This is met on a blind date software, and the following is a chat history with a blind date girl.
My friend's advice to me: I think the bride price dowry is a guarantee for girls, and it will make her feel a little more secure in the hands of a girl, which can be used as a start-up fund for a new family, such as a childcare fund. Later, it was said that infertility was a matter of personal choice, and if she was infertile, she would look for the other party and be infertile, and it would be OK, there was nothing necessary.
The bride price still needs to be discussed, the lower the cost of marrying, the final outcome may be more miserable, the bride price is just a gift, and it will not affect the quality of life of the man under the premise of receiving it. Of course, marriage is based on love, but the purpose of receiving a bride price is to avoid risks after marriage.
The bride price is auspicious, 60,000 or 80,000 is OK. Do what you can. But ah, I don't agree with what you said, the lower the cost, the worse the loss. I really beg to differ. If a girl's marriage is the same as the bride price, what the boy has, the girl also has. If you don't ask the man for all kinds of protection on the grounds of having a child, I think you will get the gratitude of the man, even the man's parents and the man's relatives.
I'll give you an inappropriate example? Which one do you cherish more, the bag you buy with tens of thousands of dollars or the bag you buy eggs in the mall? The metaphor is a bit rough, but that's the way it is. I think that if the other party has a good family style, a good job, a good personality and strong personal charm, he can make up for the bride price, how many such boys are there?