A simple old man fell to his knees, crying and begging his daughter to come home.
Such a picture must be touching, and even subconsciously attribute this daughter to an "unfilial daughter", after all, what kind of children will force the mother to kneel down and beg him?
However, when I think about it, I see that things are different. Maybe from my daughter's point of view, I can understand more!
What is the reason why a child should not go home?
Home is a harbor, and the first thing that comes to mind when everyone is tired is home.
But this old man's daughter has been away from home for 25 years!
(The pictures in this article are all from the Internet)
There is a child who has not been home for 25 years, no wonder this mother cries so much, maybe she is also very helpless!
But the mother knelt down, but she didn't let netizens buy it, but was denied by some netizens.
Someone told about her own experience, saying that her ex-mother-in-law was the same, can such behavior be sympathetic? Judging from this netizen's description, instead of pitying her ex-mother-in-law because of this, she used a word to explain her feelings, which is somewhat embarrassing!
My daughter hasn't been home for 25 years, and this time is also emotional. Let's not talk about why our daughter hasn't come home for so many years, first think about this mother's way of appearing in the public eye, is she morally kidnapping her daughter?
What is it that can make a daughter so determined that she refuses to go home for more than 20 years?
There is no need for superfluous speculation, but I think that maybe this mother still hasn't figured out why her daughter refuses to go home for 25 years, and she still doesn't understand her daughter's pain!
From the perspective of the woman's younger brother, the reason why her sister left that year was because her parents did not agree with her daughter's feelings, and the younger brother said that her sister was a little unhappy.
Girls have love brains, but girls who don't go home for more than 20 years because they are in love are really uncommon. Therefore, the younger brother's narration may be a description of the facts, but it is only what he sees, what he thinks, as for the situation from his sister's point of view, maybe only if he comes to confide in him, the public will understand better.
After this incident, the feedback from netizens can also be said to be a trend, people no longer blindly blame young children, but think from the essence of the matter, why did such a story happen?
In a family, the father and mother should be the support of the child, and the parents support the child, so that the child can be fearless and truly rely on the home. But in the past 25 years, have they ever thought about the pain in their daughter's heart? Is the mother's longing because she has the need to support the elderly, or is she simply missing her daughter?
The other person in the video, however, is sitting in a seat, and the words of missing his daughter are said by his mother, but where has the father gone? Shouldn't fathers tell their daughters what they really think, just like mothers? Communication should be heart-to-heart communication between two people, not in other ways to stand on the moral high ground.
It's understandable for a mother to miss her child and cry and be sad, but kneeling in front of the camera and calling for her daughter to return in this way makes others see what they think? What did my daughter's colleague and leader think when she saw it?
Perhaps the moment the mother knelt down, she only thought about getting her daughter back, and didn't think about whether her daughter would lose her job and lose face.