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My name is He Ke and I am 23 years old. The fact that I was born an adopted child is particularly evident at certain stages of my life, and at other times, I may forget that I am an adopted child. However, this complex identity gives me a lot to think about. My adoptive father, He Rende, and adoptive mother, Wang Xiaoting, have been the pillars of my life, and their love and support have helped me grow into an independent and confident young person. However, despite the endless love they gave me, I always felt a blank in my heart, and that was the memory of my birth parents.
When I was growing up, my adoptive parents didn't hide my background, they told me early on that I was adopted by them. Although I was a little hard to accept in my heart, I felt grateful for their honesty. He was a gentle and wise person, and he always gave me encouragement and support. His sense of humor and kindness brought our relationship close. Wang Xiaoting is a gentle and firm woman, she always uses her actions to express her concern for me.
Until recently, I had maintained a nonchariot attitude towards my biological parents. But I always have a question lingering in my mind - why did my biological parents give up on me back then? This question pops up in my mind from time to time and confuses me.
One night, He Rende and Wang Xiaoting asked me to sit down, and they looked at me with serious expressions. Wang Xiaoting looked a little nervous, she grabbed my hand and said, "Keke, we have something to tell you. "I was nervous, not knowing what was going to happen next.
He Rende took a deep breath, and then said slowly: "Keke, we know that you have always been curious about your biological parents. Today, we decided to tell you a little bit about them. His tone was calm, but there was an unusual hint of nervousness.
I felt uneasy about what they were going to say next. Wang Xiaoting took over the topic: "Keke, your biological parents do exist, and we know their home address. ”
Hearing this, my heart beat faster. What is the home address of the birth parents? That meant I had the opportunity to meet them and learn about their lives and pasts. At this moment, a myriad of questions popped up in my mind: Who are they? How are they doing? Why did they give up on me?
He seemed to read my thoughts, and he continued: "We hope that you will be able to handle this information carefully. It's a huge decision for you. We will not interfere with your choices, but we expect you to exercise caution. ”
Wang Xiaoting also added: "Keke, no matter what choice you make, we will support you. We are always there for you as long as you need it. There was a look of concern in her eyes, and I knew they were concerned about me.
I was lost in thought. It is an unknown path, full of unknown challenges and opportunities. However, I knew it was the answer I had been looking for. It was an important moment in my life, a decision.
That night, I tossed and turned, unable to sleep. I was thinking about my choice of whether I should meet my birth parents. It was a difficult decision, but I knew I had to face this opportunity and learn about my past. It was an important moment in my life, a journey full of unknowns.
Eventually, I decided to go looking for my birth parents. This decision created a feeling of excitement and nervousness in my heart. I didn't know what was going to happen next, but I was ready to face the challenge and follow my past.
When I decided to go looking for my birth parents, my feelings became complicated and difficult to describe. I was both looking forward to it and afraid of the unknown. I knew it was going to be a journey, not just geographically, but emotionally.
The next morning, when I woke up, I found that He Rende and Wang Xiaoting were already preparing breakfast in the kitchen. They looked at me with concern and encouragement in their eyes. I walked over and sat next to them. Wang Xiaoting handed me a cup of hot soy milk and said, "Keke, how are you?" ”
I nodded and took the soy milk: "I'm fine." "Although I had many questions on my mind, I knew I had to stay calm.
He Rende sat across from me, and he pulled out a piece of paper with an address written on it. "Keke, this is the home address of your birth parents. You can go there and meet them. He handed me the paper, and I took it and looked at it carefully.
Wang Xiaoting continued: "Keke, you have to remember that we will always be your family, no matter where you go or what choices you make. We've got your back. Her tone was soft but firm.
I nodded and looked at them gratefully, "Thank you, you have always been my support. ”
After that, I started preparing for my journey. The address is in a relatively distant city, which means I'm going on a longer journey. He Rende and Wang Xiaoting were willing to go with me, but I told them that I wanted to face all this alone. This is my journey and I need to go through it myself.
They respected my decision and gave me some tips on what to go on. Wang Xiaoting prepared some food and drinks for me, so that I could have enough supplies on the way. He Rende helped me arrange transportation to ensure that I could reach my destination smoothly.
At noon that day, I set out on my journey to my destination. Along the way, my mood fluctuated. On the one hand, I look forward to meeting my birth parents and learning about their lives and pasts; On the other hand, I was worried about how I would react when I saw them. Will they accept me? What will they say to me?
A few hours later, I finally reached my destination. It's a quiet town, away from the hustle and bustle of the city. I stood in front of the door of my birth parents' home, took a deep breath, and my heart raced. I stood in front of the door for a while, trying to calm myself.
Then, I plucked up my courage and knocked on the door. The door was quickly opened, and a middle-aged man stood in the doorway, his eyes revealing a hint of doubt and vigilance. He looked at me and asked, "Who are you?" ”
I took a deep breath and tried to calm myself down. "Hello, my name is He Ke. I ......, "I didn't know how to express my identity for a moment. Then I continued, "I'm here to find my birth parents. I've heard it's their home. ”
The middle-aged man's expression instantly became complicated. He looked at me carefully and said, "Come in." "He opened the door and let me into the house.
I walked into the house and found it to be a cosy cottage. The furnishings inside are simple and neat, and everything looks very well organized. My heart was full of strangeness, but there was a sense of familiarity. It was the first time I was standing in my birth parents' home, and this moment meant a lot to me.
The middle-aged man asked me to sit down, and he himself sat across from me. He introduced himself: "My name is Zhang Guoqiang, and I am your biological father. There was a hint of nervousness in his tone, but he seemed to be trying to keep his composure.
Hearing his words, I had mixed feelings in my heart. I finally met my biological father, and he looked different from what I had imagined, but I could feel his concern and expectation for me.
We started talking. I told him the names of my adoptive parents and how I was growing up. He listened attentively, nodding his head in understanding from time to time. He also told me a few things about their family, where they lived a simple and peaceful life. His wife, my birth mother, was out shopping for groceries and would be back soon.
At this time, I sensed Zhang Guoqiang's concern for me, and he asked, "Keke, have you been living in your adoptive parents' house?" Are they good to you? ”
I nodded: "Yes, they are very nice to me. I grew up under their care. I tried to be as concise as I could answer, trying to keep the conversation flowing.
After Zhang Guoqiang heard this, his expression relaxed a little. He smiled and said, "That's good, we've been worried that you're not doing well." It's gratifying to see you now grown up and independent and confident. ”
As he was talking, footsteps came from outside the door, and a gentle voice said, "Lao Zhang, I'm back." "I know, this is my birth mother.
Zhang Guoqiang stood up and said to me: "This is your biological mother, Liu Fang." Then he walked to the door to meet her.
When Liu Fang walked into the room, she saw me with a surprised expression on her face. She stopped, looked at me for a long time, and then quickly walked over and said excitedly, "Keke! Is that you? ”
Liu Fang's voice was full of excitement and surprise, and she rushed over and hugged me tightly. I felt her warmth and concern, the unconditional love of a mother for her child. Her embrace sent a warm emotion through my heart, and this feeling created a familiar and strange connection in my heart.
She let go of me and looked at me carefully, her eyes glistening with tears: "Keke, I've always wanted to see you, and finally I saw you." There was a choked sore in her voice.
I felt an inexplicable emotion, and in the face of my biological mother's care, I felt both warm and a little complicated in my heart. I didn't know how to respond to her enthusiasm and could only say, "Hello, Mom. ”
Liu Fang heard me call her "Mom", and a relieved smile appeared on her face: "Keke, you are finally back." She pulled me to sit down and began to ask me about my past life with a beaming face: "Keke, how are you doing?" Are you okay at your adoptive parents' house? ”
I nodded, "I'm doing well." My adoptive parents have always been very nice to me, and they took care of me as if I were their own child. I replied briefly, trying to keep the conversation light.
When Liu Fang heard my words, the expression on her face relaxed, and she showed a satisfied smile: "That's good, that's good." She looked at Zhang Guoqiang, and then said, "We have always wanted to know about you, but we have no way to contact you." We've been thinking about you all these years. ”
Zhang Guoqiang took over the topic, and there was a hint of apology in his tone: "Keke, we had our own reasons to give up on you back then, and we have always regretted it. We don't have any way to contact you, and we don't know how you're doing. ”
Hearing their words, mixed emotions welled up in my heart. On the one hand, I understand their difficulties, and on the other hand, I feel their apologies. I tried to keep the conversation calm: "I know you guys have your own difficulties. Whatever happened in the past, I understand. ”
Liu Fang took my hand, her eyes showing concern for me: "Keke, we're sorry to let you face this alone. Now that you're back, we hope to make amends. ”
I looked at them and felt their sincerity. I nodded, "I know what you mean, thank you." ”
Liu Fang stood up and said to me with a smile: "Keke, today is the first day you come back, I want to cook a delicious meal for you, and let you taste the home-cooked food I made." Her eyes were full of anticipation.
Zhang Guoqiang also agreed: "Yes, Keke, let's have a good meal today, let's talk slowly." After he finished speaking, he stood up and followed Liu Fang into the kitchen to start preparing the meal.
I sat in the living room, feeling this cozy cottage, as if I was in a long-lost home. A mixed emotion welled up in my heart, and I was relieved to finally meet my birth parents, who cared for me and cared for me.
Soon after, Liu Fang and Zhang Guoqiang prepared a sumptuous meal, and they warmly entertained me. At the dinner table, Liu Fang kept picking up dishes for me and asked me to try her specialty dishes. I took a bite and found that her cooking skills were really good and the food was delicious.
Zhang Guoqiang enthusiastically introduced me to their life in the town. They live a simple and peaceful life here and get to know a lot of neighbors and friends. Liu Fang does business at the town's market, while Zhang Guoqiang works in a small shop in the town.
In the process, I gradually learned about their lives and experiences. Despite their simplicity, they seem to be content with their current lives. I also told them something about my life and work, and they listened attentively and nodded their heads from time to time to show understanding.
At the dinner table, we had a relaxed and pleasant conversation. It made me feel the warmth of home, as if I had returned to a real home. This feeling filled my heart with warmth, and I began to slowly let go of the nervousness of the unknown and immersed myself in getting along with my biological parents.
That night, we talked a lot and got to know each other better. I felt their love for me, their sincere apologies and their hope to make amends. I knew that this was just the beginning of our relationship and I still had a lot of questions to ask, but I decided to take my time and not rush it.
In this short period of time, I felt the long-lost family affection, which made me look forward to getting along in the future. I know it's a new journey, and I'm looking forward to building a deeper bond with my birth parents.
After dinner, Liu Fang and Zhang Guoqiang warmly invited me to stay at their home. I hesitated for a moment because I knew that this trip would be a rare opportunity for me to bond more intimately with my birth parents. I eventually accepted their invitation.
Liu Fang excitedly prepared a comfortable room for me to live in, and she also specially laid out new sheets and bedding for me. I felt her care and love for me, and it filled my heart with gratitude.
In the evening, as we continued to chat, Liu Fang and Zhang Guoqiang shared their stories of their youth and what it was like when I was a child. They told me that they were unable to raise me because of financial and family problems, which made them feel very sad.
Zhang Guoqiang said: "Keke, we were really helpless back then. We hope you understand our decision. We're sorry we weren't able to accompany you as you grow. His words were deeply apologetic.
I nodded, "I understand your difficulties. You have also made difficult decisions for me. I don't blame you. ”
Liu Fang continued: "Keke, your adoptive parents have been very kind to you, and we are very grateful to them for taking care of you. You're grown up, and we're excited to see you again. A warm smile appeared in her eyes.
I felt a warmth in my heart, and this long-lost family affection made me feel that I had finally found a real home. We talked late into the night, and I felt like the distance between me and my birth parents was gradually shrinking.
The next morning, Liu Fang and Zhang Guoqiang took me around town. They showed me around the town, took me to the market to buy groceries, and introduced me to some of their friends and neighbors. I felt that they were respected by everyone in this town and that they had a very good relationship.
We bought some fresh vegetables and fruits at the market, and Liu Fang excitedly planned dinner tonight. She also invited me to join them for their neighborhood party, and I readily agreed.
In the evening, we went to a neighborhood party. It was a gathering full of joy and laughter. The neighbors were friendly, they welcomed me and shared a lot of interesting stories with me. I felt the friendliness and solidarity among the townspeople, which warmed my heart.
At the party, Cheung introduced me to the neighbors, and everyone was surprised and happy to know that I was their daughter. Neighbors blessed our family with a reunion. It filled my heart with gratitude, and I felt as if I had found a warm family.
After the party, we went back home. I sat in the living room and reflected on the experience of these two days. I felt the long-lost affection and warmth of family. I know that this is just the beginning, there are still many questions to be answered, and many emotions to explore.
In the days that followed, I continued to get along with my birth parents. I began to gain a deeper understanding of their lives and pasts. They also opened up to me about their lives after I left, and how much they missed and cared about me.
One night, Liu Fang sat next to me and said softly, "Keke, we have been thinking about you all these years. We tried to find you, but we haven't found you. Now that you're back, we're happy and grateful. ”
I shook her hand and said, "Mom, I'm happy to be back too." I know you've been thinking about me, and I've been thinking about you. ”
Liu Fang's eyes showed tears, she gently wiped the tears from the corners of her eyes, and said, "Keke, you are back, our hearts are finally relaxed." We will try our best to make up for the regrets of the past, and I hope you can forgive us. ”
I nodded: "I understand your difficulties, you have made difficult decisions. I have forgiven you. ”
During this time of getting along, I felt the sincerity and care of my biological parents, and the doubts in my heart gradually dissipated. I began to truly accept them as my birth parents and began to build a deep family bond.
In the process, I also realized that I needed time to digest these newfound emotions and experiences. My birth parents also gave me plenty of space and time to think and adjust.
That night, the three of us sat together, reminiscing about the past and talking about future plans. This made me feel the warmth and unity of my family, and it also gave me hope for the future.
Although the process was not easy, I believe that through time and communication, we can reconnect as a family. I look forward to the days ahead and to creating more wonderful memories with my birth parents.
In the days that followed, I continued to spend time with my birth parents. I gradually adapted to the rhythm of their lives and began to integrate into their family. My relationship with them has also grown closer, and we have shared many wonderful times together.
One afternoon, Liu Fang took me to the market in town. She wanted to buy me a few new clothes because she felt like I had been wearing the same clothes all this time. Although I didn't think I had any problems, she insisted that I needed a few new clothes.
We walked around the market for a while and she helped me pick out a few beautiful clothes. I felt her love for me in my heart, and this mother's care warmed my heart.
Back home, Liu Fang excitedly asked me to try on new clothes, and she smiled very happily: "Keke, you are so beautiful in these clothes!" She kept admiring.
Zhang Guoqiang also nodded beside him: "Keke, you are really getting more and more beautiful." Your mother's clothes are really good. ”
I was a little embarrassed by their compliments, but I knew they just wanted to make me happy. I'm also in a good mood to see them happy for me.
Later, we made dinner together, and Liu Fang asked me to learn some of her cooking skills. She enthusiastically taught me how to make some traditional dishes, which gave me a deeper understanding of their lives.
We talked a lot while making dinner. I asked Liu Fang about some family secrets and stories, and she told me without reservation. In her narration, I learned about their struggles and efforts when they were young, and how they overcame difficulties to get to where they are today.
In the evening, the three of us ate at the dinner table and the atmosphere was very harmonious. Zhang Guoqiang said happily: "Keke, today is really a good day, our family is together and eating the food cooked by our mother." ”
I smiled and nodded, "yes, I'm really happy these days. "I felt the long-lost affection, as if I had regained what I had lost.
After eating, we sat in the living room and continued to chat. Zhang Guoqiang proposed: "Keke, we plan to take you to meet your relatives next month. They've always wanted to see you and know you're looking forward to it when you come back. ”
Liu Fang also added: "Yes, Keke, your relatives have been asking us about you. They all want to see you. ”
I nodded, "Okay, I'm looking forward to meeting my relatives too." "I felt that this was a great opportunity to learn more about my family background and fellow relatives.
Subsequently, we planned our trip for the next month, deciding when and where to meet our relatives. My heart is full of anticipation that it will be a new journey.
For the next few days, I went for a walk in the park in town with my birth parents, did chores with them, and slowly got to know their habits. I found myself gradually integrating into their lives and becoming more and more intimate with them.
One night, Liu Fang told me that she had prepared a special gift for me. She took a small wooden box from her room and handed it to me.
"Keke, this is a gift that Mom is going to give you." She had a smile on her face and looked a little excited.
I took the wooden box and opened it to see that it was a delicate jade pendant. A phoenix is carved on the jade pendant, and the workmanship is very fine.
Liu Fang explained: "This is the jade pendant we gave you when you were a child. After you left, we kept it. Now I want to give it back to you. ”
I looked at this jade pendant, and a wave of emotion surged in my heart. This jade pendant represents their thoughts and care for me. Although I have no memory, this jade pendant made me feel a connection with them.
"Thank you, Mom." I gently shook her hand and said gratefully.
Liu Fang showed a warm smile: "Keke, it's nothing, this is your thing, my mother just kept it for a while." ”
This time I got along with each other, and I felt more deeply the love and care of my biological parents. I'm beginning to realize that while we've missed a lot of time in the past, now we have the opportunity to rebuild our close relationship.
As the days passed, the relationship between me and my birth parents grew stronger and stronger. I learned their way of life, and they gradually learned about my preferences and habits.
During this time, I also began to reflect on my attitude towards my birth parents. I gradually learned to forgive their past decisions and understand the difficulties they were experiencing. I realized that life is always full of challenges and choices, and each of us has our own difficulties.
Eventually, I decided to accept my birth parents as my family and continue to spend more quality time with them. I know that this will be a new beginning, a loving and caring family life.
This journey allowed me to find the missing part of my life and allowed me to build a deep bond with my birth parents. I look forward to the days ahead and look forward to creating more wonderful memories with them.
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