The warmth of the Tianqi family changed
I am Tianqi and I live in a small family full of challenges and changes. Although my family structure is simple, the family atmosphere is often complicated by my mother's mood swings. Her mother's name is Lin Yun, she is a strong woman in the workplace, she is smart and capable, but her personality is more impatient. Dad's name is Chen Yi, and he is a respected teacher with a gentle personality and always values harmony.
In my memory, my mother was always busy with work, and her figure was often busy in the late night light, while my father always silently supported her and worried about all the trivial matters at home. However, as time went on, I found that my mom's work became more and more stressful, and her mood became more and more unstable. She began to complain frequently, questioning her father's lifestyle and educational concepts.
One night, the atmosphere at home was unusually tense. Mom was furious at a little setback at work, and she blamed Dad for not giving her enough support and understanding. Dad tried to explain, but Mom didn't listen, and the more she talked, the more excited she became, and finally knocked Daddy's elaborate dinner to the floor.
I stood aside and watched this scene with mixed feelings. I know that my mom's job is very stressful and she needs to release her emotions, but I also see my dad's helplessness and helplessness. I decided I wanted to find a way to improve their relationship.
I started paying more attention to my mom's situation, trying to understand her work stress and mood changes. I found that the reason why she was angry frequently was because she was too demanding of herself, and at the same time she wanted to be understood and supported by her family. So I started to take the initiative to communicate with my mother, telling her that my father had been silently supporting her all along, but his expression was more subtle.
At the same time, I also had an in-depth communication with my father. I told him about my mom's work stress and emotional problems, hoping that he would be more understanding of her behavior. Dad was silent for a long time, and then said that he would try harder to understand Mom and communicate with her more proactively.
However, change doesn't happen overnight. Mom still gets angry from time to time, but after each outburst, she reflects on her actions and tries to adjust her mindset. Dad also began to be more proactive in communicating with Mom and trying to understand the problem from her point of view.
In the process, I also gradually grew up. I learned how to deal with conflicts and conflicts in my family, and how to look at problems from a different perspective. I also cherish every warmth and love in this family even more.
One night, my mother was distraught because of something at work. She sat on the couch and wept silently, while her father sat beside her, silently accompanying her. I looked at them and suddenly felt an inexplicable emotion. I walked over and hugged my mother and whispered, "Mom, don't be sad, Dad has always been there for you and supported you." Mom looked up at me, and tears flashed in her eyes, and then she hugged me and dad, and the three of us snuggled tightly together.
At that moment, I felt warmth and happiness that I had never felt before. I realized that conflicts and conflicts in the family are not terrible, as long as we can face each other honestly, understand and tolerate each other, we will definitely be able to find a solution to the problem.
Since then, the atmosphere of our home has gradually become warm and harmonious. Mom no longer gets angry and learns to control her emotions. Dad is also more proactive in communicating with Mom and trying to understand the problem from her point of view. And I have become more mature and stronger, and I have become a bridge and bond between them.
In the process, I gradually realized the true meaning of family. Family is a warm harbor and is our most solid backing. In the family, we must learn not only to support and understand each other, but also to learn how to face and resolve contradictions and conflicts. Only in this way can we create a happy family together.
Now, when I think back to that night, I feel extremely blessed and happy. Because I know that as long as we can understand and tolerate each other, no matter what difficulties and challenges we encounter, we can get through it together and create a better future together. #头条创作挑战赛#