I was brought up by my grandmother, why should I honor my grandparents!?
Under normal circumstances, when a daughter-in-law gives birth to a child, it is brought by grandparents, but now I don't care so much, and grandparents have a lot of children.
But the child is small, and not stupid, who takes care of the child more, the child will naturally be closer.
But recently, I saw a blogger share that because of this incident, the family became a pot of porridge.
The blogger's daughter inadvertently said that she was brought up by her grandmother, and she didn't understand why she should be good to her grandmother.
It was this sentence that was heard by the blogger's mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law was furious, feeling that she had worked hard to raise her son and start a family, and her granddaughter actually said such a thing,
For a while, even the blogger's husband began to accuse his daughter,
The daughter didn't understand that grandma really didn't take care of herself much since she was a child, and only said that she felt that she should be closer to her grandma, not that it was not good for grandma.
How did he become a "sinner" in the family,
The blogger was in a dilemma for a while, and he couldn't persuade anyone, and the scene got out of control.
In this matter, grandma is so angry, as for it?
Netizens are also discussing, let's see what netizens say:
It's hard to raise a son, can't you make your son filial?
Filial piety is also a two-way street, without paying, where will the return.
The child is right, what do you accuse the child of?
Isn't this time time to reflect? Should I lose my temper at this time?
Are they all kidnapping children now?
It's really ugly to eat, an elder, like this to a junior.
It's a normal thing, what's there to quarrel about, don't you know what you've done?
The children are so old, don't talk about the easy days, and then you want the children to be close?
Since she was a child, she has been with her grandmother and grandfather, who are kind to her.
Is there such a thing as uncomplaining love?
It seems that some netizens still understand children very well, not only grandchildren, even if it is a general social relationship, it is also two-way, if you are good to me, I will naturally be good to you,
Like this, who has not been taken care of much since childhood, how close can the child be to you?
Isn't it embarrassing for children to be close to them if they don't pay and blindly ask for them to be close? It is not surprising that a child would say something like that.
However, some netizens have different voices, thinking that this is because the daughter-in-law has not done a good job, which grandmother does not love her grandchildren, but no matter how hard she cares,
However, the daughter-in-law and the family were reluctant, and after a long time, they saw that the child was no longer close to him.
It's really hard to say, and what does the child know, now that the relationship is so clear, isn't someone often guiding him, will he have this point of view?
How can this kid find trouble, he is really ignorant, and he will let you talk nonsense if it is the truth?
I want to give, but no one wants to, what can I do?
Can a child say such a thing? I don't know who's teaching behind it.
Closeness is more about true feelings from the heart, and filial piety is more about duty;
There is nothing wrong with children speaking with their own experience and true feelings, but they are younger and speak more directly;
It's understandable that grandma is uncomfortable listening to it, but it's not quite appropriate when the seizure comes out;
You can have the opportunity to slowly cultivate the relationship with the child, they are their own children, as long as they are good to her and kiss her, she will feel it, and she will naturally get close to you;
Mom and Dad teach the child more, Mom, Grandparents, Grandparents, Grandparents are the closest people to the child, the family needs to care for each other, etc., and slowly remind the child to pay attention to the way of speaking, etc......
This is really a family.
What do you think about this?