I am a woman in the workplace, with work pressure, a monthly salary of 18,000 14 salaries, and I advocate that no matter whether the man or woman has only one child, the man's mother will come to see the child or find a nanny
The man's monthly salary is 30,000 12 salaries, advocating having two children, saying that fortune telling said that he has two children in his life, a boy and a girl. He also said that many girls in the workplace have a second child.
He said go with the flow, he wanted two, I said it was impossible to go with the flow, there must be one, there would definitely not be two.
also said that he didn't want to communicate, his three views were inconsistent, and there was no need to convince each other and let him think about whether to continue.
The man said not to discuss it for now, and to rest early. After that, I didn't bring up this topic again in normal chats.
But when it was agreed that the Mid-Autumn Festival would be engaged, I don't think he would mention it or I, but when the engagement was made, it was still necessary to make a decision, and I insisted that one child would never have a second.
Do you want to continue to bring up the topic now, or wait until you get engaged?
If he can't accept a child, then surely it will not be discussed.
Originally, I planned to get engaged on May Day, but on my birthday, the man bought a fake perfume for me to poke it, and then placed an order from the official flagship store, but I asked him to return it, saying that I would understand it again. Does this person still need to understand?
The man went back later, and when he went back, he suddenly got his senses and spent a lot of money to buy gifts and fruits for the woman's family, and he also went shopping to buy clothes. I spent 1000 thousand on him, and he spent about 2000 on me.
Wuyi wanted him to go home with him, so that he could have more contact, but the other party refused, and talked about the engagement again. The other party kept urging, and I thought that the other party's conditions were good, and I could also book first, and then talk about feelings.
My best friend's advice to me: Do you feel that you are happy with him? If you're not happy, I don't think there's any need to talk about it, I personally feel that men have a strong purpose, and there is a perfume thing, and you don't need to say much about knowing that it's fake, just understand it in your heart. If you want him to go back, you should point it out concisely and clearly and ask him to go back with you, if he doesn't want to go back. I'm too lazy to toss in love, so what else to talk about.
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