Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
A famous person said, "Your circle determines your fate." ”
Everyone is like a magnet, and people with the same magnetic field will attract each other and become a circle.
What kind of circle are you in, what the future will look like.
The circle brings you positive energy, you can grow faster, have higher pursuits, and become sunny in your heart.
If you enter a circle full of negative energy, your future will be bleak.
Your circle, determines your income.
02. What kind of person you are with will be what kind of person you will become
I've seen such a video:
A man is very timid and cowardly. He made a cheerful, open-minded friend.
Friends took him out on business and taught him how to deal with customers with different personalities.
The two worked together, the business became bigger and bigger, and they also met more like-minded friends and started the company.
Years later, this man became famous and had a successful career.
But when he was interviewed, he was still very grateful to the friend who took him to start a business, did not dislike him, and spared no effort to help him.
John Rawls said, "You are the average of your five closest friends. ”
Everyone is influenced by the people around them.
If the people around you love to learn, always set higher goals for themselves, and are particularly self-disciplined, then you will also keep up with the footsteps of the other party.
On the contrary, the people around me are lazy and lazy, and all they think about are people who eat, drink and have fun.
Soon, you'll be mingling with them, knowing you're wasting a lot of time doing so, but it's just hard to control yourself.
The kind of person you are with, the kind of person you will quietly become. Choose to be around good people, and you will be more likely to succeed.
03. People with high incomes are constantly linked to high-level people
After my careful observation, I found that most people with high incomes are very good at connecting with high-level people.
If your circle is full of positive people, people who are bigger than you and have a more long-term perspective, you can follow his thoughts, figure out a more precise route of effort, and avoid some risks.
Make friends with more powerful people, and they will make you see a wider world.
With those high-level people, even if you have a few small talks, you can see the other person's attitude towards life and the way of thinking about problems.
The other party's words can make you feel very enlightened.
No one can do things overnight, they are all slowly groping their way forward in failure.
If you can get a few words of guidance from high-level people, it will be many times stronger than groping for yourself.
They will make you know how to see the essence through the phenomenon, so that you can improve the efficiency of making money and become more and more confident.
04. Make yourself excellent, and the circle will become advanced
Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy" just wanted to live in her current position at first.
Although she has been working for a long time, she knows that she will not have much future development.
Later, she felt that people still had to challenge themselves and do some more difficult work. She wants to increase her income and meet people at a higher level.
She switched to the investment industry and achieved a counterattack.
Not only did he have high morale, but he also met better men and made his life develop better.
Everyone has the right to choose the direction of life.
It's easy to stand still, but there are also a lot fewer opportunities, and thinking about a better life has become an unattainable dream.
Writer Wan Qing said: "Ability and own resources are not good, and it is useless to have strong connections." Sooner or later, these connections will have to be lost, don't portray yourself as a taker, no one is interested, and help a person who will only ask for it for a long time. ”
When you are in a darker circle, even if someone wants to pull you, it is difficult to pass on positive energy to you.
If you know how to be with excellent people and constantly get rid of your bad habits, you will always go uphill, which will make you meet a better version of yourself in the future.
Learn more, push yourself, challenge yourself to a higher level, and let yourself continue to grow.
When you are better, you will also be exposed to a higher circle, and you can also learn more experience and have better opportunities. In this way, it will also be easier for you to change your destiny and achieve financial freedom.
05. Summary
Manage interpersonal relationships, be a little more serious and cautious.
To get along with others, you must know how to screen, and don't strayed into the circle of eating, drinking and having fun, and ruin your future.
You must know how to enhance your own strength and make yourself shine, so as to attract more excellent people to walk with you.
The better the circle you run, the better the road under your feet will develop.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.