(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)
Presumably everyone knows that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to deal with in the family, and some people say that even if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, you must keep a certain distance from your mother-in-law, after all, her existence is likely to intensify the conflict with her husband.
My mother-in-law was not so unreasonable, because she didn't care about my existence at all.
When the home was demolished, my mother-in-law had to transfer the 4 houses to my brother-in-law's name anyway, but ten years after my husband died of illness, my mother-in-law suddenly came to my home and said: "Daughter-in-law, you don't remember the villain, can I live with you in the future"!
01
My husband Wang Hao and I were born in the countryside since we were children, and the two of us met in junior high school, which can be regarded as the palace of marriage from campus to marriage, which everyone envies.
Wang Hao is not an only child, there is a younger brother named Wang Fei below, what I heard from Wang Hao's tone is that his mother has been very concerned about Wang Fei since he was a child, and what is delicious and fun is to follow Wang Fei first, but for Wang Hao, he will not die of hunger.
At that time, when I heard Wang Hao talk about his family, I felt sad for Wang Hao, why does there still exist such a family, doesn't it have a big impact on the children?
After graduating from high school, Wang Hao and I found a suitable job in the local area and started to do it, at least there is no problem to support ourselves, and my younger brother Wang Fei is 3 years younger than Wang Hao, at that time after we worked, Wang Hao's mother has been asking Wang Hao to send money home every month in the tone of moral kidnapping, and the purpose of this money is to give Wang Fei's pocket money.
But what can we do, but if we talk back, the title of "unfilial" will be borne on him, and that time can be described as very painful.
After working for two or three years, Wang Hao and I discussed getting married, and we were the first to get married in that class, after all, there were still classmates who didn't graduate from college at that time.
It was also after we got married that my mother-in-law didn't ask us much about money, probably thinking that the two of us also had our own small families to support.
After some discussion, my husband and I wanted to open a snack bar in front of the school, and we didn't have any plans to have children at that time, so we hit it off and started with the "small treasury" we had saved over the years.
I think we are lucky, because there are not many peers nearby, so our snack bar is doing a good job in this area, and every day is in short supply, although it is very tiring, but with their beloved, everything feels very worthwhile!
When we were married for more than two years, we gave birth to our first child, a big fat boy.
However, it was at this time that the little brother-in-law suddenly informed him that he was getting married, and when the time came, remember to go over to help, and the phone hung up for less than ten minutes, and the mother-in-law's phone calls followed: "Daughter-in-law, what, Wang Fei is going to get married in a while, haven't you and Wang Hao had a good business over the years, lend us a little money, Wang Fei's money in his hand is a little nervous." ”
Before I could open my mouth, Wang Hao snatched the phone and said: "Mom, we don't have any money, you better dispel this idea, you didn't give me much money when I got married, and now that Wang Fei is married, you come to borrow money?" ”
The mother-in-law was a little angry and said, "Wang Hao, how can you talk to me, your own brother doesn't want to care, right?" Are you still a family with us? ”
Hearing this, Wang Hao inadvertently laughed in a low voice, when you have money, you are a family, and when you don't have money, you can't wait to cut off relations with us.
But we still took out 20,000 yuan to give to my mother.
Due to the very rapid development at that time, before a year, Wang Hao's village was issued a notice that it would be developed into a community, and that it would be necessary to choose one of the money and houses, either with more money and less houses, or with less money and more houses.
But how can the mother-in-law's thinking be so avant-garde, what is the use of building such a high house in the countryside, not only is it a waste of money and no one lives in it, but now it is good to "pick up sesame seeds and lose watermelon".
02
Due to the small square, in the end only 4 houses were lost, and some families built several floors, and the square is large, all of which can be regarded as "demolishing the second generation", and the next life will have to die happily.
But the scheming mother-in-law regretted that she died, why didn't you build a few more layers at that time, but how can you predict these things in advance, and maybe where to develop next.
At that time, we were planning to buy a house, and we were so happy that we thought that there must be a lot of money left!
But who knew that at the moment when the house was demolished, none of them belonged to me and Wang Hao, and my mother-in-law transferred all the 4 houses to the name of my brother-in-law.
Wang Hao was suddenly angry, and when he found his mother, he shouted: "Mom, what do you mean, why is none of the 4 houses mine, no matter how much you spoil you, you can't be like this, are you so tired of us?" ”
However, the mother-in-law said unhurriedly: "My second daughter-in-law told me that when they got married, I asked you to borrow money, but you didn't want to lend me money, because you didn't take me seriously, and I didn't plan to give you a set of 4 houses"!
Wang Hao suddenly felt cold: "Mom, you'd rather listen to her than see my efforts, right?" ”
My mother-in-law sat there silently, feeling that she was doing the right thing, and in a fit of anger, Wang Hao and I slammed the door and went out, so I took out my savings to pay the down payment on the house, and it seems that it is better to rely on no one than on myself.
In those two or three years, we had no contact and lived our own lives, but when I was still immersed in happy love, Wang Hao suddenly had an accident.
When I was just about to have dinner that day, Wang Hao suddenly coughed heavily, I didn't care at first, I thought it was a little cold, but I didn't expect me to glance at it, and saw that Wang Hao's hands were full of blood, and quickly asked: "Wang Hao, what's wrong with you, don't scare me!" ”
Then I hurriedly called 120 and rushed to the hospital, and the doctor said: "Your husband has advanced lung cancer, and it hasn't been long yet, why didn't he come for treatment when he just had symptoms?" ”
At this time, I slowly remembered that Wang Hao had been coughing for the first half of the year, and I asked him to take some medicine to eat, so I didn't care about it, but who would have thought that it was already lung cancer at that time, and it would spread so quickly!
After Wang Hao woke up, he said to me: "I'm sorry, wife, I thought it was not a big deal, and it would be fine after a while, and I didn't want to spend that money on treatment, I didn't expect it to be like this."
But it was too late to say anything, Wang Hao persisted for more than two months and died, which was undoubtedly a fatal wound for me, and I didn't know what to do for a while, and I fell into deep self-blame.
It's still a friend who keeps comforting me and cheering me up, I still have a child to support, and if I collapse myself, then this family will really collapse!
So I slowly reopened the store by myself, and it was only then that I truly realized the meaning of the idiom "motherhood is rigid".
My life with my son has gradually stepped onto the right track, and in the blink of an eye, I have been alone with my children for 10 years, during which I did not rely on anyone's help.
However, I finally wanted to take a break that day, and I was woken up by a rapid knock at nine o'clock in the morning, and I wondered, I didn't disturb the people, who knocked on the door at this point.
With a hint of defensiveness, I looked at the "cat's eye" on the door, what is my mother-in-law doing?
03
I opened the door and asked, "Mom, what are you doing in the morning, it's not good to stay at your youngest son's house." ”
The mother-in-law instantly said with an aggrieved voice: "Daughter-in-law, Mom is sorry for you and Wang Hao, you don't remember the villain, otherwise I will follow you in the future, I am in Xiaofei's house, they dislike me all the time, and feel that I, an old woman, are in the way everywhere"!
I felt ridiculous when I heard this: "It wasn't like this when you divided the house, you wanted to kick me and Wang Hao out of the house at that time, and now you know that you came to me?" ”
My mother-in-law was about to kneel on the ground and beg me, so I hurriedly helped me up and said: "Don't play this trick for me first, I have a good life with the child, and now Wang Hao is gone, I have nothing else to worry about except the child, you better go to Wang Fei's house, you do your own sin, suffer it yourself!" ”
Then I closed the door and let him cry at the door, but "don't persuade others to be kind until they suffer", do you think I did the right thing?
(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)