Author: Phantom Brother|President Li Yuan's No. 10 scholar
Two hours ago, I was still thinking about what topic to write about today. I didn't think about it for a while, so I thought about opening a video for my home. As soon as the video is connected~
My daughter said, "Daddy, what are you doing?" ”
I said, "I'm lying in bed thinking. ”
My daughter asked, "What about Uncle President?" ”
I said, "Uncle President has just finished his lecture and is talking downstairs......
At this time, my son stuck his head out and said, "Dad, say hello to Uncle President......
I laughed and answered: "Okay, okay, Hanghang, I will definitely bring your greeting to Uncle President."
Then my daughter continued, "Then I'll leave school at half past five tomorrow night, and it'll be eight o'clock after finishing my homework, and I'll make a video call to Uncle President.....
I said, "Okay, Yiyi, I'll make time for tomorrow night at half past eight o'clock in the evening, and we'll have a video for Uncle President."
I said, "Yiyi, what have you been doing these two days?"
My daughter said, "I've been thinking about how to score 100 points these days, and I scored more than 50 points in the last exam last semester."
Instantly, there was a warm feeling in my heart, inexplicable joy and happiness......
My son stuck his head out again and said, "Daddy, I'll tell you a story."
I said, "Hanghang, you say."
My son said, "Dad, I fixed one of my broken toys yesterday."
When I heard this, I gave a thumbs up and said, "Hanghang, you are too awesome, you are much better than your father and me, give you a thumbs up."
My mother said: "Since I came back from Shenzhen, I don't ask where my phone is every day, even if I leave it idle, I don't touch it." Every day when I get home, I memorize ancient poems, children's songs, and do my homework......"
Then I took a sentence and said: "Yiyi, Hanghang, I read the article where the two of you recite "University" together in bed, and after reading it, Uncle Guild said that you are both good children who are attentive, diligent, hardworking, and sensible.
The two little ones were laughing happily...... I'm smiling a lot, too.
During the Spring Festival, I took my mother and two children to stay in Langya Pavilion for half a month, and the president gave a group of our children of scholars to tell them about Confucius, talk about "The Way of the University", recite the juvenile Chinese sayings, read "Wang Yangming's Family Motto", cook the table ceremony before the meal, teach them the code of conduct, and tailor the family rules, family style, and family motto for each family......
President Li Yuan often said to our scholar team: "Family is always the first dojo, and educating children will be long in the future, and the future will not be long." ”
Every day by President Li Yuan's side, I listened to the president chatting with customers and talking about the private director salon...... We have held 65 salons in the past six months, except for 3 when I was not present, I was on the scene for the remaining 62 sessions, and President Li Yuan gave 62 versions, which were different each time.
Just after chatting, I clicked on the climbing group of our Fan Deng reading club yesterday, clicked in and inserted a few words, got some feedback, and instantly sighed, time is really fast, it's been seven years in a flash.
After reading it, I replied in the group: "I'm standing in front of you, you look a little like before." ”
I remember a few months ago, one day I was chatting with President Li Yuan, and I asked the president, and I said, "President, you see, everyone in Shenzhen is desperately trying to make money every day, and everyone jumps like this every day, don't they understand the importance of learning?" ”
The president said: "Meng Xin, give you a way to think, what things you think about, others can also think of them, but what things can everyone think about, you can do it......"
Without thinking about it, I immediately said: "Insist on doing one thing, I can do this thing, and I will do one thing, as long as the direction is right, even if there is no road ahead, I will step out of the way." ”
Munger says there is an old law in science and business, and it is a two-step process:
The first step is to find a simple, basic truth;
The second step is to act very strictly on this principle.
In fact, every seemingly trivial event can have a significant impact through compounding.
In the end, success may not be a once-in-a-lifetime turning point, but a repeat of doing it right.
James Creel: "The only way to be great is to be endlessly obsessed with doing the same thing over and over again." You have to fall in love with boredom. ”
This prompted me to think further about what excellence really means. I've learned that it's not an overnight success or a momentary flash of light, but an accumulation of repeatable habits.
Perhaps, excellence = good ✖️ repetition.
In 2015, I listened to Mr. Lu Jiandong's course in Jiangyin, Mr. Lu said a sentence, and I still remember it very clearly, Mr. Lu said: "Being a man and doing things must be on the road, people are on the road, the general trend is the trend, people are outside the road, the general trend has gone, and the law of life depends on the law, and the ending of life must be satisfying." ”
The Master will make us better and better, and time is just a foil. What sustains us to become better and better is our own continuous improvement of talents, cultivation, conduct, and continuous reflection and correction.
Read more, go out more, feel more, go to new circles to see, set no limits, and improve yourself every day. At a certain stage, when you look back, you can't believe that you are slowly turning yourself into the state you once longed for and envied the most, step by step.
When I chat with many entrepreneurs outside, I often mention a sentence: "Dude, hold on, rush over, try every way to rush over, everything will change, you just rush over, the situation will change, face difficulties, problems, setbacks, think of a way, think of a way, even if you can't think of a way, you have to come up with a way, the more class moves is the pursuit of many of our lives, anyone who gets up and struggles before the sun comes out 360 days a year, it is impossible for his family to have a bad life." ”
There are a few sentences in Huang Xiaoming's "Chinese Partner": "If you fall in the water, you won't be drowned, if you stay in the water, you will drown, you can only swim and keep swimming, and those who choose to give up from the beginning will not fail, because he has failed from the beginning." Failure is not scary, the fear of failure is really scary.
The biggest regret in the world is not that I can't do it, but that I didn't do it; Not "I can't", but "I could".
Yes, experiencing frustration and encountering a low point is not fatal, it is terrible to bow your head and give up. Decadent thoughts will steal your strength, and thoughts of giving up will erode your energy. You must understand that the low point of life is just a journey opposite to the peak.
Never rush to draw conclusions about life, whether it is a low point or a frustration, all of this is just a process, not an end.
The only way to get out of the water is to stretch your hands and feet, and then you need to practice your swimming skills, find faith from the heart, fanatical and powerful faith, do what you love and are good at, eat well, sleep well, and do everything in your hands well. Calm down, practice your internal and external skills, simply, and the rest is the answer to wait for time.
As long as you are willing to swim and keep swimming, it is only a matter of time before you swim out, and you will eventually reach the other side.
You have to understand this process, this is just a gift of life, even if this gift is ugly, I just hope that we can be more patient, let it show its original beauty and innocence.
Although the damage is getting worse, it will fight with heaven and earth for spring.
"I never dream, I'm just trying to recognize reality," the contradiction says. ”
Dramatist Hong Shen said: "My dream is that next year's ability to endure hardships will be stronger than this year's. ”
Lu Xun said: "The biggest pain in life is waking up from a dream and having no way out." ”
Socrates said, "The joy and happiness of mankind lies in struggle, and the most valuable thing is in striving for ideals." ”
The real road to advancement is always to step out step by step.
Those who set up great things in ancient times not only have supernatural talents, but also have perseverance!
The scholars of Langya Pavilion should not only be friends of time, but also become "three friends of the cold year". The East wants to know, and Mo Daojun is early. Walking all over Qingshan, people are not old, and the scenery of Langya Pavilion is really good.
I'm Brother Phantom, I've been drinking ice for ten years, my blood is hard to get cold, and I'm still handsome.
Brother Phantom was recorded at Langya Pavilion on the evening of March 13, 2023