly mother knelt down and begged her daughter to come home, and this operation set off a heated discussion on the Internet.
An old mother was dressed very plainly, and at first glance she was a person who had suffered and been tired, she knelt down directly in the video, shouting over and over again: Child, please go home, tears can't stop flowing. Many netizens said with emotion that seeing their mother like this, their hearts were really very uncomfortable, for the mother, if it weren't for the fact that there was really no way, how could she give up her face to shoot such a video?
But what everyone wants to know more is, what is the reason behind this incident? After all, for a mother and daughter, there shouldn't be such a deep hatred between them, why hasn't the daughter been home to see her relatives for 25 years?
I have to say that in the information age, the speed of news spread is particularly violent, and after the mother's video was posted on the Internet, everyone quickly learned her true identity. This mother is from Liaocheng, and she gave birth to a daughter and two sons. should have enjoyed a peaceful old age and a happy life, but the mother has always had a pimple in her heart, because she and her only daughter have not seen each other for 25 years. She had no idea how her daughter was doing. The older you get, the more you care about your children.
It goes back 25 years, when the mother's daughter fell in love with a young man in Henan. They wanted to be recognized by their families and blessed by their families, but the family had a restrained attitude towards their relationship, and the mother felt that she was just this one daughter, if she married so far, she would not be able to see her in the future, she still hoped that her daughter could stay by her side and be able to accompany herself. No matter what, this daughter, she still insists on her own ideas very much in her heart, and even at that time, in order to chase this love, she is still desperate, ignoring all the advice of her family, and falling out with her family directly.
After a long time, the daughter had little contact with the family, and they couldn't see each other, and there was a serious rift in the relationship. The mother is old and misses this wandering daughter more and more, and the old man's son also stood up and said that he hopes that his sister can return home as soon as possible and be able to reunite with his family.
As for what netizens said, why they don't contact their daughters through other private ways, but want to post such videos on the Internet to disturb people's tranquility, this is actually because technology was not developed enough in the past, and mothers and daughters have lost contact for many years, and they don't know each other's contact information at all, let alone how to let their children go home.
Posting such a kneeling video, posting the news of looking for her daughter, I also feel that the current network coverage is relatively wide, once there is heat and traffic, my daughter will definitely be able to see it, I believe that my daughter is not hard-hearted, even if she has blocked her from chasing happiness, after all, there is no long-standing hatred between mother and child, and this family relationship is likely to have a chance to be repaired.
Such a miraculous operation, but netizens expressed their incomprehension, everyone thinks that since the old man misses his daughter so much, why didn't he think about looking for his daughter after cutting off contact with his daughter in the past? Now that the old man is so old and in good health, when he is old and needs someone to take care of him, he remembers to look for his daughter, is he trying to let his daughter support him?
Some people also say that the daughter is the flesh that fell from the mother's body after all, and in the past 20 years, the mother may not miss her daughter for a day, but she doesn't know how to contact her.
At the same time, some people said that no matter how much the old man misses his daughter, she sends a video of kneeling, such an operation is a kind of moral kidnapping for the girl, not to mention putting all the things in the family on the bright side, which makes the daughter and son-in-law how to do it? Do they want to make it clear to the public that their former relationship was not approved by their families? Won't their lives be affected?
Although everyone feels sorry for the old mother, she is still very sober, and the old man has been expressing her thoughts about her daughter, but every word she says is not her love for her daughter, but showing her condemnation of her daughter. In her words, she has never expressed her concern for her daughter, so many years, more than 20 years have not seen each other, doesn't she care about how her daughter is doing?
After this incident came out, netizens launched a heated discussion, especially the comments of netizens, which made people feel mixed feelings. Everyone can't interfere too much with other people's behavior, maybe none of the situations that netizens thought about appeared, maybe the old man really just wanted to find his daughter, and of course there were other possibilities.
In the past 25 years, too many things have happened, and the estrangement between mother and daughter has become more and more profound.
This incident also set off a discussion about distant marriage. Some netizens think that love is a very wonderful thing, and it will never make any sense when it comes, and parents should give them more support when they face love, and should not become an obstacle on their way to happiness.
Especially for the mentality of the mother mentioned in the article, it is actually absolutely unacceptable, she thinks that raising children is only to prevent old age, in order to be taken care of by the child when she is old, and even wants to forcibly keep the child by her side, and wants to let her be bound in this world. This is also a bad influence on the daughter's own development.
Of course, some netizens said that as parents, they really don't want their children to marry far away, not because they are worried that they will not be taken care of by their daughters in the future, on the one hand, they feel that their daughters will marry far away, and the number of meetings will be less, and the family affection may gradually fade.
Whether you should marry far away, everyone still has to consider it from a comprehensive perspective. If you have the strength, it is understandable, because no matter where you can break out of the world, no matter what kind of family you can stand firm, if you perform mediocre, in fact, there is a high probability that you are still more dependent on your parents, I hope that the old man in Liaocheng can see his daughter as soon as possible, but I don't know if their 25-year contradictions can be resolved?