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possess
When I saw this Zhihu hot post in the middle of the night, I almost laughed off my head.
"When did you feel the urge to strangle your dog?"
Looking at it all the way, dogs eating, raiding homes and pretending to be lame are all considered pediatrics.
Some respondents shared that their dogs swam in the stinky ditch in order to chase their hearts, and they were dyed with a strange smell. No matter how helpless you are, you have to let the dog get in the car.
Finally, get a limited-edition stool-smelling car.
There is also a respondent who shared that he pretended to be dead to test the dog, but he didn't expect the dog to be very happy, so he quickly went to the trash can to pull chicken bones to eat.
Seeing the owner come back to life, the dog's eyes were full of fear. There is one more reason to get a heart attack.
What's more, another respondent's dog devoured the little yellow duck.
Swallowed 19 in a row, shocking the veterinarian for a whole year.
I was relieved to see this, in comparison, my dog is so "normal".
It just killed 6 chickens, 7 sheep, 8 rabbits. Help me spend my salary on time every month, that's it.
Intimate ...... Ghosts.
So, I have to reward it with an extra beating every month.
However, the dogs seem to be in the middle two.
But Lorenz, the founder of the world's zoological research, said:
Animals are all reincarnated by wise men. The wisdom accumulated over thousands of years is packed in a body smaller than that of a human being, and the dog does not need to speak, it speaks with its whole body.
So, maybe your dog is not stupid, it can also teach us some wisdom in life.
Mistrust?
Let's take a look at what kind of happiness you already have.
02
allow
The first teaching content of the dog is absolutely allowed.
When you raise a puppy from childhood to adulthood, then you definitely feel it deeply.
Newspaper columnist John Jerogan has a mischievous dog.
To this end, he wrote a book: "Marley and I: A Happy Life with the World's Number One Trickster".
Due to the best-selling book, it was also adapted into the movie "Marley and Me".
Like all newlyweds and happy couples, I feel that life as sweet as honey has just begun.
In order to adapt to life with a baby in advance, John chose the puppy Marley at a glance and started a novice baby drill.
Marley lived up to expectations and soon grew into a 90-pound house-raider.
Bite the sofa, knock over the trash can, destroy the pillow, drink toilet water, etc.
Carrying the hostess's underwear through the streets and alleys, the hostess chased after her.
I won't say who is more social dead.
Once, John bought his wife a necklace, and Marley swallowed it in one gulp.
John could only wait for Mariel to come out, wash, and return to his wife.
My wife is also a good person, and I don't care very much, so I wear it.
After getting used to it, John even wrote Marley's trick-or-treating into his column, which many readers liked, and John had a stable job for this purpose.
When the dog comes to wreak havoc, or when some trouble arises in life, you might as well let go of your emotions and learn to allow.
Anyway, in the end, I want you to clean up, and I want to open a little.
In this way, you can experience the aesthetics of crazy happiness at the same time when you are dealing with the aftermath.
03
play
You must not have imagined that the second lesson of dog teaching turned out to be play.
It's in our nature to love to play, we remember it as children.
A wobble thread, a leaf, a bell, a handful of dirt, is enough to giggle.
Later, we grew up.
There are a lot of "can'ts".
It's like a leash when a dog goes out.
Many times the dog broke free from the leash, and John ran wildly behind. It's not uncommon to run a few blocks.
Sometimes he will stop and wait for you, see if you catch up and then keep running.
On the way to take Marley to the ligation, he jumped straight out of the window.
There was traffic outside, and there was no way to park, so in order to prevent the dog from being injured, John could only hold his hind legs.
For the dog, it does what it has to do.
Since the window is open, I want to jump again, why not?
Just did what they wanted to do, that's all.
During the filming of "Marley and Me", a total of 22 dogs played Marley of different ages.
One of them played most of the film's plot, and on set, the trainers only assisted the dog to match the director's plot.
But no one taught it how not to do it, like jumping on the person and chewing whatever he wanted to bite.
It's Marley.
Later in the movie, when John is plagued by a midlife crisis, he takes Marley to the beach.
Taking the initiative to let go of the leash, Marley rushed to the sea.
Get excited to play in the water.
The people walking the dogs around also let go of the leash, and many dogs rushed into the water.
In fact, it was not Marley that John let go, Marley has always been free.
He let go of himself, who was getting tighter and tighter.
Because I don't have the freedom to run wild in the sea, I will guard you.
At this moment, you are me.
Of course, rules are like safety and security and need to be followed.
But you have to understand that its existence is protection, not bondage. You can be more relaxed and calm.
Stopping when it's dangerous and continuing to play in a different direction is what a leash is all about.
04
Love and separation
The third lesson of dog teaching is about love and separation.
The dog doesn't live long, which is probably its only drawback.
British director Sir Scott said:
"Sometimes I wonder why dogs are so short-lived, and I think it must be because they have compassion for humans, because if we only know a dog for ten or twelve years, and it makes us so miserable to lose it, then if the life span of a dog is doubled, how can we get it!"
In the movie "Marley and Me", Marley is old and begins to get sick.
After falling ill for the first time, John dropped Marley to the clinic.
The doctor rescued. But say, next time, maybe not so lucky, let him be ready.
Later, Marley found a quiet place by himself and waited quietly for death.
John found it and when he took it to the clinic, the doctor said: Sorry.
After saying goodbye, Marley left.
After returning home, the family said goodbye to Marley in turn.
The wife also took off the necklace that Marley had eaten in her stomach and put it with Marley.
And he was buried in a corner of the courtyard.
Many people said they were crying like dogs here.
Especially after experiencing the death of a dog, I don't want to see death.
However, from another point of view, a dog has your love for a lifetime, and he can be with you before leaving.
And you, with a lot of precious and beautiful memories, have learned to love and cherish them.
You are not the best, but you have the best of each other, and this is a kind of happiness.
If you have a dog, please cherish him and the passion and devotion he brings to you.
05
Everything is beautiful
In ordinary life, there are many happy moments.
Not only dogs, but also cats, fish, birds, friends, relatives and lovers.
In this one-way journey of life, everything we encounter is beautiful.
It seems that there is only one way forward, and there is no way back. But Huang Zhan wrote the lyrics "Chu Liuxiang", there is a sentence: "I travel alone in a thousand mountains, and I don't have to send each other." ”
We don't have to send each other, because our encounter is good enough.
That's enough.