Nowadays, we have to admit a phenomenon, that is, many older men and women have complicated marriage problems, and some people are too poor to get married. And some are too demanding, too visionary, and unable to find the ideal marriage partner.
However, there is another situation, that is, some people are too busy with work, which delays personal marital problems. Recently, there was a more controversial thing on the Internet, a post-90s woman, 34 years old this year, she is still single because she is too busy with work.
You must know that when you reach the age of marriage, you will definitely be urged to marry by your parents. But then again, people have to get married after all, and no matter what the reason or excuse is, they always have to face this realistic problem. The same is true of the woman, who, at the urging of her parents, came to a blind date.
The woman's education is a master's degree, and she did not specify what kind of job it is, and her requirements for marriage partners are not too high. From the photo, we can see that the woman is holding a piece of paper with the title "Sincerely looking for a partner", and below are some of her criteria for choosing a mate.
The woman listed four criteria, the first is that she must have a house, and it is also marked in Shanghai or Jiangsu and Zhejiang, so we speculate that the woman is probably from the south, or works and lives in the south; Secondly, it is necessary to have a bachelor's degree or above, which is understandable, after all, people are already master's students; The third point is that the man is required to be at least 1.75 meters tall; The fourth point is to give a bride price of 50,000 yuan.
Truth be told, these are not too outrageous and are perfectly acceptable if you say the locals. However, some people saw the woman's conditions and thought that she was too high. For example, an aunt who is asking for marriage for her son thinks that she is a little old and her appearance is not too good, so it is not easy to find a partner.
There are even some people with ulterior motives who take photos of women when they go on a blind date and narrate the process of her blind date. When netizens saw her appearance, they said with some mockery: "I'm so old, and my appearance is so bad, don't come out on a blind date!" This is already very straightforward, which means that if you don't look good, don't mention such high requirements. It's just that the words are a bit blunt.
There are also people who defend women, no matter what, people have a high degree of education there, and it is not too much to find someone with good conditions. And netizens explained that a woman's academic qualifications are not important, but look at the ability to work. The woman couldn't help but be a little annoyed when she saw someone laughing at herself, turned her head and took a photo of her luxury car, posted it on the Internet, and asked netizens: "Am I still old and ugly?"
While some netizens were surprised, they also questioned, wouldn't it be hard to drive someone else's car? Regarding the questioning woman's reply, she deliberately revealed the license plate and said, "You can check it casually!" "Actually, this is a trivial matter, and there is no need to take other people's words seriously.
Maybe the woman was angered by the ridicule of netizens, so she forced herself to show off. However, I would like to make an objective point here that some women are asking for conditions that are indeed a bit outrageous, and if they are in big cities, they may be understandable, but in some small cities, many men simply cannot meet them.
For example, the Shaanxi woman who looked down on men who earned 3,000 wages before, kept saying that men should not think about marrying her if they earned 3,000 yuan a month, which was an impossible human thing. In fact, in most cities, people's wages are generally around 3,000, which is too outrageous to meet at all.
Therefore, it is not without reason that some older women are still single, and the appropriate lowering of conditions may solve all problems. We should still be realistic when we look at marriage, after all, marriage is not the only factor that supports marriage. What do you think about this?