Since childhood, he has been a shy and introverted person, always incoherent when communicating with others, and his grades are mediocre, and he is not a cheerful and likable child at all.
I used to hate being so introverted, I always felt that introverts were not likable, and they were easily marginalized at work.
I often feel inferior to my personality and want to be outgoing and cheerful, but I always fail.
Later, I started reading various books, and gradually realized that my views were a little biased.
As I continued to read, my bleak life began to shine:
The mood is calm and the core is stable.
Reading made me understand that different personality traits have their strengths, and that introverts are just as lovable. I no longer feel inferior to my personality, and my core has become more peaceful and stable. I began to take the initiative to appreciate the positive meaning of introverted personality and no longer have unwarranted low self-esteem and envy extroverts.
Gained some knowledge and wisdom.
Reading widely has increased my knowledge, from philosophy and psychology to sociology, and these books have made me more intelligent and tolerant in dealing with interpersonal relationships.
I have learned to put myself in the shoes of others, and I am better at analyzing complex social phenomena, which I did not have in the past.
Accept yourself and reconcile with yourself.
I finally accepted my introversion and stopped forcing myself to go against my character. I've learned to appreciate the positive effects of introversion, such as being introspective and being good at being alone. I no longer expect myself to be a completely different person.
Learn to express and think.
Although still introverted, her language organization skills have improved, and she is also better at thinking and discussing complex topics, which helps a lot at work. I remember speaking fluently at a conference for the first time and getting praise from everyone.
Love life and work hard.
Reading has opened my eyes to the infinite possibilities of life, and I have begun to love my current life and become more motivated and positive. I appreciate the small things in life, and I have the courage to pursue my dreams.
In addition, reading has also helped me develop independent thinking skills and critical spirit. I no longer believe what others say, but judge right and wrong for myself. Reading has allowed me to meet many wonderful thinkers who have become my spiritual mentors. Under their influence, my outlook on life and values have also matured.
On the other hand, reading gives me abundant spiritual food. When I'm in a difficult situation or feeling down, reading always gives me strength. I drew wisdom and positive energy from the book, which helped me through many difficulties. With books by my side, I'm no longer alone.
Reading has given me much more than that. It helped me find my self-confidence and make me a better person.
We all have our own advantages, accept ourselves and discover our own value, which is the most important thing.
I am truly grateful for the benefits of reading books, which have enriched my spiritual world and allowed me to grow into a more fulfilling person.
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