The popularity of WeChat has made the distance between people no longer far away.
But because of this, many people ignore that some people may not deliberately not reply to you, but they feel that it is unnecessary.
As the saying goes, "Without communication, there are no feelings." ”
Therefore, whether a person is worthy of deep friendship must be judged by his words and deeds.
- Never perfunctory
Whether a person can have a deep relationship first depends on whether he respects you enough.
There is a saying that goes like this: "If you don't take people to heart, others won't take you to heart." ”
Those who are willing to talk to you may not be because they are idle, but because they really regard you as a friend.
A person's attitude can say a lot.
If a person is always perfunctory to you, it means that he does not have you in his heart and does not take you seriously.
Such a person will not cherish every moment with you.
When you meet someone like this, don't waste any more time because he doesn't care about your feelings.
There are always people around us who like to take other people's things seriously.
As soon as someone has no weight in his heart, he will be perfunctory and perfunctory with impunity.
A person who is truly worthy of deep friendship, who will treat you as important and will respect your opinions and ideas.
As long as it's about things between you, he won't be perfunctory.
- Ask questions
A true friend is someone who will be the first to lend a helping hand to help you when you are in trouble.
And those who don't know how to take the initiative to help you solve problems when you encounter them, and even find excuses to reject you, are undoubtedly the most chilling.
It is normal for friends to help each other. And those who run away when they encounter trouble are the ones who should really stay away.
Because in their hearts, they are already very good, so they are reluctant to help others.
Associating with such people will not only make you feel tired, but it will also make you lose a lot of precious things.
If we meet such a friend, we must know how to cherish it. Because when you get better and better, they will be proud of you.
Therefore, those who have questions and answers to you are the most worthy of deep friendship.
Such people will not only help you when you are in trouble, but also be the first to help you when you need it.
- Able to reply in a timely manner
Such a person will not ignore you because the messages you send are not responding.
Even if you just chat casually, you will reply in time, because they know whether a person is willing to reply to you or not, you can see his cultivation and character.
Some people, when they are not busy, are not even willing to reply,
When you message, he simply said "um" and "oh" and never said a "good" word.
- Don't blame
There is a question on Zhihu: "How do you think that a person always blames others, but rarely reflects on himself?" ”
A high praise replied: "Blaming others is actually a kind of denial of oneself." ”
A true wise man never makes it easy to point fingers at others.
Whether a person will put you at ease or not can be seen from his attitude towards you.
If he is willing to patiently reply to your messages every time, then you must cherish such a person.
If he can do this every time, it means that he has you in his heart and is worthy of deep friendship.
In this world, no one is perfect, and everyone will have shortcomings of one kind or another.
But when you meet someone who treats you sincerely and is willing to tolerate you, you must learn to cherish it.
Because there are not many such people, we must cherish them.