Preamble:
Recently, an article entitled "It is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law in the countryside, and young men must have real skills" has caused heated discussions on the Internet. In the article, a young man from a rural area told about his experience of wanting to marry a daughter-in-law but facing many difficulties, which aroused the resonance and thinking of the majority of netizens. In fact, the difficulty of marrying a daughter-in-law in rural areas is nothing new, but this problem has always existed and is becoming more and more serious. So, why is it difficult to marry a daughter-in-law in rural areas now? What is the reason for this? Let's dive into this question together.
1. It is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law in the countryside, and the young man must have real skills
In recent years, the phenomenon of difficulty in marrying a wife in rural areas has become more and more serious, especially in some economically underdeveloped areas, and this problem is particularly prominent. Originally, it was thought that only in the cities would there be "leftover men and women", but now there is also such a problem in the countryside. On the one hand, it is because of the large-scale exodus of the rural population, and on the other hand, because the concept of marriage and family in the countryside has begun to undergo irreversible changes. In such an environment, it is indeed very difficult to find your other half in the countryside.
In fact, today's countryside is not as we imagined, young men can marry the girl they like casually. On the contrary, if you want to find your other half in the countryside, the young man must have real skills, and the so-called real skills mainly refer to some economic conditions. For example, if there is no bride price, house, car, etc., then if you want to marry a good daughter-in-law, it can basically only be a luxury.
In fact, it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law in rural areas, not because girls are picky, but because the current society has begun to have a new understanding of marriage and love. Coupled with the development of modern society, especially the high development of information, it is natural for them to have more choices, as well as more ideas and requirements, which is also a very normal thing.
Second, the difficulty of marrying a daughter-in-law in rural areas is a problem for both parties
Of course, it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law in rural areas, which does not mean that this problem is all the responsibility of the girls, on the contrary, it is a problem that requires the joint efforts of both parties. When facing this problem, the young men first need to be aware of the earth-shaking changes that have taken place in the society they are facing, and the girls they are facing are no longer very traditional girls, but independent, assertive, and have their own work and career.
So, if the young men in the countryside are still stuck in the same place, thinking that they can marry a good daughter-in-law with a skill, then they are really wrong. On the contrary, they need to constantly improve themselves, to have a broader vision, to have a more comprehensive knowledge, and more importantly, to have a tolerant and tolerant heart, to understand and respect the girls, in order to be able to solve this problem.
In addition, it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law in the countryside, and it also requires the efforts of the girls. When looking for their other half, girls need a pair of bright eyes that can see a person's inside, rather than being confused by superficial material conditions. Only in this way can you truly find your other half who suits you and truly have a happy marriage.
3. Solving the difficulty of marrying a daughter-in-law in rural areas requires the joint efforts of the whole society
Of course, to thoroughly solve the problem of the difficulty of marrying a wife in rural areas, it is not something that can be achieved overnight, but requires the joint efforts of the whole society. First of all, we should pay more attention to the education and career development of rural women, so that they have more knowledge and skills, and can also integrate into all corners of society, so as to improve their status and autonomy.
Secondly, we also need to adapt to the changes of the times and adapt to the renewal of family concepts and marriage concepts. Modern society is no longer the kind of very traditional society, and we should pay more attention to the love and emotions in marriage, rather than just the material conditions. Only in this way can we truly understand the meaning of marriage and have a happy marriage.
Finally, the government also plays a very important role in this, they can introduce relevant policies to support the entrepreneurship and employment of rural youth, help them financially, reduce the financial pressure on them to marry their daughters-in-law, and also give them some substantial help, so that they have more courage to pursue their own happiness.
Epilogue:
It is indeed a very real problem and a very complicated problem that it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law in rural areas. It is not easy to solve this problem, but we should not be helpless, but we should start from ourselves, from the people around us, to gradually influence more people, so that they can truly understand marriage and love, and can also be brave to pursue their own happiness.