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In the scorching summer of 1987, Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie met unexpectedly in the crew of the TV series "Dead Water Breeze". At that time, Deng Jie had grown into a "national beauty" with outstanding demeanor, and her unique temperament and demeanor were intoxicating and eye-catching. However, in contrast, although Zhang Guoli has a certain reputation in the film and television industry, he still can't resist Deng Jie's bright light.
This unexpected encounter made Zhang Guoli have a deep love for this "Feng Lazi" who had a tacit understanding with him. Deng Jie's bright and charming Danfeng eyes seemed to capture his heart in an instant. Although both of them have entered the palace of marriage, Deng Jie's unique charm still makes Zhang Guoli unable to extricate himself, and the desire in his heart gradually sprouts.
However, at that time, Zhang Guoli still tried his best to suppress his inner emotions. Because his wife Luo Xiuchun is wholeheartedly taking care of his seriously ill mother-in-law, she has no time to pay attention to her husband's betrayal. Troubled by this kind of family conflict, Zhang Guoli could only hide his fiery love deep in his heart.
A year later, the god of fate opened a door for him again. In 1988, Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie worked together again, and the relationship between the two was unveiled. Deng Jie shows the gentle charm unique to mature women, and her lively and cheerful personality is deeply attracted to Zhang Guoli. More importantly, at this time, Deng Jie had ended her marriage with her ex-husband.
Faced with such an excellent opportunity, Zhang Guoli could no longer suppress the impulse in his heart, and he firmly filed for divorce from Luo Xiuchun. Although Luo Xiuchun tried to save the marriage, Zhang Guoli had already made up his mind. In the end, in addition to requiring Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie not to have children, Luo Xiuchun's other conditions were acquiesced.
In this way, a once beautiful marriage ended in a hasty way, just to fulfill the new relationship between Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie. The love of the year was finally realized after many years. And Luo Xiuchun left with his son Zhang Momo and completely withdrew from Zhang Guoli's life stage.
For the talented Mr. Zhang Guoli, the impact of the divorce is far more than the breakdown of the marriage, but more deeply related to the increasingly distant family bond between him and his son Zhang Mo. Since the ignorant childhood at the age of 6, Zhang Mo has been in love with his mother Luo Xiuchun, and the days of losing his father's company and teaching have made his life more and more difficult.
In such a growing atmosphere that lacked the nourishment of father's love, the young Zhang Mo gradually embarked on a rebellious path. Despite his youthful ignorance, his demeanor has gone beyond conventional social norms. At the age of 15, he stepped into the door of the film and television industry for the first time, and became an excellent actor in front of the audience by starring in "Kangxi Weifu Private Interview".
However, the good times did not last long, and he was soon severely punished by the Chinese opera for openly fighting his girlfriend's nursery rhymes at the school gate, which made Mr. Zhang Guoli extremely guilty, and in order to protect his son's reputation, he had to personally take his wife Deng Jie to the school and publicly apologize to the woman's parents.
Although Ms. Deng Jie tried to improve their relationship, and even asked if she could have another child to make up for the family's regrets, Zhang Mo did not appreciate it and directly rejected the proposal, saying: "I can never see her as my mother." Even if Mr. Zhang Guoli persuaded him bitterly: "As long as we can live a happy and happy life, it is enough." But he still has a grudge against this marriage, and it seems that he has never been able to escape the shadow of his parents' divorce.
As time passed, Mr. Zhang's behavior became more and more grotesque: he dressed in shabby clothes, hummed gruesome songs, smoked and drank cigarettes, and became almost an all-encompassing villain. As Mr. Zhang Guoli described, "He did almost everything bad except for drugs. As expected, on the eve of the college entrance examination, Zhang Mo was arrested by the police for taking drugs, which attracted widespread attention from all walks of life.
This undoubtedly caused great damage to Mr. Zhang's reputation, and he had to make several public statements to express his apologies in the hope of regaining the public's trust in him. However, even after being released from prison, Zhang Mo still did not have the slightest intention of repenting. What's even more puzzling is that he actually blamed the responsibility for drug abuse on "losing his mother since childhood", and put all the blame for the divorce on his father Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie.
This undoubtedly deeply hurt the feelings of the two elders. In the face of Zhang Mo's unreasonable trouble, Mr. Zhang Guoli could only sigh helplessly: "Many things are not entirely his fault. This seemingly plain sentence is full of pain and helplessness in his heart.
After experiencing a marriage turmoil, Mr. Zhang Guoli bravely held hands with Ms. Deng Jie and embarked on the road to the north without hesitation, determined to open a new chapter of life in this bustling metropolis. They had to start from scratch for everything, and there was a time when they were in the midst of a difficult situation of displacement.
When they first set foot in the vast land of Beijing, Mr. Zhang Guoli had almost no property to rely on, and had to rely on various part-time jobs to earn a living every day. Not only did he work as a voice actor, but he also wrote countless popular advertising slogans, and he devoted every moment of his free time to hard work.
Although life at that time was hard, they were able to hug each other tightly, encourage each other, and get through those difficult years together with diligence and perseverance.
In this way, it was not until 1992 that Mr. Zhang Guoli, who was already 36 years old, was finally able to return to the Railway Art Troupe, found a stable career, and gradually accumulated some wealth. At the same time, Ms. Deng Jie is also accumulating her prestige and network resources bit by bit. In 1996, the 41-year-old Mr. Zhang Guoli became famous for starring in the TV series "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo", ushering in the first glorious moment of his career.
He thought that in this way, he would be able to fill the fatherhood duties he had failed to fulfill for many years. However, to his surprise, this became the fuse that intensified the conflict between father and son. Zhang Mo, who was in the rebellious period of his youth, could not accept his strict discipline, and the relationship between the two fell into a cold confrontation, and even evolved into a tense situation.
Whenever Zhang Mo made a mistake, Mr. Zhang Guoli always had to apologize to others in a low voice. However, Zhang Mo didn't care about this, but took it for granted. Seeing that the breakdown of the father-son relationship was becoming more and more serious, Mr. Zhang Guoli was full of worries and secretly regretted whether the original decision was too rash.
Although Mr. Zhang Guoli has gradually established his own place in Beijing's film and television industry, behind his success, he has also paid a heavy price - that is, the complete rupture of his relationship with his son Zhang Mo.
In 2012, Zhang Mo was arrested on suspicion of drug use, which undoubtedly brought a devastating blow to Mr. Zhang Guoli. In the face of fierce criticism from public opinion, he had no choice but to issue a public statement, imploring the public to give his son leniency and provide "a chance for this misguided young man to be a new man."
However, after being released from prison, Zhang Mo still went his own way and turned a blind eye to his mistakes. He even publicly stated that the reason for his drug use was "the loss of his mother since childhood", which made Mr. Zhang Guoli and Ms. Deng Jie, who were already heartbroken, even more heartbroken.
In the face of his son Zhang Mo's frequent rebellious behavior and vexatious trouble, Zhang Guoli said bitterly: "Many problems are not all attributed to Zhang Mo himself." On the surface, this sentence seems to be full of helplessness, but what is implied in it is the tremendous pressure and hard work that a father endures in the process of educating his children. As a veteran actor who has created countless classic roles, Zhang Guoli has put a lot of effort and sweat into educating his son, but the final result was not satisfactory.
Zhang Mo's drug-related incident has dealt a heavy blow to Zhang Guoli, both mentally and reputationally, and even affected his career in the entertainment industry. Fortunately, there are other good things in life waiting to be discovered that will enable him to gradually regain his confidence during this low period.
Since then, Zhang Mo has gradually faded out of public view, and Zhang Guoli has chosen to remain silent, as if to cover up his inner pain in this way. Although his career has climbed to a new peak and become the leader of the entertainment industry in Beijing, the damage caused by his son cannot be easily erased.
Over the years, Zhang Guoli has worked hard for his son Zhang Mo. He has publicly apologized many times and patiently admonished, but the effect has been minimal. Now, seeing the brilliant achievements he has made in his career, there is endless bitterness in his heart.
After entering the second half of his life, Zhang Guoli began to reflect on his life journey. Although he has achieved good results in his career and won numerous honors and accolades, the problems of his son Zhang Mo still plague him.
In the face of all kinds of doubts from the outside world, Zhang Guoli once admitted to the media: "Many things cannot be completely blamed on Zhang Mo himself." However, behind this seemingly bland sentence, what is hidden is his helplessness and loss. As a father, he has never been able to get rid of the deep guilt and self-blame in his heart.
These doubts, which have plagued Zhang Guoli for most of his life, have not yet been fully answered, even when he is entering old age. Whenever he recalls the former "problem boy" Zhang Mo, he will always fall into deep thinking and melancholy.
Seeing that his career has climbed to the top, Zhang Guoli can't completely let go of the burden in his heart, and his regret for his son has become an eternal thorn in his heart.
As an ordinary railway worker who has gradually transformed into a popular film and television star, Mr. Zhang Guoli has vividly interpreted the spiritual qualities of steadfastness and perseverance with his hard work. However, it is a pity that it is precisely because of his persistent pursuit of his career that he paid an extremely huge price in educating his son Zhang Mo.
In order to make up for the mistakes Zhang Mo had made, he had expressed his sincere apologies to the public many times, but he did not get the slightest understanding from his son, and even had a numb attitude towards it.
Now, Zhang Guoli, who has entered the age of sixtieth year, and his wife Deng Jie have adopted a lively and lovely daughter together, living a quiet and happy life in their old age. However, he was never able to escape the shadow brought by his son.
After experiencing all kinds of unpredictable changes in life, Zhang Guoli finally realized that reputation and status are not the most precious wealth, and only family affection is the most precious gift in life. Whenever he gazed at his adopted daughter, he would silently pray in his heart that the child would be able to grow up healthy and happy forever, free from his past mistakes.