Later in life, some people may revisit their relationships, including with their spouse, children, and other loved ones. For some, they may find that although a spouse is the closest partner in life, there are ways in which others (such as children, siblings, or friends) also play an important role.
This recognition does not mean to belittle the importance of a spouse, but rather an understanding of the diversity of relationships. Everyone has different roles and responsibilities in the family and society, and these roles and responsibilities can change over time and in context.
For some, they may value their relationship with their children even more, because they are the descendants of their blood and their hope and sustenance for the future. They may see in their children the shadow of their youth, and feel a kind of inheritance and continuity.
In addition, siblings and friends may also play an important role in later life. They can be our supporters in difficult times and our confidants to share our joys and sorrows. Their presence makes our lives more colorful, and also makes us feel a deep sense of family and friendship.
In short, in old age, we may have a deeper understanding and perception of interpersonal relationships. We will realize that the closest person is not just the spouse, but all relatives and friends, including the spouse. Together, these relationships make up our social network and provide us with emotional support and companionship.