The atmosphere at the funeral was thought to be heavy and sad.
However, more often than not, the adults did not cry, but talked and laughed with relatives and friends, talked about work, life, and interesting stories, and even forgot that it was a funeral.
Why is that?
Why do the adults at the funeral talk and laugh? Is it a lack of conscience?
After reading the sharing of netizens, tears flowed down uncontrollably, it turned out that I had always misunderstood them as adults!
There is simply no time and opportunity for people to cry
It's the dumplings that haven't been wrapped, the leftovers in the fridge, the crutches in the corner, the familiar sound of breathing, and every moment you remember later
Those who cried at the funeral were the children and grandchildren who had not fulfilled their filial piety, and those who did not cry and were calm were those who had done their filial piety before their deaths, and there were no regrets.
It's not that you can't cry, it's that you don't allow yourself to cry because of the situation.
There will be no adults in the future, what should we do if we are wronged?
Today is Mother's Day, and when I saw you, I cried a lot
Without parents, the tallest is himself
There has to be a person who is calm
There is no greater adult than us [tears]
Those who have not experienced it will never understand! ……
Teacher Yu Hua said: The loss of my relatives is not a sudden rainstorm, but the long dampness of this life, I will always be trapped in this dampness, in every undisturbed day, set off a storm.
When he came out of the funeral, he really felt that he had really left [tears]
Because he didn't have time to cry, he needed to hold up [tears]
Parents can go home, but when parents are gone, there is only a way back in life
The death of a loved one is not a momentary rainstorm, but a long damp life after that!
The death of a loved one is not a rainstorm, but a lifetime of dampness, and you will inadvertently think of him in the future, and then burst into tears
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