I saw a mother's complaint @张宁宁宁 on the Internet, which felt quite interesting.
Judging from the photos posted by Bao's mother, she is really good-looking. Big eyes, white skin, beautiful appearance, like a star. But her husband has small eyes, and his appearance is not as high as hers.
So, she looked at all kinds of photos of big-eyed cute babies during pregnancy, looking forward to the child's big watery eyes in the future.
However, after the child was born, she ushered in not a big-eyed cute baby, but a small-eyed baby.
I thought it would be good for the child to grow up. Unexpectedly, the child ran all the way on the road like his father, without looking back, and even yawning was exactly the same!
Bao's mother is not convinced, and plans to have another "win back game". This time, she kept eating grapes, eating all kinds of grapes, even blueberries.
She thought to herself, this time the child should be like her.
But as soon as her daughter landed, she could only sigh helplessly, I have done my best!
Not only this mother, but a former colleague of mine, every time he has a dinner party with a child, others have to ask: "Is this your son?" ”
Colleagues all had a congested expression: "Although the child's eyes are thinner, her eyebrows are shorter, her nose is collapsed, and her face is square, she is really a girl." ”
After listening to the words of my colleague, everyone had an expression of "never expected", and they didn't even know how to comfort them.
The colleague also sighed: "Okay, I admit it, she is really a merit who has not inherited me, just like her father." But what can I do? I'm desperate! ”
Some children are really too long, the advantages are not inherited, and the shortcomings of their parents are long, which also makes parents very helpless.
When many people are looking for a partner, they look for their ideal appearance.
For example, if you don't have big eyes, then find someone with big eyes to marry and change the genes of your offspring. Or if you are not white, then pick a person with a fair complexion, so that the child born can become more beautiful.
After some children are born, they do inherit the advantages of their parents and look good. But some children, even if their parents are all merits, but they don't play cards according to common sense, and they have to grow their own personality.
What the hell is going on?
One: family genes
What the child looks like, it must be inherited from the father or the mother, and there is no need to run.
But what we don't know is that in fact, he is not only influenced by his parents and 2 people, but by the 2 families behind his parents.
The main thing is to see who is more genetically stronger.
For example, there is a girl in our community, her parents have double eyelids and big eyes, her mother is white-skinned, and her father has long legs. But she skipped her parents directly, inherited her grandmother's narrow and long red phoenix eyes, inherited her grandmother's short legs and grandfather's dark skin.
The girl was "disliked" by the whole family as soon as she was born, and my mother had to sigh to us every time: "This is so ugly that I can't look at it." ”
Although parents have good genes, their parents' genes are also engraved in their genes.
Therefore, who the child looks like depends not only on the genes of the parents, but also on the genes of the two families behind the parents.
Of course, most children can still inherit the advantages of their parents.
Because our genes are divided into "dominant" and "recessive". In most cases, dominant genes are more likely to be passed on to children, such as the following.
2: Big eyes, double eyelids
Many children, when they were young, looked at small eyes and single eyelids, but when they grew long, they seemed to "grow open", and the original single eyelids became double eyelids, and the eyes seemed to be bigger.
Originally, the child was like the one with the small eyes of the parents, but when he grew up, he followed the one with the big eyes of the parents.
This is because large eyes and double eyelids are "dominant genes".
It may not be particularly obvious in the child at first, but as the child grows older, this dominant gene becomes prominent.
That's why, many children look ugly when they are young, and the bigger they are, the better they look.
Three: Chin
One of my classmates has a pointed chin and is very distinctive, but her husband's chin is of the ordinary kind.
She gave birth to two children, and her jaws were exactly the same as hers.
A characteristic chin can generally be passed on directly to children.
Four: high nose bridge, long eyelashes, large earlobes
A high nose bridge is also dominantly inherited.
I used to hear the older generation say that when a child is born, pinch his nose more so that the bridge of the child's nose will be higher and will not collapse.
But the high nose bridge is inherited, not pinched.
If one of the parents has a high nose bridge, the child born will most likely have a high nose bridge. And if the parents collapse the bridge of the nose, no matter how much they pinch it, the bridge of the child's nose may still collapse.
In addition, there are also long eyelashes and large earlobes, which can be directly inherited to children with a high probability.
Five: height and skin color
Height and skin color are actually "half-genetic".
For example, if the father's skin is dark and the mother's skin tone is white, the child may "neutralize" the parents' skin color and take a median value.
The same is true for height, where children will sway from side to side within the range of their parents' average height.
However, height is also largely affected by factors such as environment, diet, and exercise. If the parents are not tall, then pay more attention to sleep, nutrition, exercise, etc., and the child can grow taller than both parents.
Regardless of whether the child inherits our strengths or weaknesses, we will love him no less. As long as he grows up healthy and happy, we will be content.
I don't know if your child inherits more advantages from his parents, or inherits his shortcomings?
[The picture comes from the Internet, invaded and deleted]