That year, I followed my mother to pick rapeseeds. After picking the rapeseeds, my mother chatted with the aunts in the neighboring village. As I talked, I was talked, and my mother suddenly began to match me with marriage. Oops, that embarrassment at the time, I wanted to drill the ground, but I really didn't have a clue about it!
At that time, I was thinking about being anxious or something, I hadn't even thought about falling in love, but my mother stabbed me into the fire pit, and she had to let me go on a blind date. The picking of rapeseed was a complete accident, but my mother made it like a big deal, and told me a bunch of things like "marriage is destined, you can't force it", and I felt very speechless when I heard it.
However, to be honest, although I was quite disgusted by my mother's forcible matchmaking at the time, that girl was really good. I thought about it later, maybe my mother pushed me into the pit this time, maybe it was for my own good. After all, she hasn't taken care of my feelings for many years, and she suddenly pops up like this, and I really have to think about it.
Well, who knows? Some people fall in love at first sight, while others spark love because of a chance encounter. The rapeseed I picked was an example. I didn't expect such a simple thing to bring me unexpected results. Maybe this is fate, it's not that you take the initiative to look for it, but it quietly comes to you.
So, sometimes, we really have to listen to the older generation. Although they can sometimes feel verbose, there are times when their experience is worth learning from. Marriage is a thing, whether it is destined by heaven or not, whether it is natural or not, no one can say. But you have to give yourself a chance to try and feel. Perhaps, the next time you pick rapeseeds, you will also unexpectedly find that your marriage has also come quietly inadvertently.