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Peach Blossom Eyes
Peach Blossom Eyes
Preface
Life is like a play, everyone is playing their own role.
However, when the people in the play walk off the stage and return to real life, can they still maintain that calmness and calmness? Liu Neng in "Country Love" always shows a simple and honest image on the screen, but when the plot is moved to real life, things don't seem to be so simple.
Life and drama are inherently mirrored by each other.
Drama is like life, life is like drama.
The image created by Liu Neng in the play has long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
The audience is used to the way he looks in the play, but they pay little attention to his bits and pieces in real life.
When his family conflicts were made public, people couldn't help but ask, what made this harmonious and beautiful family come to this point? Is it the partiality of the parents, or the unfilial piety of the children? Is it the cruelty of reality, or is it the distortion of human nature? In everyone's mind, it seems that they have their own answer.
But in any case, this farce has left us with too much food for thought and inspiration.
It tells us that life is never smooth sailing, and every family has its own unspeakable secrets.
As bystanders, we may not be able to judge right from wrong, but we can choose to be more understanding and tolerant.
Because in this world, no one is perfect, everyone is interpreting their own life in their own way.
Wang Zijia and Pei Ziyun's low-key wedding
In 2023, Wang Zijia, who is only 23 years old, will marry his bride Pei Ziyun.
Although the wedding was low-key, it also sparked a lot of topics.
The bride and groom are all top students studying in Canada, and they have overcome IELTS within three months and are admitted to the Toronto Film School.
Such an education and background is undoubtedly something to be proud of and show off in an ordinary family.
But Wang Zijia and Pei Ziyun chose to keep a low profile, did not do a lot of things, did not be extravagant and wasteful, but simply completed this life event.
This low-key, on the one hand, reflects their character and upbringing, and on the other hand, it is also related to their family situation.
As Liu Neng's youngest son, Wang Zijia has been favored since he was a child.
In order to give him a better education, his parents did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to send him to study abroad.
This superior condition also attracted the dissatisfaction and jealousy of his brother Wang Liang.
The conflict between the two brothers seems to have reached its climax at this wedding.
At the wedding scene, Wang Xiaoli could not hide his joy, but his son Wang Liang was missing.
This kind of snub not only made Wang Zijia feel lost, but also made the guests present talk a lot.
People can't help but ask, what happened to this family? Why is there such estrangement and contradiction between brothers? How can all this be resolved? In everyone's mind, it seems that they have their own answer.
But in any case, this low-key wedding has left us with too many reveries and questions.
It tells us that every family has its own story.
Some stories are warm and touching; Some stories are full of contradictions and struggles.
As bystanders, we may not fully understand the complexity, but we can choose to be more inclusive and blessed.
Because in this world, there is no perfect family, everyone is guarding their own happiness in their own way.
The origin of family conflicts
It turned out that long before the wedding, Wang Liang insulted his stepmother Li Lin's family in the live broadcast.
Although Li Lin did not respond publicly, this incident cast a shadow on the family.
Some people speculate that Wang Liang's absence from the wedding may be because he did not receive an invitation.
After all, the journey from Shenyang to Beijing was long, and Wang Liang was worried that Wang Liang would be emotionally unstable and would make trouble at the scene, so the family chose to keep a low profile.
But what the truth is, I'm afraid only the parties themselves know.
As a family, contradictions and conflicts are inevitable.
But when the conflict escalates to this level, when the relationship between family members becomes so strained, it has to be thought about.
What is it that has brought this supposedly harmonious family to this point? Is it the partiality of the parents, or the rebellion of the children? Is it the helplessness of reality, or the sadness of human nature? In everyone's mind, it seems that they have their own answer.
But in any case, this contradiction has left too many scars and regrets on the family.
It teaches us that the home is a place that needs to be run with care.
Here, we need to learn to listen, learn to communicate, learn to understand and tolerate.
Only when everyone knows how to empathize and is willing to compromise and compromise for the sake of the family, can we build a truly warm and loving home.
Otherwise, no matter how beautiful the family is, it will inevitably be destroyed by the wind and rain of reality.
As bystanders, we may not be able to fully understand the ups and downs, but we can choose to be more tolerant and understanding.
Because in this world, every family has its own difficulties, and everyone is guarding this place called "home" in their own way.
Wang Zijia's difficult growth history
Talking about Wang Zijia, I have to mention the experience when he was born.
Due to his premature birth of 40 days, his life hung in the balance.
It was with the full rescue of the doctors and the careful care of his parents that he was able to thrive.
Since then, he has become a treasure in the hearts of his parents, and he is pampered and loved.
His parents had high expectations for him, hoping that he would be able to grow up and live a better life.
For this reason, they did not hesitate to spend a lot of money and sent him abroad to study.
This superior condition has given Wang Zijia a lot of room for development.
He lived up to his parents' expectations, studied hard, excelled in his grades, and was eventually admitted to the coveted Toronto Film School.
Since childhood, Wang Zijia has shown amazing artistic talent, can speak and sing, and seems to have inherited the excellent genes of his parents.
His growth seems to be natural, and he has not experienced too many setbacks and tribulations.
But in fact, his life was not all smooth sailing.
As the youngest son in the family, he will inevitably be rejected and jealous by his older brother.
The contradictions between the brothers often made him feel confused and helpless.
At the same time, he also bears the ardent expectations of his parents and shoulders the future of the family.
This kind of pressure often makes him breathless.
But he never complained, but chose to bear it silently, and chose to repay his parents for their nurturing grace in his own way.
From this point of view, Wang Zijia's growth is actually not easy.
He has proved his worth with his own efforts, and has also brought infinite hope and possibilities to this family.
As bystanders, we may envy his talent and luck, but we should also admire his strength and perseverance.
Because in this world, no one is born strong, everyone is writing their own legend in their own way.
Wang Liang's difficult past
In contrast, Wang Liang, as the boss, was not so lucky.
Back then, when he was studying in an art school in Shenyang, his family's financial conditions were not well-off, and he was even in danger of dropping out of school.
This predicament made him feel extremely frustrated and hesitant.
He didn't understand why his younger brother, who was also Liu Neng's son, could live such a privileged life, while he had to suffer like this.
This gap made him feel deeply unfair and wronged.
Over time, this resentment and jealousy gradually evolved into hostility and hatred towards his younger brother and stepmother.
He began to become irritable and began to vent his emotions online.
This kind of behavior, although understandable, further escalates family conflicts.
Now, my younger brother can study abroad, and the annual cost is as high as hundreds of thousands, or even millions.
This huge contrast may be the fuse for Wang Liang's emotional out-of-control.
But that doesn't mean that negates his character and character.
After all, everyone has their own difficulties and hardships.
As the eldest in the family, Wang Liang has been burdened with the burden of the family since he was a child.
He has to take care of his younger siblings and take on the expectations of his parents.
This kind of pressure often makes him breathless.
At the same time, he also has to face the cruelty of reality and work hard for his livelihood.
This kind of hardship is unimaginable to ordinary people.
But he never gave up, but chose to bear it silently, and chose to use his own way to protect this family.
From this point of view, Wang Liang's life is actually not easy.
He used his strength to interpret the responsibility of an older brother, and also brought infinite touch and warmth to the family.
As bystanders, we may feel heartache for what happened to him, but we should admire his courage and responsibility.
Because in this world, no one is smooth sailing, everyone is interpreting their own life in their own way.
Liu Neng's family is low-key and elegant
At the wedding scene, the most eye-catching thing is Liu Neng's in-laws.
It is reported that they are authentic Beijingers with a wealthy family.
The mother-in-law is even more beautiful and elegant, and her name on social platforms is "Beijing Red Sister".
What is admirable is that although the two families are a good match, the mother of the family is very humble and did not speak during the whole process, but just quietly witnessed this scene.
This low-key reflects her cultivation and character.
In this noisy and impetuous society, it is rare to be able to maintain such calmness and calmness.
At the same time, it also gives us some enlightenment.
On the stage of life, we are often tempted by all kinds of fame and fortune, and often fall into the cycle of comparison and showing off.
But true happiness is actually very simple.
It's not about how much you have, it's about whether you're content; It's not about how fierce you are, it's about whether you're open-minded.
The performance of my mother-in-law undoubtedly gave us a good example.
With her actions, she tells us that true elegance lies in inner peace; True wisdom lies in knowing how to forbear.
This quality is undoubtedly worthy of learning and reference for each of us.
It tells us that in this complex world, we must learn to be low-key, learn to be humble, and learn to face all kinds of life with a peaceful mind.
Only in this way can we truly enjoy life and truly find our own happiness.
As bystanders, we may envy our mother's family background and status, but we should admire her bearing and self-cultivation even more.
Because in this world, no one is perfect, everyone is interpreting the meaning of life in their own way.
Li Lin's happy life
Speaking of Li Lin, I have to sigh at her happiness.
As a post-80s generation, she formed a family with Liu Neng at the age of 20 and gave birth to a beloved son.
This seems a little early for many people.
But for Li Lin, this is the right decision.
Because she met Liu Neng and met her true love.
Although Liu Neng is 11 years older than her, although there is a gap between the family backgrounds of the two, she has not flinched because of this.
She used her courage and wisdom to overcome many obstacles, and finally walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand with Liu Neng.
This courage is undoubtedly admirable.
In this materialistic society, it is really commendable to be able to exchange sincerity for sincerity regardless of gains and losses, regardless of background.
At the same time, it also gives us some enlightenment.
On the road of life, we are often swayed by various external conditions, and often fall into the whirlpool of interests and calculations.
But true love is actually very simple.
It's not about how much you have, it's about whether you can give; It's not about how fiercely you fight, it's about whether you can persevere.
Li Lin's experience has undoubtedly given us a good example.
With her own actions, she tells us that true happiness lies in inner satisfaction; True love lies in mutual understanding and support.
This quality is undoubtedly worthy of learning and reference for each of us.
Today, she is 43 years old, 11 years younger than her husband, but the relationship between the two is still as loving as ever.
Although it is a reconstituted family, in the eyes of others, their life is prosperous.
This kind of happiness is not accidental, but they build it bit by bit with sincerity and hard work.
It tells us that in this complex world, we must learn to manage with our hearts, learn to nourish with love, and learn to resolve with tolerance.
Only in this way can we truly have our own happiness and truly enjoy the beauty of life.
As bystanders, we may envy Li Lin's luck and happiness, but we should admire her mind and wisdom even more.
Because in this world, no one is born lucky, everyone is writing their own love story in their own way.
There is still a long way to go to repair the relationship
Now, under the mediation of Zhao Benshan, the farce of Liu Neng's family has come to an end for the time being.
But judging from the current situation, Liu Neng and his wife may not have fully forgiven Wang Liang.
After all, the hurt of words doesn't go away in a moment.
More time is needed for the two sides to repair relations and rebuild mutual trust and understanding.
This process is destined to be difficult and requires great effort.
But as long as both parties have a sincere heart and are willing to work hard for this family, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome.
As a family, we must learn to tolerate, learn to understand, and learn to empathize.
Only when everyone understands each other's difficulties and is willing to make concessions and compromises for the sake of the family, can we build a truly warm and loving home.
It takes everyone's effort and everyone's dedication.
But as long as we work together, as long as we persevere, we will be able to regain that long-lost warmth and happiness.
Because home is always the softest and strongest force in our hearts.
It gives us the courage to move forward and the motivation to pursue our dreams.
No matter how complicated the outside world is, no matter how bumpy the road ahead, as long as we have the support and encouragement of our families, we will never feel lonely and wandering.
Because we know that no matter what happens, home will always be our most solid backing and the warmest harbor.
epilogue
Life is like a play, and drama is like life.
Liu Nengjia in "Country Love" is like a microcosm, reflecting the little-known ups and downs in real life.
Everyone has their own unspeakable secrets, and they are all interpreting life in their own way.
We can't judge right from wrong, but I hope that with the infiltration of time, everyone can find their own happiness and peace.
Life is never easy.
It is full of challenges and difficulties.
But it is precisely because of these tribulations that we can continue to grow and improve.
On the road of life, we will encounter many choices and will face many choices.
But no matter how difficult the road ahead is, no matter how bumpy the days ahead, as long as we always have a kind and sincere heart, as long as we always stick to our dreams and beliefs, we will be able to create our own wonderful life.
Because the meaning of life is never about what you have, but how you have it; It's never about how much you've achieved, it's about whether you've always stuck to your original intention.