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Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, on a sunny morning in 2023, Ms. Liang Danni, an elegant woman with a fragrant swaying of sixty-nine flowers, is sitting quietly in the comfortable living room, holding a heavy photo album in her arms, her gestures are as soft as the breeze on the glass, carefully caring.
When she lightly brushed away the traces of the years on the album, her face couldn't help but be filled with a warm smile like spring, as if returning to that unforgettable moment - it was her wedding photo with Mr. Feng Yuanzheng, which froze that eternal moment.
Dressed in a cotton robe embroidered with butterfly motifs, Ms. Liang Danni's gray hair was carefully coiled into a bun, and although the years have left a deep mark on her face, she still retains her former elegance. Her eyes gazed affectionately at the yellowed old photograph, and her thoughts traveled back in time to that sensational marriage thirty years ago.
At that time, Ms. Liang Danni was a well-known A-list movie star, and she fell in love with Mr. Feng Yuanzheng, a young actor who was eight years younger than herself, and the two resolutely entered the palace of marriage in 1993 despite the world's gossip and strong opposition from their families. This marriage was undoubtedly the focus of the most attention at that time, and doubts from the outside world came one after another. However, looking back on that period of history, Ms. Liang Danni has never regretted her choice.
Although they later went through a long tug-of-war over the issue of having children, in the end, due to her husband's firm belief, Ms. Liang Danni had to choose to become a "Dink" wife in desperation. However, instead of feeling any resentment because of this, she deeply understands and respects her husband's decision.
Ms. Liang Danni gently stroked the back of the frame, where a line of clear text was engraved: "Dear, I am already very happy, and may you too." These short words once gave her endless comfort. Now looking through those old memories again, her heart is full of gratitude, thanking fate for giving her such a touching marriage.
Although the regret of having no children has always been haunted in her heart, Ms. Liang Danni has never turned this regret into a reproach for her husband. On the contrary, she cherished Mr. Feng Yuanzheng more for accompanying her through the second half of her life, so that her later life would no longer be lonely. As she often said to her family and friends, "I used to feel anxious about not being able to be a mother, but now that I think back, it was a precious happiness to be able to spend the rest of my life with my loved ones." ”
On October 26, 1954, Liang Danni fell to the ground in Guangzhou, a southern city. However, her background has brought endless troubles to her life - her family originates in Gu'an County, Hebei Province. Her father, Mr. Liang Xin, is a well-known playwright, and her mother, Yin Shumin, graduated from the Department of Chinese at Peking University, and these two outstanding parents laid a solid foundation for Liang Danni's growth.
In 1978, Liang Danni made her big screen debut with her outstanding acting talent and charming appearance, playing the heroine in the movie "Ao Lei Yilan", which won warm praise from the audience and critics, which also marked the official start of her acting career.
In the following ten years, Liang Danni has successively participated in a number of popular films, such as "Li Jiangchun", "The Third Murdered", "Who is the Third Party", etc., and gradually emerged and became a bright new star in the Chinese film industry.
In 1981, 27-year-old Liang Danni tied the knot with an ordinary employee in Guangzhou. However, due to the huge differences in the life philosophy and values of the two, the marriage soon fell into trouble.
Faced with pressure from her husband, Liang Danni resolutely decided to go to Beijing alone to try to convince his family to accept her, but in the end she failed to do so. In 1991, Liang Danni finally made up her mind to end this painful marriage, and when she clenched the divorce certificate in her hand, she felt a sense of relief that she had never felt before.
At this point, Liang Danni's previous marriage came to an end. Soon after the divorce, Liang Danni's acting career was thriving, and she starred in many popular masterpieces such as "Master Thief", "Jackal Project", "Innocent Killer", and became one of the most popular actresses at that time.
She is beautiful and moving, and her career is successful, which naturally attracts the attention of countless suitors.
At that time, Liang Danni was undoubtedly a leader in the film industry, and she was once praised by the media as "peerless". Whenever she appears on the screen or stage, the audience is always captivated.
Her superb acting skills, elegant temperament and outstanding appearance conditions have made her the "ideal goddess" in the hearts of many people.
In 1992, the filming of the TV series "General Feng Baiju" kicked off the marriage between Liang Danni and Feng Yuanzheng. During the crew's filming trip to Hainan, the young Feng Yuanzheng unfortunately contracted a serious illness and was admitted to the hospital. After learning about this, Liang Danni rushed to the hospital without hesitation to visit and take care of her.
Although everyone was engrossed in the intense shooting task and had no time to take care of Feng Yuanzheng on the sickbed, Liang Danni washed his hair, dressed him with medicine, and fed him meticulously as if she were taking care of her own brother, until he returned to health and was successfully discharged from the hospital. It is this kind of selfless care that makes Feng Yuanzheng have great respect and gratitude for Liang Danni.
After the successful completion of the filming task, Feng Yuanzheng finally mustered up the courage and solemnly and sincerely confided his deep affection to Liang Danni: "I love you and am willing to spend my life caring for you." Faced with this sudden confession, Liang Danni was dumbfounded in surprise and blurted out: "Are you confused?" She couldn't imagine that this young man, who was eight years younger than herself, could be so obsessed with herself.
However, Feng Yuanzheng stared at Liang Danni's eyes unwaveringly, and once again expressed his determination: "Everything I said is not a lie, but a deliberate decision after careful consideration. Deeply touched by this sincere love, Liang Danni began to waver.
Although there is an eight-year age gap between the two, and Feng Yuanzheng is still a young man who has not yet started a family, and he is already a divorced "old woman", Feng Yuanzheng successfully dispelled Liang Danni's doubts with what he saw and heard during his study in Germany: "In Germany, many wives are older than their husbands, but they still live happily ever after, and true love is not limited by age. ”
In this way, Liang Danni was completely moved and decided to accept this marriage. However, when the families on both sides learned of the news, they were all adamantly opposed. In order to convince her family, Liang Danni rushed to Beijing in person, but no matter how she explained, the Feng family never accepted it. In the end, Liang Danni could only say to her mother-in-law with tears: "If you can't accept me, it doesn't matter, because I only care about whether the expedition really loves me." ”
After many obstacles from the family, Liang Danni and Feng Yuanzheng finally tied the knot in 1993. It is worth mentioning that at that time, they were penniless, and they even went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the marriage formalities by bus, but their hearts were full of expectations and yearning for a better future.
In the early days of marriage, due to the needs of their respective jobs, Liang Danni and Feng Yuanzheng had to live in two places. Liang Danni held a key position at Guangdong TV, while Feng Yuanzheng worked hard at the Beijing People's Art Theater.
At the end of the year and the beginning of the year, there are very few times when they can share the joy of family, so Liang Danni often suffers from lovesickness. In order to vent her deep love, she smuggled to develop the habit of placing her affection on pen and ink and confiding her heart to her husband, and until now, this warm and romantic hobby is still shining in the long river of years.
In 1996, Liang Danni was transferred to the Beijing People's Art Theater, and became colleagues with her husband Feng Yuanzheng for many years. Regrettably, however, the flat did not provide them with a comfortable place to live, so the couple had to live in a cramped 8-square-meter hut with Feng Yuanzheng's parents. Despite the difficult circumstances of their lives, the emotional bond between them has been strengthened.
At that time, Liang Danni, who was nearly forty years old, was facing fertility problems. The high expectations from both parents and her own deep desire for their children made her aspire to be a great mother. However, Feng Yuanzheng resolutely expressed his opposition.
It turned out that in the process of visiting a friend's home, he had witnessed the endless troubles and heavy burdens brought by newborns to the family, which strengthened his determination not to have children.
Over this issue, the two launched a fierce debate for several years, and they did not give in to each other, and they were never able to reach a consensus. Liang Danni's mother-in-law even misunderstood that her daughter-in-law was unwilling to have children, and she had deep doubts about this.
Liang Danni felt helpless when her mother-in-law's questioning made her parents tearfully beg Feng Yuanzheng to change her mind, but in the end, she could not get her wish.
"Why can't I choose not to have children when both of my brothers already have children?" Faced with the grief of his parents, Feng Yuanzheng resolutely said. Seeing her husband so stubborn, Liang Danni finally chose to compromise.
"I fully understand and respect your decision. Without the ties of children, we can also live a more peaceful and focused life. Liang Danni said affectionately. As a result, she became a "Dink" wife and gave up the precious opportunity to become a mother.
In fact, as early as the moment she entered the marriage hall, Liang Danni foresaw that her husband's youth might bring some unstable factors to the marriage. However, out of great value for this beautiful marriage, she finally chose to compromise. She knows that she should show a broader tolerance than her husband.
In 2001, the famous actor Feng Yuanzheng successfully played the classic role of a disgusting domestic violence man "An Jiahe" in the family ethics drama "Don't Talk to Strangers", which attracted the attention of the national audience. As soon as the play was broadcast, it aroused enthusiastic responses across the country, which made Feng Yuanzheng's acting career unprecedentedly improved, and also brought some troubles to his wife Liang Danni.
Because Feng Yuanzheng's portrayal in the play is too deep into the bone marrow, many viewers mistakenly think that he is the same in real life, full of violence and anger, and thus have deep worries about Liang Danni's safety situation. Whenever Liang Danni went out, there was always an enthusiastic neighborhood aunt who lifted the hem of her clothes and carefully checked her for the scars left by domestic violence.
Once, an old lady in the community even called Liang Danni in person and asked with concern: "If Feng Yuanzheng really inflicted domestic violence on you, please tell us as soon as possible, and we will definitely seek justice for you." Faced with such a situation, Liang Danni could only explain repeatedly: "That's just the character image we present in the play, in fact, his life in real life is not like this." ”
However, the old lady from the Northeast seems to be skeptical, and she firmly believes that Liang Danni deliberately made such a statement in order to maintain her own dignity. For Liang Danni, this misunderstood situation is undoubtedly helpless and distressing.
However, it is precisely with his superb acting skills in "Don't Talk to Strangers" that Feng Yuanzheng has won more performance opportunities, and has successively participated in many excellent film and television works such as "Beautiful Shanghai", "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", "Wanli Shoufu Zhang Juzheng", and won a number of Best Supporting Actor awards.
At the same time, Liang Danni's acting career has also reached its peak. She has starred in widely acclaimed TV series such as "Always Go Home to See", "The Last Prince", "Rules Before Divorce", etc., which left a deep impression on the audience. With the passage of time, she has played the role of a mother in many dramas, so she is known as a "mother professional".
However, in real life, Liang Danni failed to become a mother as she wished. She poured all her maternal love into those young actors, caring for them in every detail. Whether it is an actor who plays her daughter, son or grandchildren, she can feel the selfless love of a mother from Liang Danni.
For the outstanding actress Liang Danni, although fate caused her not to be born at the right time, every opportunity to portray her mother has become an excellent platform for her to pour out her endless maternal love. Especially in the warm family with only her husband by her side, the young actors in the crew are as close as her children every day.