Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
If a man really loves you, his heart is as clear as crystal.
He will only care about you, be good to you alone, and put himself in the humblest position.
No matter how proud you are in front of others, even if you are arrogant, you are willing to bow your head for you. is willing to put down his body to coax you, as long as you are happy, let him do anything, he will not refuse.
Psychologist Goleman said, "How comfortable you are determines how high you can reach." ”
Men, if they cherish you from the bottom of their hearts, they will have one behavior: bow their heads.
02. After a quarrel, I am willing to bow my head in order to coax you
I've seen a video that says:
The girl argued with her boyfriend and stood on the side of the road in a huff.
The man immediately knew that he was wrong and bowed his head to admit it. And, bend down and rest your head on the girl's shoulder, and be coquettish vigorously.
The girl turned to leave, and he quickly took out an umbrella from his bag and ran forward to shade her from the sun.
And, I always promised never to make such a mistake again in the future, and coaxed the girl until she was happy.
Man, love you or not, in fact, it can be seen from the quarrel.
A man who really loves you, after having a conflict with you and saying something heavy to you, will regret it. He is willing to lower his posture and coax you.
In order to keep you, he is willing to bow his head and coax you, hoping to get your forgiveness.
Writer Su Xin said: "In this world, no one is more stupid than others, some people admit it for you, some people forbear it for you, and some people support you unconditionally, just because of deep love." ”
When two people get along, there will be many times when they disagree, and they can't tell who is right and who is wrong. It is inevitable that a person will suffer some grievances, and there will be a lot of helplessness.
A man can put down his body and coax you patiently, afraid of losing you, which is a manifestation of deep love for you.
03. In marriage, be willing to bow your head and give you status
Liu Yuru in "Long Wind Crossing" looked for her husband Gu Jiusi everywhere, hoping to arrest him home.
When he was arrested, he had no confidence in his heart. If the man doesn't give her face and fights with her, she will have no way to end up.
Fortunately, the man relented when he was "hand-to-hand" with her.
Went home with her and accepted all her arrangements.
Although, when he does things at home, he will be lazy and bad, but he is most afraid that Liu Yuru will be angry, and he is afraid that she will pick a son and no longer take care of this family.
At that time, Gu Jiusi bowed her head and gave her status, in fact, because she fell in love with her.
Liu Yuru supported her when she returned to the door, and Gu Jiusi said, "At home, I don't dare to talk to her loudly", which enhanced Liu Yuru's status and showed how deep his love for this woman was.
A man who loves you will definitely give you a high family status. No matter where you are, you will not be wronged.
There is a line in the movie "Ip Man": "There is no man in this world who is afraid of his wife, only a man who respects his wife." ”
A man who loves you will warm your soul and make you feel safe inside.
He is willing to bow his head and give you a high status, so that you can live more freely and confidently.
04. In front of you, be willing to bow your head and accommodate your feelings
When a man truly loves you, he is completely different from you and others.
When a man interacts with others, he will laugh and scold unscrupulously, and he will not care if he annoys others. But there is too much caution with you.
He is afraid that if he says something badly, he will make you angry; He is also afraid that he has not done anything well and will make you sad.
No matter what kind of thing he does, he thinks about your feelings first. With you, he becomes more and more mature and more patient in managing each other's feelings.
Love a woman, and a man will spoil her as a child.
In front of men, she doesn't have to be sensible, not virtuous, and not to compromise on everything. She can be happy to be herself and can be brave enough to speak up about her needs.
Men will do everything in their power to protect this childishness of a woman, realize her dreams, give her more care, and make her look the most beautiful.
Men love you and are willing to accommodate you, give you a sense of belonging, and let you no longer have the idea of leaving.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
In this world, there may be many people who are attracted to you, but it is difficult for someone to love you wholeheartedly, and only identify you in this life.
If you meet a man who is genuinely kind to you, don't let go, let alone hurt his heart.
Be grateful for his accommodation, cherish each other's fate, don't hurt each other's feelings for trivial things, and let love flow for a long time.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.