The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a hot topic in the family. How to deal with the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become a difficult problem faced by many families. Some people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good because the mother-in-law manages too much, is too wide, and forgets the boundaries. If a mother-in-law can do the following three things, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be more harmonious, and the daughter-in-law will be more respectful and grateful to her mother-in-law.
One doesn't care: Regardless of the daughter-in-law's life and consumption habits. There is a big difference between the living habits and consumption habits of young and old. The elderly advocate frugality and have lower needs for life, while young people pay more attention to the quality of life and like to use various consumption to meet their needs. If the mother-in-law can respect the daughter-in-law's living and consumption habits and do not interfere with their choices, the daughter-in-law will feel understood and respected, and thus appreciate the mother-in-law more.
Two don't care: no matter the interaction between the daughter-in-law and the mother's family. The daughter-in-law was raised by her own parents before she came to her mother-in-law's house, and she should go back to visit her parents when she got married. If the mother-in-law understands this and does not interfere with the daughter-in-law's interaction with her mother's family, the daughter-in-law will feel respected and free, and will appreciate the mother-in-law even more.
Three don't care: It doesn't matter if the daughter-in-law works to earn money. In modern society, women have the right to choose whether to work or not. If the mother-in-law can respect the daughter-in-law's choice and not force them to go out to work, the daughter-in-law will feel understood and respected, and will be more grateful to the mother-in-law.
However, in real life, it is often difficult for mothers-in-law to do all three. They may worry that their daughter-in-law's living habits and consumption habits will affect the family's economic situation, that their daughter-in-law's return to her parents' home will bring a burden to the family, and that the daughter-in-law's non-work will affect the family's economic income. These worries and worries often lead to excessive interference and discipline by mothers-in-law over their daughters-in-law.
So, how do you get mothers-in-law to do these three things? First of all, mothers-in-law need to learn to respect their daughters-in-law's living habits and consumption habits, and understand their daughters-in-law's choices and decisions. Secondly, mothers-in-law need to learn to let go and not interfere too much in the lives and decisions of their daughters-in-law. Finally, mothers-in-law need to learn to trust their daughters-in-law and trust that they can handle their own lives and work on their own.
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