The father's violent beating of the child on the subway is terrifying! What the hell is wrong with this father? What did the child do wrong to make him so angry? Is this kind of education really appropriate?
1. Why did the father fight his child?
According to eyewitnesses, the father was already furious when he took his child on the subway. The child may have said something before getting into the car to annoy him, and as a result, he was slapped as soon as he got in the car. The child was so frightened that he shouted, "I don't want to, I won't say it", but the father didn't stop there. What the hell is going on? Did the child make a big mistake? Or is the father too stressed and angry with the child? In any case, it's not a good idea to hit a child!
Second, the father pushes the child off the subway, there is no humanity!
What's even more shocking is that after the father beat the child, he directly pushed the child off the subway! That's too ruthless, isn't it? The child is so young, how scared it is to be treated like this. No matter how angry the child is, he can't do this. It's not a matter of education anymore, it's just abuse! This father's behavior is simply angry and chilling.
3. Beating and scolding education will only make children more rebellious
Many people know that beating and scolding education is not advisable. But in real life, similar incidents are still emerging. Don't these parents know that violence only makes children more rebellious? According to the analysis of netizens, the father may also be under too much pressure to be angry with his child. But whatever the reason, it cannot be an excuse to hurt the child. After all, a child's mind is very fragile, and after being hurt, it may leave an indelible psychological shadow.
Fourth, empathize and understand the child's mood
As parents, we all want our children to grow up healthy and happy. But sometimes, we can also be so childish that we can't do it. At this time, you might as well try to empathize and see the problem from the child's point of view. Perhaps, the child is not trying to make you angry, but just out of curiosity or confusion. Instead of scolding, it is better to communicate patiently and give your child a chance to correct his mistakes. Only by caring for children's hearts with love can we gain children's trust and respect.
Fifth, family education needs wisdom and love
This incident once again triggered everyone's thinking about family education. As a child's first teacher, parents' words and deeds will have a subtle impact on their children. We often say that children are the mirror of their parents. When parents' emotions are out of control, children will learn to vent their dissatisfaction. Therefore, family education not only needs wisdom, but also love. Only by nourishing the child's heart with love can the child grow up strongly.
What this father did was heartbreaking. But we should also reflect on whether we have ever lost control of our emotions and hurt our children's young minds in the process of educating our children. Every child is a unique individual and needs to be nurtured by their parents. Let us warm every child with love, so that they can grow up healthily in love. What kind of education do you think is the best guide for children's growth?