Hello everyone, I am the eldest sister of the north, a 90-year-old professional mother, this is my 119th article, after a year of persistence, will I thank me for persevering now.
I'm 34 years old in the 90s, and it's really getting harder and harder for people to reach middle age? I don't know what I will do in the future, I may go to study confinement and housekeeping, but I may be unwilling, what is the meaning of my university? It's not that I look down on this profession, I'm thinking about how many years less money I make? If I had turned 18 and started doing this, wouldn't I be very rich now?
Since last year, people around me have started to lose their jobs and cut their salaries, and I feel that the economy is in a recession.
I remember my classmate in Shanghai, tutoring class teacher, finally went out of business, she was at home with a baby, she thought that she might be like this in the future, simply bring a baby is also a brought, with two babies is also a brought, this year's May Day holiday, she posted a photo of a child, asked the same as their boss No, I just knew that she gave birth to a baby, he said that the pressure is great, fortunately, her husband has done the company's management, the annual salary is also a lot, and it is no problem to support their family.
People like us who are 40 years old, it's really difficult, a few days ago our company had a physical examination, and then a form with everyone's ID number on it, according to the ID number, there are really few 40-year-olds, there are a few women who are 40 years old, and they are not married at that time, and the rest are a few 40-year-old male colleagues, not more than 45 years old.
工作
At our age, it's not easy to find a job. Not to mention our age, my colleague has been looking for 4 months in 97, and has not found a job, he said that in the gym, a bunch of unemployed people usually have no time to exercise, and now they are all unemployed and go to fitness.
After submitting your resume, you basically sink into the sea, either you have read it, but you don't contact it, and there are few people who really invite you for an interview.
孩子
My sister-in-law said, I'm not afraid of being 35 years old, what I'm afraid of is that it's really difficult to have a child, I've been preparing to get pregnant for several years, and now I'm ready to do IVF, give birth to a child, it's really sad, it's so easy for you to have a child, why is it so difficult for me to have a child?
You don't want it yet, you still have an abortion, give it to me when you are born.
结婚
My friend is 87 years old, and she is still not married, she said that you know that I am afraid to go back to my hometown now, and every time it is like a criticism meeting, the seven aunts and eight aunts take turns to fight, you don't know how anxious I am.
It's also unstable, you haven't gotten married, you are married, at least no matter what happens, there is someone to support you, someone to share with you, and there is no room for promotion in work.
I'm the kind of father who doesn't love my mother, I don't have a home, my mother's home is no longer my home, my brother is married, and I don't have a sense of belonging.
负债
Now there are so many people in debt, there are family burdens, and raising children is too difficult, and I want to find a part-time job, but there is no part-time job at all.
房贷
Monthly mortgage, no savings, living expenses for the family. It's too stressful to live.
没人带孩子
Although you can't go to work with your own children, you can't go to work, and when your children are older and can find a job, you can't find a job, a full-time wife, palms up, spend too much and say you won't live, say you won't make money, you know to play with your mobile phone at home. Obviously, you can't finish the housework and laundry every day, but no one understands you.
I feel that people now, although the conditions are better, are really tired and tired, and the world of adults is not simple.
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