One is a little flower in the entertainment industry who has not graduated for a few years, and the other is an old actor who has been engaged in the film and television industry for many years.
Regarding the triangular battle between Gao Yalin, Wei Jia and Xu Zijun, netizens jokingly said that the wind of the collapsed house still blew to "Family with Children".
Gao Yalin, as a party to the incident, faced the verbal crusade of his ex-girlfriend Wei Jia, but his words were full of indifference and disapproval.
Having something to do with Xu Zijun, who is only 26 years old, is not cheating, but just treating her as a "chicken"; It is not his fault to tear his face with Wei Jia, Wei Jia's approach is to "kill everyone". Behind the calmness, I don't care, I look down on it.
The filter of the national father, this time it was really smashed by Gao Yalin's sanctimoniousness!
Some people watch the play, and some people are in the play.
With the collapse of Gao Yalin's personality, everyone realized that the unspoken rules of the industry that can be seen are only the tip of the iceberg. And more unspoken events are hidden under the table.
is old and has poor morality, where does Gao Yalin's confidence come from?
Now the three women who have been involved with Gao Yalin have one thing in common: they are young and beautiful. Ex-wife Shi Wei is 42 years old, ex-girlfriend Wei Jia is in her early 30s, and Xu Zijun, who is suspected of cheating, is only 26 years old.
The female companions around him are young one by one, and they can't help but ask: Gao Yalin, this "old man" with a stumbling face, why can he engage in "beauty pageants" in the entertainment industry? What the hell are they trying to do? How old is he? Picture of him looking like an old man?
It is naturally difficult for people standing outside the turmoil to understand Xu Zijun's choice.
After all, she is beautiful, she is still young, she was born in the Beiying class, and her acting skills are not bad. In the environment of ordinary people, it is the kind of girl that everyone envies the most, what kind of high-quality boyfriend do you want to find? Do you have to be willing to fall?
But looking at the series of works Xu Zijun has participated in since graduation, it seems that her choice can be explained.
In 2020, she played a supporting role in the two dramas "Twenty Don't Confuse" and "The Sky of the Wind Dog Boy"; In the same year, she released her solo single "Like You in 10,000 Ways";
In 2022, she will play a small model in the urban emotional drama "Welcome"; In the same year, she also participated in the sitcom variety show "Start Broadcasting! Sitcom.
Among these acting experiences, the one who is slightly famous is to participate in "Start Broadcasting! Sitcom".
Coincidentally, Gao Yalin happened to play the role of mentor in this variety show.
In such a dire environment as the entertainment industry, it is difficult to become famous, and being beautiful is a basic exercise rather than an advantage.
In such competitive pressure, if there is a senior with industry experience and rich resources who is willing to help you, how many people can stick to the bottom line? Even if the price is to violate morality and intervene in other people's feelings, it is difficult for us to understand the specific situation.
Ordinary people will always be losers when they exchange with capital
Not only in the entertainment industry, but also in other industries, there are countless cases of using unspoken rules to get to the top. One of the most typical is the financial circle.
In the financial circle, there have been many cases where male bosses disguise the unspoken rules as finding true love.
Many little girls who have just entered the industry are ignorant and have fallen into the trap, and some may make a profit and rise to such a position; More people are toyed with by scumbags, and in the end they are infamous as "top", and they can't even keep their jobs!
The gift of fate has long been secretly marked with a price. If ordinary people want to trade with capital, they must first ask themselves whether they have the ability to fight.
The age is there, the experience is there, the wealth and power are there, and the resources are there. Some people want to have these, but they can only rely on some unspoken unspoken rules to curry favor with them.
But those ordinary girls who have no background and no family background often have a similar ending when they are deeply trapped in Vanity Fair, that is, they become the playthings of capital.
In the end, the scandal was pierced, and it had to be treated as discarded garbage, and it was too late to kick it away.
But what punishment will a person like Gao Yalin who uses unspoken rules to plot and split his legs? Except for the pressure of online public opinion, he doesn't seem to have anything to lose. As soon as you are old, you have already made some career achievements, and you have earned enough money.
In the end, only Xu Zijun, who was abandoned, was left to endure huge online violence and slut humiliation alone.
Why do unspoken rules persist for a long time?
All walks of life need to be constrained by rules, but the existence of unspoken rules has broken the balance of industry development and made many people's efforts seem like a joke.
But society is like this, often advocating and doing are not the same thing.
This does not mean that the ideas advocated are wrong. It's just that behind the unspoken rules, it is often the embodiment of real power.
The weaker side, when faced with the unspoken rule hints of the superior, either resolutely refuses, at the cost of losing some benefits, or condescends to accept it, and the price may be reduced.
What kind of person is the weaker party? Poor, grassroots employees, female subordinates who are not deeply involved in the world, and showbiz flowers with no resources.
There are too many disadvantaged people, and the people who hold power are often only a small number, which leads to a very absurd thing: those who have superior resources do not even need to actively seek prey, and there are countless people who are willing to take the unspoken rules to the top.
Even if some people are involuntary, it is difficult to speak up for themselves under the pressure of power.
To put it bluntly, behind the unspoken rules of the industry, almost all of them are full of unsavory interest exchanges. Once exposed, it's almost a lose-lose situation.
But do you guess that industry "seniors" like Gao Yalin will care?
One second he could throw a lot of money to make the actress laugh, and the next second he could kick away, mocking the other party "She is a chicken", and his words were full of insults. He did not think that he was at fault, but regarded the woman's act of preserving the evidence as "scheming".
Once a "low-key artist", after all, he was just an ordinary person who was corrupted by power.
Author: Zhang Fuen