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My name is Li Juan, I am 50 years old, and I am an ordinary Chinese housewife. My husband and I are rural people, hardworking and simple, and we have always felt that our lives are plain and happy. We have a very well-behaved and sensible daughter named Xiaoxue. Xiaoxue is the pearl of our palms, and since she was born, we have worked hard for her happiness.
When Xiaoxue was growing up, we always thought that she would meet a good boy, someone who could love her and protect her. It wasn't until she brought back a boyfriend that I realized I was wrong. Her boyfriend's name is Liu Lei, and he is a young man with a handsome appearance and a wealthy family. When Xiaoxue introduced him to us, I saw the happiness glint in her eyes, and I thought, maybe this is the prince charming in her heart.
However, we soon found out a surprising news: Xiaoxue and Liu Lei are getting married. Although I was a little surprised, I did my best to accept this fact. However, when I heard that Liu Lei's family asked for a bride price of 600,000, I was stunned. That's an astronomical number for a family like ours. I was worried that we wouldn't be able to afford it, but I was even more shocked that my husband had no objection to it and said he could raise the money.
My husband and I began to disagree and we had a serious conflict as a result. I think this bride price is too high to match our financial means, and it should not be the only sign of marriage. But my husband thinks it's necessary because he thinks it's the only way to show our face and show how much we value our daughter. Our arguments grew more and more intense, and even Xiaoxue was involved in us. She didn't know who to listen to, so she could only suffer in silence.
And in Liu Lei's family, the situation does not seem to be satisfactory. As far as I heard, his parents also questioned the amount of the bride price, arguing that such a request was too much. But Liu Lei doesn't seem to care, he just thinks it's as it should be, and he doesn't seem to be very satisfied with his family, hoping to show his worth in this way.
This conflict has left our family in a deep predicament. I felt helpless and lost, and I didn't know what to do. I wanted to find a solution that would satisfy everyone, but I'm at a loss right now. Perhaps, only time will be able to dilute all this, but I don't know what kind of suffering and struggle our family will go through during this time.
I decided to sit down with Liu Lei's family and have a good talk, hoping to sort out each other's thoughts and find a solution. So, I made an appointment with Liu Lei's parents, and on a weekend afternoon, we met at a teahouse.
The teahouse was filled with the faint smell of tea, and I sat with Liu Lei's parents and talked face-to-face about this thorny issue. Liu Lei's mother is a middle-aged woman with a gentle temperament, and her eyes reveal a deep worry. And Liu Lei's father is a middle-aged man who looks very serious, his brows are tightly locked, and he seems to be thinking about some important issue.
I tried to open in a gentle tone: "Uncle Liu, Aunt Liu, I think we are all very aware that the amount of this bride price is indeed a huge burden for us. But I hope we can sit down and talk about it and find a solution that meets each other's needs without overwhelming both of us. ”
Liu Lei's mother nodded and said softly: "Aunt Li, I understand your situation, but you also know that the wedding is a very important thing for us. We hope that in this way, we can show the society that we attach importance to Liu Lei, and at the same time, we hope to give him a better future. ”
Liu Lei's father was silent for a while, and then said slowly: "Aunt Li, I know that the amount of this bride price may be a bit difficult for you, but I hope you can understand that this is not something we set at random. On our side, the amount of the bride price often reflects a family's status and prestige. We don't want Liu Lei to be discriminated against and excluded by others because of us. ”
After listening to their words, I had some understanding in my heart. I know that every family has its own difficulties and considerations, and we can't simply measure each other's requirements by our own standards. So I said, "Uncle Liu, Aunt Liu, I understand your thoughts and respect your decision. But I hope you can take into account our actual situation, we don't have that much money to pay such a high bride price. I don't want our daughter to be hurt in any way because of this. ”
Liu Lei's mother sighed, and she said, "Aunt Li, I know your worries, but I also hope that you can understand our difficulties. Maybe we can discuss it and see if we can find a solution that is acceptable to both parties. ”
Hearing her words, I felt a glimmer of hope. Perhaps, we can really find a compromise that will satisfy both sides. I smiled and nodded, indicating that I was willing to work with them to solve this problem. In the teahouse, we started a long conversation, trying to find a solution that would satisfy both parties. Although there were some disputes and frictions along the way, in the end, we reached a consensus and decided to reduce the amount of the bride price to ease the burden on both parties.
Although the issue of the bride price was resolved in this conversation, the doubts in my mind were not dispelled. I began to wonder, why is the bride price so important to our family? Is it really just for face and social status? I believe that marriage should be based on mutual respect and understanding, not on the exchange of money and status. I hope that my daughter can find someone who truly loves and respects her, and not just values her identity and status.
However, I also understand that the world is not so simple. In real life, money and status tend to influence a person's choices and decisions. I don't know what the future holds, but I know that I will do my best to protect my daughter so that she can have a happy marriage.
After negotiations with Liu Lei's family, the issue of bride price was temporarily resolved, but the tension between the families did not completely dissipate. I began to worry that this incident would have a negative impact on Xiaoxue and Liu Lei's relationship, so I decided to find a chance to talk to Xiaoxue.
One night, I was at home waiting for Xiaoxue to return, full of anticipation and anxiety. Finally, when I heard the door knock, I walked out of the kitchen and saw Xiaoxue walking in with a tired face. I immediately stepped forward and asked with concern, "Xiaoxue, why did you come back so late today?" Did you run into any trouble? ”
Xiaoxue shook her head and said with a wry smile: "It's nothing, it's just that the company has been so busy lately, and I can't come back until late after working overtime." Her voice was a little low, and she didn't seem to be in a good mood.
I knew there must be a lot of things bothering her in her heart, so I pulled her down and whispered, "Xiaoxue, I know this time may be difficult for you recently, but I hope you can persevere." Don't give up on your happiness because of momentary difficulties. ”
Xiaoxue looked up at me with tears in her eyes. She said softly: "Mom, I know that you and Dad have quarreled a lot over the bride price, and I'm really sorry. Her voice was a little choked and she looked guilty.
I held her hand and comforted, "Xiaoxue, it's not your fault. You just want a happy family, and rightfully so. But I hope you can understand that marriage is not only a matter of bride price and face, but more importantly, the relationship between you and Liu Lei. ”
Xiaoxue nodded, and tears couldn't help but flow. She said: "Mom, I really love Liu Lei, and I don't want to give up our relationship because of this problem." But I also don't want to see you and Dad having an unpleasant quarrel because of me. ”
My heart struck and I knew I couldn't let this problem haunt our family anymore. So I hugged Xiaoxue tightly and said softly, "Xiaoxue, I will have a good talk with Dad, and we will try our best to solve this problem." You just have to trust us and keep working hard for your happiness. ”
Xiaoxue raised her head, her eyes full of gratitude and emotion. She took my hand and smiled and said, "Thank you, Mom, I will cherish our relationship and will not let anything ruin our happiness." ”
Looking at Xiaoxue's determined eyes, my heart was full of confidence and courage. I know that if we work together, any difficulty will be solved. At this special moment, I feel the warmth and strength of my family, and I am confident that we will be able to overcome the difficulties in front of us and welcome the happiness in the future.
After in-depth communication with Xiaoxue, I felt an unprecedented relief and relief. I knew that we had to talk to my husband and find a mutually acceptable solution to really solve this problem that was plaguing our family.
So, one weekend afternoon, my husband and I sat in the living room and talked about it seriously. I told him what was going on with Xiaoxue and us, and the conversation between us, hoping to make him understand our worries and hopes.
After listening to my words, my husband was silent for a while, then sighed and said, "Juan'er, I know that I haven't done a good enough job in this matter. I was too concerned about face and status, and I ignored your and Xiaoxue's feelings. I'm willing to listen to you and work together to find a solution to the problem. ”
When I heard my husband's words, I felt a warm current in my heart. I know that he also did it for the sake of the happiness of his family, but he was a little blind in dealing with the problem. I clasped his hand tightly and said gratefully, "Thank you, dear. I believe that as long as we work together, we will be able to overcome the difficulties ahead. ”
With the help of my husband, we revisited the issue of bride price and came up with some solutions. We decided to have a good talk with Liu Lei's parents and minimize the amount of the bride price to reduce the burden on both parties. At the same time, we will also discuss with Xiaoxue to see if there are other ways to show our love and support for her, rather than relying on the bride price alone.
Over the next few days, we actively contacted Liu's family to try to find a mutually acceptable solution. After some hard work, we finally reached a consensus and decided to reduce the amount of the bride price, and use part of the bride price money to buy some practical things, such as home appliances, furniture, etc., as a way to show our love and support for Xiaoxue.
When we told Xiaoxue the good news, she was ecstatic and grateful. "Thank you Mom and Dad, you really are the best parents," she said. I will cherish our family and try to reassure you. ”
Looking at Xiaoxue's happy smile, my heart was full of satisfaction and happiness. I know that my family has finally come through this turmoil and ushered in a new dawn. Although there is still a long way to go, I believe that as long as we are closely united, no difficulties will be a problem.
After experiencing the twists and turns of the bride price issue, it finally came to the day of Xiaoxue and Liu Lei's wedding. Our family started our busy preparations early to prepare for this grand wedding.
On the day of the wedding, I woke up early and started to get busy. I prepared a beautiful wedding dress for Xiaoxue and hoped that she would be the most beautiful bride on this day. I dressed myself in a neat and dignified gown and prepared to welcome the guests.
The guests arrived one after another, and the whole wedding scene was lively. I watched Xiaoxue and Liu Lei walk into the auditorium hand in hand, and my heart was full of excitement and emotion. They stood together, exchanged wedding rings, and vowed to love each other forever.
The wedding went very smoothly and the atmosphere was very warm. My husband and I wish them happiness and happiness forever. And Liu Lei's parents also came to the stage to express their blessings, expressing their hope that they can be happy for a hundred years and be happy forever.
At the wedding reception, we sat together as a family and enjoyed this rare time together. I looked at Xiaoxue and Liu Lei's happy smiles, and my heart was full of satisfaction and relief. I know that they will live happily ever after, and that we will always be there for them, providing them with endless love and support.
After the wedding reception, we bid farewell to our guests and returned home. My husband and I looked at each other and smiled, full of emotion. Although the road has been tortuous and bumpy, we have finally ushered in this day. I believe that as long as we are united as a family, any difficulties will not be a problem.
In the evening, my husband and I sat in the courtyard, quietly sipping tea and reminiscing about today's wedding. Under the starry sky, we quietly hugged each other, feeling each other's warmth and love. At this moment, I feel like the happiest person in the world because I have a happy family, a warm nest full of love.
Although the future is full of unknowns and challenges, I believe that as long as we are closely united as a family, any difficulties can be overcome. I look forward to every day in the future, and I look forward to seeing Xiaoxue and Liu Lei live a happy and happy life, and we will always be by their side to provide them with endless love and support.
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