The smoke and rain in the south of the Yangtze River, the feelings are surging
Spring in the south of the Yangtze River is always a little poetic and hazy. The drizzle is like silk, falling gently, staining the bluestone pavement of the ancient town wet. In the midst of this smoke and rain, I walked alone, but my heart was surging with all kinds of reveries about women. I think every man should understand the hints of women, because it is the bond of emotional communication, the bridge of mutual heart.
"The rain hits the pear blossom and closes the door, forgetting the youth, mistaking the youth." As I whispered this poem, ripples rippled in my heart. In the smoke and rain of the south of the Yangtze River, I seemed to see a woman, she stood alone in front of the window, looking at the pear blossoms falling outside the window, her heart was full of endless thoughts and sorrows. What is revealed in her eyes is a desire for love and an expectation for a man.
During the Republican period, although the society was much more open, the emotional communication between men and women was still subject to many constraints. Women often can't express their emotions directly, and can only convey their hearts through some subtle hints. These hints may be a look, a smile, a gesture, or even the tone of a sentence. Men need to be careful to grasp the meaning.
I remember that it was a spring afternoon, and I met a woman named Wan'er. She was wearing an elegant cheongsam, like the smoke and rain in the south of the Yangtze River, gentle and charming. We had a great conversation, from poetry and poetry to philosophy of life. However, in the course of the conversation, I noticed that she would cast some subtle glances and smiles from time to time. These hints make me a little confused.
"Wan'er, do you have something to say to me?" I finally couldn't help but ask.
She smiled slightly and shook her head gently: "No, I just think it's fun to chat with you." ”
However, there was a different kind of emotion in her eyes. I knew she must be hinting at me something. So, I decided to take a closer look at her words and actions.
In the days that followed, I began to pay more attention to every detail of Wan'er. I've found that whenever she mentions a topic, her eyes get extra bright; Whenever she saw me, a smile unconsciously lifted up on her lips. These subtle hints made me gradually grasp her intentions.
However, just as I was about to confess to her, something unexpected happened. Wan'er's family suddenly arranges a marriage for her, marrying her to a man she doesn't like. After hearing the news, Wan'er was depressed all day long, and I also felt like a knife.
"Wan'er, do you really want to marry that man?" I asked eagerly.
She nodded silently, tears rolling in her eyes: "I can't help it, it's the family's arrangement." ”
Looking at her painful look, I knew I couldn't wait any longer. I had to confess to her and tell her my feelings for her. So, on a rainy night, I mustered up the courage to come to Wan'er's door.
"Wan'er, I have something to say to you." I stood in front of the door, took a deep breath, and shouted.
Wan'er opened the door and saw me standing in the rain, and a hint of surprise flashed in her eyes. I walked forward quickly and held her hand tightly: "Wan'er, I love you." I know you're probably already married, but I want you to know what I want. ”
After Wan'er listened to my confession, tears could not stop flowing. She hugged me tightly and couldn't cry: "I love you too, but ......"
I gently stroked her hair and said softly, "I know your struggles, but I want you to know that no matter what decision you make, I will respect and support you." ”
On that rainy night, we poured out our hearts to each other. Although we couldn't be together in the end, we both felt a deep love for each other. Since then, I have come to understand a truth: men must understand women's cues. Because those hints contain their intentions and expectations, only men who understand these hints can truly enter the inner world of women and establish a deep emotional bond with them.
"A glass of wine in the spring breeze of peach and plum, and ten years of night rain in the rivers and lakes." On this rainy night, I sat alone in front of the window, looking out at the drizzle. I know that although I can't be with Wan'er, our relationship will remain in my heart forever like the smoke and rain in the south of the Yangtze River. At the same time, I also understand that as men, we should understand women's cues, because they are the bond of emotional communication and the bridge between each other's hearts. Only in this way can we better understand them, care for them, and walk with them through every stage of life.