Met in his later years
My name is Chen Jingxuan, and I have entered my old age. The first half of my life was not satisfactory, and my wife and I finally came to a fork in the road for various reasons. Although the days after the divorce were quiet, I always felt that something was missing. The children are busy, and I gradually realize that what I need is not only the companionship of my family, but also the warmth of the long-lost love.
The years are not forgiving, but my heart is not old. I began to wonder if I could still find that feeling of excitement in my old age. So, with the encouragement of my friends, I stepped into the world of blind dates. I know it's a challenge for me, but it's also an opportunity.
On the first blind date, I met Aunt Li. She is an elegant woman, and her speech and demeanor reveal a kind of calmness and calmness. We talked very speculatively, from the past to the future, from family to work, as if there were endless topics to talk about. However, just when I thought that this blind date would have a good outcome, Aunt Li raised her concerns.
"Mr. Chen, I don't think we might be a good fit." Aunt Li said with a smile, but her eyes revealed a kind of firmness.
I was stunned and asked, "Why?" We had a great chat. ”
Aunt Li sighed softly and said slowly, "Yes, we had a good chat. But I think there are some differences in the pace of life and values between us. I like a quiet, uneventful life, and you seem to crave more passion and energy. I think that such differences can cause us to be conflicted in our relationship. ”
I was silent, although I was unwilling in my heart, but I also understood that Aunt Li's words were not unreasonable. Everyone has their own way of life and pursuits, and we can't force others to live according to their own ideas. So, I smiled and said, "I respect your choice." While we can't be partners, I hope we can be friends. ”
Aunt Li also smiled, she reached out and shook my hand, and said, "I hope so, too." ”
Although this blind date ended in failure, I was not discouraged. On the contrary, it has made me more aware of my needs and expectations. I knew that I was looking for not only a partner, but also someone who could understand and support each other.
Soon after, I went on another blind date. This time the object is Aunt Wang, a warm and cheerful woman. We hit it off at first sight, as if we had endless words. However, just as we were having a good conversation, Aunt Wang suddenly mentioned her concept of "no home".
"Mr. Chen, you know what? I have always felt that home is a welcoming place, but it should not be a shackle that binds us. Aunt Wang said seriously, "I like to live freely and easily, and I don't like to be tied up by family trivialities." So, I hope that my partner will also understand and support me in this way of life. ”
I was stunned, and an inexplicable feeling surged in my heart. Aunt Wang's words made me realize that she is not a "playful" woman in the traditional sense. She pursues freedom, independence, and happiness. Isn't this kind of woman exactly what I admire and yearn for?
However, I also understand that there may be some differences in our lifestyles and values. But I didn't give up because of that, instead, I decided to give each other a chance to get to know and adapt to each other.
In the days that followed, Aunt Wang and I often went out for walks, chatted, and watched movies together. We share each other's life experiences and feelings, and we try to understand and embrace each other's differences. Gradually, I found myself liking the feeling of being with Aunt Wang more and more. I was fascinated by her cheerfulness, independence and self-confidence.
However, just as our relationship was heating up, an unexpected piece of news shattered the silence. Aunt Wang was diagnosed with a rare disease that required long-term treatment and recuperation. The news left us all in silos. I know it's a tough test, but none of us gave up.
I accompanied Aunt Wang through that difficult time. We face the challenges of illness together and share the joys and pains of life together. In the process, I have a deeper understanding of the power and greatness of love.
Eventually, Aunt Wang's condition was brought under control. She recovered, and she regained her confidence and courage in life. And our feelings have been sublimated in the process. We decided that no matter how many difficulties and challenges we will encounter in the future, we will face them together and go through them together.
This is the story of my later encounters. It made me understand a truth: love is not the impulse and passion of youth, but the understanding and tolerance after years of precipitation. Meeting the right person in your later years is a kind of luck and happiness. I am willing to cherish this happiness and accompany Aunt Wang for the rest of her life.