Tonight (May 11) "Zhen Rich Milk, Do Not Disturb", the female guest Dai Wenjun bravely chased love with full firepower and pushed the atmosphere to a climax again and again, Meng Fei couldn't help but sigh: "There have been a lot of lights on this stage, but she has raised the courage to chase love to a new level!" How do you fall in love when you're busy? sparked heated discussions on the scene. The three teachers believe that the key to working long hours is to see whether they really care about each other, and a very important data is to increase the proportion of leisure time for both parties.
The female guests are full of firepower and the lights are blown up in seconds! Meng Fei: "She has raised the courage to chase love to a new level!" ”
Zhang Sijia, a male guest from Harbin, just stepped off the elevator and didn't stand still, and the female guest Dai Wenjun chose to blow the lights in a second, "How should I describe how I felt just now, I don't know if everyone will be asked, 'What type of boy do you like', before the male guest arrives, I may not have an answer, just the moment he appears, this answer is concretized, you are my ideal type!" ”
When he just graduated from university, Zhang Sijia went to Beijing to develop and work in personnel management in a well-known Internet company, planning to be a supervisor for three years, a manager for three years, and a CEO for three years...... The ideal is very beautiful, but in the end, I found that the poems and distant places were hidden by life, and later returned to my hometown Harbin to develop. After a break, I was exposed to photography and editing, and became an editor through continuous learning, "I like my work and life very much, and I can control the pace of life by myself. Every time the film is cut, I feel as if there is still a happy ending missing, girlfriend, come and shoot a happy ending with me! ”
When it comes to the topic of feelings, Zhang Sijia advocates that coquettishness is not just a girl's right, "Sometimes a boy says something in a different way, and the effect will be different." I remember carving a jack-o'-lantern for my ex, and she didn't like it as I imagined, but I said that this gift must be the first time you have received it, and I want to satisfy this first. I really did it for a long time, my hands were worn out, this sentence really gave this little jack-o'-lantern a different meaning, she was very moved. Later, she took a hair dryer and dried the whole jack-o-lantern and soaked it in preservatives so that it could be stored longer. It's a pity that they gradually drifted apart because of different places and different rhythms of life, and finally broke up. ”
Asked if he would always live in Harbin in the future, Zhang Sijia said: "It's really hard to say, the winter in Harbin is too long, and even now it feels a little cold." Dai Wenjun continued to show his love: "Then come to my house, Jingdezhen, Jiangxi Province is like spring all year round." During the exchange between the male and female guests, the answers to every question really poked my heart. I want to ask you a question, a door made of wood is called a wooden door, and a door made of iron is called an iron door, so do you know what the door to happiness is called? Call 'we'! In the final session, Zhang Sijia asked the candidate girl, "I'm a little insecure, what kind of way will you use to give the other half a sense of security?" Dai Wenjun responded enthusiastically: "I have three keywords, the first is single-mindedness, the second is high emotional value, and the third is possessiveness, I am also very clingy!" I want to be with my boyfriend most of the time, and I think spending a lot of time with me is the greatest sense of security. I was actually a little hesitant after blowing up the lights, worried that he might not like my dress today, I hope the program team can broadcast a short film of my life, so that he can know more about me, I think people are attracted by sincerity! Zhang Sijia was also greatly touched, "At the beginning, she gave me a light explosion, I thought it might just be the appearance of consideration, but she continued to choose me firmly, and she insisted again and again It really moved me!" ”
Meng Fei said with emotion: "There have been a lot of lights on this stage, but how brave can a girl be for love, I think Dai Wenjun has risen to a new level!" Her kind of bravery has atmosphere, calmness, firmness, and earthy love words, and she has set a very good example, she clearly knows all the needs of the other party, she knows that you are clingy, I am more clingy than you; You want to feel secure, and I can give people the most security. It's all a straightforward expression of heart, it doesn't matter if you like me or not, you have to know how much I like you and how willing I am to pay for this feeling, it's enough! In the end, the choice is yours. In the end, will the two of them be able to hold hands in the end?
Increase the proportion of leisure time companionship Good feelings can be integrated into each other's circles
"A person's life may be a process of constantly patching up loopholes for themselves", Liu Qingwei, a male guest from Chongqing, used to be an air boy, "I am very confused when I fly in the air every day, day after day, is this really the life I want?" After that, he made up his mind to change his life, and now he works as an assistant to the president of a financial company, constantly breaking through various challenges, and gradually painting a piece of his own sky. Liu Qingwei said that he has a skill that he can't repair that is, he can't take pictures, and he is looking forward to finding a girlfriend who looks good at taking pictures.
For a mature man, how to balance work and love is very important. Female guest Guo Qi said: "I am also an assistant to the president, I have been doing this job for more than two years, and I have been single for more than two years. I think we are really too busy to find love, there is very little time to fall in love, I can really have a conference call anytime and anywhere, the message back to the boss will be faster than the message to the boyfriend, and the boyfriend may leave the scene early after watching a movie halfway through......" Meng Fei suggested: "Lovers need to understand each other and take care of each other, busy is one thing, after a long time, two people should find a law of working hours, working a long time is not afraid, the key is to see if they really care about each other, One of the most important stats is to increase the proportion of leisure time spent by both parties. In fact, everyone must have a time to be free, and when you are free, how much time are you willing to leave for intimacy, which is a sign of sincerity. ”
Talking about the emotional experience, Liu Qingwei shared: "My ex is very clingy, he needs to be picked up and dropped off at work, he has to eat food that I make, he must accompany me on his days off, and he doesn't like me to hang out with friends...... Since she became my girlfriend, I seem to have lost all my friends, I feel that love should not be a barrier between me and my friends, and good feelings can be integrated into each other's circle, so I chose to break up. However, every relationship will make me more mature and more clear about my expectations for love, I like sassy and sweet temperament girls, I believe that true love will eventually appear! The female guest Lan Chengli insisted on leaving the lamp for the end, "The male guest is in Chongqing and I am in Chengdu, which is very close, and the important thing is that he meets my mate selection criteria in many aspects." "Who is Liu Qingwei's heartwarming girl? Will they be able to hold hands in the end? At 20:30 tonight (May 11), please pay attention to Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Zhen Thick Milk, Do Not Disturb".