When a woman begins to show some seemingly "abnormal" behaviors, there is actually a deep liking behind it. Today, I'm going to share with you a true story that let's uncover the secrets of a woman's heart and think about whether you've ever missed those hints.
My name is Zhang Xu, I am an ordinary office worker, over 30 years old, and I am single so far. In my ordinary life, there was a girl who had a series of "abnormal" behaviors that made me wonder and made me doubt her feelings for me.
Xiao Man, she is my colleague, a lively and cheerful girl, we have known each other and worked together since we started. Xiao Man likes to wear all kinds of flower skirts, wearing flower hairpins, and his smile every day makes people feel warm. In the company, she always took the initiative to chat with me, asked me about trivial things outside of work, joked with me, and often asked me some questions. Compared to other colleagues, she paid more attention to me.
Once, at the company's annual dinner, she deliberately chose a beautiful dress and kept joking with me. After drinking some alcohol, she lost her usual restraint and began to become active, even taking the initiative to approach me. There was a hint of affection in her eyes, and I could sense that she meant something special to me.
In the weeks that followed, Man began to send me frequent messages and funny pictures. I knew this was her way of expressing herself, but I still regarded it as an "abnormal" behavior, and I didn't dare to look directly at the meaning, for fear that I would misunderstand her good intentions.
One day, when I was discussing a TV series with my colleagues in the company, Xiao Man suddenly rushed in, showed a nervous expression, and then deliberately knocked me to the ground. I clutched my back in pain and looked at her suspiciously. But she said in an impatient tone, "Are you alright?" I just saw that you were a little lost, so I wanted to tease you. Hearing this, I finally understood that she liked me!
From that day on, I began to re-examine our relationship with each other. Her smile, her caringness, and her seemingly "abnormal" behavior were all ways she wanted to get my attention. I found that I also subconsciously developed a crush on her, so I decided to pursue her on my own.
On a sunny afternoon, I invited Man to a nearby café for a chat. We sat by the window, and I could see the sunlight shining on her face through the glass, and I was thrilled by her beautiful face. I plucked up the courage to tell her bluntly that I liked her too and hoped to have a deeper relationship with her.
Hearing my confession, Xiao Man's eyes lit up, she lowered her head shyly, and then responded softly: "I've always liked you, but I don't know how to express it." Hearing her answer, my heart was filled with joy and happiness.
Since that day, my relationship with Xiaoman has gradually warmed up, and we have spent many romantic moments together and experienced the joys and sorrows of life together. I understand that women sometimes use some "abnormal" behaviors to express their liking, but we need to be sensitive to these signals to be able to catch the person we like.
This is a true and heartwarming story, and one I want to share with you. When a woman starts to show some "abnormal" behavior, perhaps she is trying to convey a deep affection to you. Therefore, in ordinary life, we must learn to observe and experience carefully, so as to find our true happiness in the ocean of feelings.