Whether a person is blessed or not, it doesn't matter what others say, and one's feelings are the most real.
The truly blessed can clearly see a kind of peace and joy from the heart between their brows. Because they are grateful and tolerant enough, they can easily feel the beauty of all things in the world and experience the happiness of life.
For most people, blessing is a blind pursuit, and even they themselves do not understand the specific meaning of blessing.
More often than not, people pursue perfection, but the more they want to be fulfilled, the more tired they are, and they are still unable to achieve the results they want to see.
Everyone wants to live a good life, but how easy is the so-called "living well"?
Those who are obviously superior in conditions are always dissatisfied in their hearts, and when everyone is trying their best to excel, small faults and shortcomings will become more and more conspicuous.
Don't be too yourself, you will find that life is still beautiful.
There are no perfect people in this world. Everyone is just trying to make things seem perfect, there is nothing wrong with failure, shortcomings are also the norm, as long as you think about it from a different angle, it is also a wonderful thing to be incomplete.
If you look at the same thing from different angles, you will see a completely different picture. We may not be able to learn to empathize in a short period of time, but we must not let ourselves be stuck somewhere for a long time.
The greatest blessing of a blessed person is not to deny himself. Any rule is set by people, it has no specific standards, and it can change at any time.
Smart people don't deny themselves too often. Everyone has negative energy, and learning to accept oneself, tolerate oneself, and adjust oneself is the greatest driving force for a better life.
More than once, I have found many people around me who habitually deny themselves, who think that they have many shortcomings and try their best to correct them.
In fact, these so-called shortcomings do not have a bad impact on his life, they are more like a kind of character, which can also be said to be personality.
To be a human being, you must understand that sometimes the shortcomings you desperately want to get rid of are just your characteristics, and the following three shortcomings will be in the blessed person, don't be stupid to correct yourself, that is a kind of internal friction.
Slow response, blunt sensitivity
If you look closely, you will find that the society we live in is getting faster and faster, and quick response has become an advantage, and people who are slow to respond on this basis are particularly stupid.
When everyone is training their agility, impetuousness is also born. At the same time, the slow response time is considered a disadvantage, when in fact it is not necessarily a disadvantage, but may also be an advantage.
Perhaps you have heard that there is a word called blunt sensibility, which is a kind of wise and foolish attitude and wisdom in life.
The more emotional people are, the happier they are, and they show that they are half a beat slower than others, especially when something bad happens, others may have begun to be sad, and in their world, it is as if nothing has happened.
We have to admit that people who are slow to react are more able to remain calm and optimistic in difficult situations. And this kind of calmness and optimism does not need to be supported by a strong heart, but is innately not felt.
It is good to be shrewd, and it is good to be dull. As long as you don't deny your life, you can maintain a stable and beautiful life.
Forgetfulness, self-healing
There are a lot of troubles in life, and forgetfulness is not a bad thing. Both the joys and troubles of the past are in the past, and from a certain point of view, it doesn't make much sense to keep them in memory for a long time.
Forgetful people are more likely to feel relaxed because there is too much heaviness in life, and if you can't forget it in time, it will bring great stress to your life. Forgetful people are better able to adapt to stress.
Life constantly changes the environment we live in, but forgetful people are more likely to adapt to changes in their environment.
When both the good and the bad become clouds of the past, then the present and the future will be particularly dazzling. The life of the blessed is full of hope, and it is easy to focus on the present happiness because they are forgetful enough.
The more tired a person is and the more things he has in his heart, the more difficult his life becomes. Forgetfulness is an advantage that boosts mental tolerance.
Timid, self-controlled
You may not want to believe it, but the less timid people are, the easier it is to achieve great things, because cowardice is not cowardice, but a sign of self-control.
As the old saying goes, sail carefully for a 10,000-year-old ship. In life, you must be careful. Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, but they don't always end up too comfortably.
The less timid people are, the more serious they are, and their low-key is low-key from the heart, and not being public-minded is also an innate cultivation.
If you look closely, the more powerful people in life are, the more timid they are before making important decisions.
The more people who know, the more cautious they live, and the really powerful people know how to admit it.
The bolder they get, the younger they become, not because the older people are afraid of anything, but because they have seen this society very thoroughly over the years.
Timidity is not a disadvantage, recklessness is.