On the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, on a cold winter day, I went to my uncle's house to attend a New Year's party. What I didn't expect, however, turned out to be a little awkward for what was supposed to be a happy and peaceful party. It turned out that the marital status of the two old cousins became the focus of the day.
Sitting at the dinner table, I overheard my uncle and his wife talking privately about the two old watches. An old cousin has not had a stable relationship since he got married, and he frequently changes objects, which makes his family feel very worried. The other old watch is married, but the married life is not satisfactory, and there are often conflicts and quarrels, which makes the family atmosphere quite awkward.
This scene makes me wonder, is marriage really that difficult? Why are some people able to find a happy marriage, while others are stuck in a mire of affection?
Perhaps, part of the reason why marriage is difficult to maintain is that people have different expectations and understandings of marriage. Some people have romanticized fantasies about marriage, expecting the other person to meet their needs and expectations flawlessly. However, this is not the case in real marriage, where couples need to be tolerant, understanding and respectful of each other, and they need to face the challenges and difficulties of life together.
On the other hand, communication problems in marriage are also one of the main causes of conflicts. If the husband and wife are not able to communicate openly and listen to each other's thoughts and feelings, it is easy to have misunderstandings and conflicts, which can lead to the breakdown of the marital relationship. Therefore, establishing a good communication mechanism is an important guarantee for maintaining the stability of marriage.
In addition to this, responsibilities and commitments in marriage are also crucial. Husbands and wives should support each other, understand each other, persevere and work together in the face of difficulties and setbacks. Only in this way can we create a good married life together.
Thinking back to this gathering at my uncle's house, I deeply felt the difficulty of marriage. But at the same time, I also believe that on the basis of mutual understanding, communication and tolerance, every couple has the opportunity to create their own happiness. May every couple cherish each other, go through every stage of life together, and create a happy married life.