01. Introduction

A good marriage is a huge source of happiness in life, which can give people confidence and confidence to face the future.

With a lover by your side, you can share happiness and stress together, and you are not afraid of hard times.

If a person does not feel any positive feedback in marriage, nor does she have any expectations, it means that marriage has become dispensable for her.

Man, you know what? If a woman has the following behaviors, it means that she is about to get married and has long been out of love.

02, the door of the heart is closed, and there is no longer communication with her husband

Two people are together, love each other, and will be desperate to blend into each other's world.

Even if it's a quarrel, even if it's a confrontation, I want him to know that he cares about him and this relationship.

When a woman doesn't love anymore, she will become indifferent to everything.

She and you, no longer arguing, no longer communicating. Even if you don't understand her, she doesn't care.

Women seem to be sensible, but in fact, they don't love anymore. She has completely closed the door of her heart and completely distanced herself from her husband, erecting a thick barrier between each other that cannot be broken.

No matter how much chaos has happened in her world, she doesn't want to mention it to her husband.

After too many disappointments in the past, she has become calm and calm.

In life, she may even ignore her husband's existence from time to time.

For her, marriage has become a kind of compromise, a kind of bondage that cannot be broken free and constantly cut. She also gave up struggling and spent the rest of her life in a marriage like an empty shell.

03. Pin your hopes on your children and endure everything

Meng Yunqing in "Fireworks People", not long after she married Tao Dalei, she washed her face with tears all day long, and was extremely disappointed in her husband.

With the help of her mother, she began to find a job to support herself. Cultivating her daughter with her heart, I only look forward to her being able to live happily.

She also discussed divorce with Tao Dalei, but she put it on hold because her daughter was facing the college entrance examination, and she didn't want to affect her daughter's future because of changes in her marriage.

In front of their daughter, she and her husband still maintain the illusion of a happy marriage and endure her husband's incompetence and hypocrisy.

Every time her husband asked her for money, and she didn't agree, her husband would make a gesture to ask his daughter for an explanation, and Meng Yunqing had to compromise.

She maintains a marriage that exists in name only, trapping herself in it just because she can't let go of her daughter.

A woman is already disappointed in her marriage and her husband, but she doesn't want to hurt her children, so she can only continue to settle in marriage.

Some women, if they don't love each other, won't get divorced.

Instead, they will pin their hopes on their children, maintain the apparent integrity of the family, and endure all the grievances and sadness.

She will use all her strength to love her children, so that she can grow up better and take a more spacious path.

The woman doesn't love anymore and can't leave neatly because she can't give up the child in her heart.

The only reason for her to continue to settle in marriage is her love for her children, and she hopes that her children can have a completely different life from her.

04, take care of everything, and have no dependence on marriage

Once, I was hospitalized and met a woman in the same room.

During her hospitalization, only her best friend accompanied her. When I asked why my husband didn't come to take care of her, she had only a helpless smile on her face.

Her best friend also called her husband and told him that his wife was in the hospital for surgery and that he should take care of it himself.

In the end, the man did not show up either.

The woman in the same ward said, "I don't expect him anymore, I am responsible for all the affairs of the family, and I am used to it."

The woman seemed very calm, saying that she had already accepted this reality and knew that he was unreliable, so she no longer relied on him, and it was better to have no hope for him than to be entangled and uneasy all day.

Marriage, in the final analysis, is to integrate the strength and resources of two people to get a better life.

If so, if a woman is responsible for everything in her marriage and no longer depends on her husband, it means that she no longer loves.

If a woman is no longer in love, she will slowly regain her dependence and trust in her husband and shoulder the pressure of life by herself.

In marriage, there is no longer a dependence on the man, and there is no longer a need for him to share in the burden. Between each other, they no longer support each other, and marriage has no meaning in her heart, only the future.

05, Wen Qiusheng's message

When marriage can no longer bring warmth and strength to each other, the relationship also comes to an end.

Men, at any time, do not consume feelings wantonly. It wasn't until the partner was completely desperate that he realized that he was negligent in his feelings.

Manage the relationship with heart and cherish the contribution of your partner. Try your best to meet her expectations for marriage, and let the time spent with each other become the greatest warmth in her heart.

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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.