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My name is Wang Xiaohan, I am 28 years old, and I am an accountant of a large enterprise. Despite my busy schedule, I still have time to participate in some social activities, such as a recent blind date event where a friend introduced me.
The blind date event was held in a high-end hotel, and the men and women who came to attend were dressed appropriately and the atmosphere was relatively relaxed. I walked into the hall and saw neat rows of tables and chairs, each with a pair of men and women on a blind date, and I was placed in a position near the window.
I waited as I looked around. Suddenly, I noticed a woman in a big red sweater. She was about fifty years old, but she was well maintained, and she still looked temperamental, with long black hair tied into a braid, and bright eyes. She sat at another table, across from a handsome, middle-aged man. He was about forty years old, had a steady temperament, wore a suit, and looked very rich.
I thought to myself, this eldest sister still has charm, it's not easy to maintain such a good state when she is old.
Suddenly, I overheard a conversation on their desk.
"Mr. Shao, what type of woman do you like?" The eldest sister asked.
Mr. Shao smiled slightly, "I like women who are gentle and considerate and understand family. ”
"And what do you think of me?" The eldest sister asked.
Mr. Shao pondered for a moment, and then said, "You are indeed very temperamental, but you may be a little old. ”
I listened secretly and thought, oops, this Shao is too direct, not a gentleman at all.
"Old?" The eldest sister was a little angry when she heard this, "So what? Is it because you're old that you don't deserve you? ”
Shao quickly explained, "That's not what I mean, I just think that our lifestyle may be a little inappropriate." ”
The eldest sister sneered, "Lifestyle? You just say that you think I'm too old to meet your requirements. ”
Shao scratched his head a little embarrassed, "Actually, I think you are still very attractive, but ......"
"But what?" The eldest sister interrupted him, "But you think I'm too old and not young and beautiful enough?" ”
"No, I just think there is a generation gap between us, and it may be a little difficult to get along." Shao tried to lighten the mood.
The eldest sister shook her head, "That's not a problem that can't be solved. Age is not an issue at all as long as we want to. ”
I watched this scene with some emotion in my heart. Although the eldest sister is old, I am admired for her self-confidence and strength. At the same time, I was also dissatisfied with Shao's attitude, he was obviously a person who controlled his appearance and only valued young and beautiful women.
I suddenly felt that it was superfluous for me to participate in such a blind date event, and I didn't want to be with the kind of man who only looked at his appearance. What I want is someone who appreciates my inner self and is willing to spend the rest of my life hand in hand with me.
Just as I was hesitating, a voice interrupted my thoughts.
"Wang Xiaohan, hello." An unfamiliar male voice sounded beside me, and I turned around to see a man in a gray suit standing in front of me.
I smiled politely, "Hello, ...... you?" ”
"I'm Liu Xin, and I'm glad to meet you." The man sat across from me with a smile, "What do you think of this place?" ”
"It's not bad, it's very warm." I replied casually.
"yes, I think it's pretty good, too." Liu Xin nodded, "I heard that you are an accountant, right?" ”
"Yes, I work for a large business." I took the initiative to introduce.
"Oh, that's good." Liu Xin smiled, "I work as a project manager in an Internet company. ”
"It's not easy, and the project manager should be under a lot of pressure." I expressed my understanding of his profession.
"Yes, but it's also quite fulfilling." "However, what I like the most is spending my free time at home with my family. ”
"Family is the most important thing." I agreed, "What about your family?" ”
"My parents are both in my hometown, and I work here alone." Liu Xin shook his head a little helplessly, "Now that I'm getting older, I'm starting to feel lonely." ”
I sighed to myself, the company of my family is indeed very important. It seems that Liu Xin is also a person with a family concept.
As our conversation deepened, I found that Liu Xin not only spoke appropriately, but was also very serious about family and relationships. While talking to him, I felt an inexplicable sense of closeness.
"Wang Xiaohan, it's really a pleasure to talk to you." Liu Xin smiled and said, "I think we have a lot in common. ”
I smiled too, "yes, I think you're a nice guy too." ”
Just then, a staff member walked over and said, "It's time, please change seats." ”
Liu Xin and I looked at each other, both a little reluctant. However, there was a surge of anticipation in my heart, looking forward to being able to get to know Liu Xin more about each other.
"Let's talk next time." I smiled at Liu Xin.
"Okay, see you next time." Liu Xin also smiled at me.
I stood up and followed the staff to a new seat, looking forward to the next meeting with Liu Xin.
In the next round of blind dates, I met Liu Xin again. He smiled at me and sat across from me, as if there was a tacit understanding between us.
"See you again, Wang Xiaohan." Liu Xin greeted with a smile.
"yes, that's a coincidence." I smiled too.
Our conversation started again, Liu Xin shared some of his work experience and life trivia, and I tried to open my heart and share my daily life and thoughts with him.
"Do you have any hobbies?" I asked curiously.
"I love reading and working out, and I also like music and play some guitar." Liu Xin smiled and said, "What about you?" ”
"I love travel and photography, and I like to read novels." I replied to him.
"Sounds like we're a good match for our interests." Liu Xin smiled, "Why don't we go out for a walk together next time?" ”
I was secretly happy in my heart, it seems that Liu Xin has some meaning to me. I nodded, "yes, I'd love to." ”
Our conversations became more and more speculative, and time passed imperceptibly. Suddenly, the staff came over and reminded us that the time was up.
"It's fast, time flies." I said with some emotion.
"yes, I think I'd like to talk to you more." Liu Xin also said with some regret.
"It's okay, let's talk next time." I comforted him.
We stood up and said goodbye with a smile on our faces, all looking forward to the next time we met.
After the blind date, I had a strong impression of Liu Xin. He is not only mature and stable, but also has the same interests and hobbies as me, and more importantly, he shows genuine care and respect for me. I'm starting to look forward to further interactions with him, and I hope he feels the same way about me.
However, I have received a few other suitors over this time. Some people contacted me through social media, and some people met me through friends. However, I always felt that something was missing between me and them.
At the same time, I also think of the blind date between my eldest sister and Shao from time to time. Although the eldest sister was treated unfairly by Shao, she showed extraordinary confidence and strength, which made me feel very encouraged. I've come to understand that self-confidence and strength are the biggest attractions of people, and that age and appearance are secondary.
As time went on, my feelings became more and more complicated. I don't know exactly what kind of love I want, and I don't know who I should choose. I began to weigh things up and down, trying to find the most appropriate answer.
In the midst of this hesitation, I had another blind date with me. This time, I had some anticipation in my heart, but I was also full of apprehension. I don't know what kind of surprise or disappointment this blind date will bring me.
I walked into the agreed restaurant and saw a man in a casual shirt sitting there, he looked a little childish, but his eyes revealed a youthful vitality. I smiled and walked over and sat down across from him.
"Hello, I'm Wang Xiaohan." I greeted him.
"Hello, my name is Li Tao." He also smiled and replied, "Nice to meet you." ”
We started talking, Li Tao is a small company entrepreneur, young and promising, but full of confusion and struggle for the future. He shared his dreams and confusions, and I tried to give him some encouragement and advice.
"Do you have any plans for the future?" I asked curiously.
"I want to be able to make my company bigger and stronger and become a leader in the industry." Li Tao's eyes flashed with longing.
"It wasn't easy." I understood, "But as long as you keep working hard, you will be able to achieve your dreams." ”
Li Tao smiled slightly, "Thank you for your encouragement, listening to you say this, I think I have greater confidence." ”
Our dialogue went on very happily, and I was amazed by Li Tao's optimism and efforts. Although he is a little young, his passion for life and pursuit of the future make me feel that he deserves respect and trust.
Before we knew it, the restaurant's bell rang to remind us that it was time.
"Time flies." I said with a smile.
"yes, I'd like to talk to you more."
"It's okay, let's talk next time." I smiled at Li Tao.
"Okay, I'll make an appointment next time." Li Tao also smiled.
We left the restaurant in a good mood. I think this blind date experience was very pleasant, although Li Tao is young, I was deeply impressed by his enthusiasm and positive attitude towards life. Perhaps, he is the one I have been looking for.
Back at home, I was in a relaxed mood lying on the couch, thinking about today's blind date experience. Unconsciously, the mobile phone rang, and it was a message from Liu Xin.
"How's the blind date today? Are there any good takeaways? Liu Xin asked.
I thought about it for a moment and replied, "It's good, I think there is some interest." ”
"Really? That's great. Liu Xin's reply revealed a hint of happiness, "I wonder if we can meet again next time?" ”
I smiled and replied, "Of course, I'm looking forward to it." ”
After sending the message, I suddenly felt a little entangled. I do have a good impression of Liu Xin in my heart, but at the same time, Li Tao's optimism and enthusiasm also make me feel very attractive. I didn't know who to choose, and I felt a little embarrassed.
At this time, the mobile phone rang again, and it was a message from an unfamiliar number.
"Hello, I'm Shao." The message reads, "I know you were a little unhappy with me on the last blind date, but I want to give us another chance where I can prove to you that I can meet your requirements." ”
Seeing Shao's news, I suddenly felt a surge of anger in my heart. His attitude towards the eldest sister last time was so rude, and now he is coming to me again, which is simply unacceptable to me.
Without hesitation, I replied, "I'm sorry, I don't think we're a good fit." Please don't contact me again. ”
After sending the message, I felt a lot more relaxed. The thought of reconnecting with Shao has been erased from my mind, and I am full of hope and anticipation for the future.
For the next few days, I kept thinking about my feelings. I know this is an important decision and I want to make the right choice. In this process, I also kept in touch with Liu Xin and Li Tao, trying to understand them better and find the most suitable person.
In my interactions with them, I gradually discovered their strengths and weaknesses. Liu Xin is mature and steady, very sincere to me, but sometimes seems a little conservative. Li Tao is young and energetic, full of enthusiasm for life, but sometimes lacks some sense of responsibility and maturity.
In the end, I decided to continue with Liu Xin. Although he is a bit conservative, I feel that he is sincere to me, and I am willing to grow up with him and face the challenges of the future together.
I sent a message to Liu Xin: "I want to be with you. ”
He quickly replied, "Me too." ”
After receiving his reply, I felt an inexplicable sense of relief and joy in my heart. I feel that I have made the right choice, and I am willing to go into the future with Liu Xin.
The days of blind dates have become a thing of the past, and my relationship with Liu Xin has gradually stabilized. We've had a lot of great times together and have gone through a lot of life's ups and downs.
Sometimes, I think back to the hesitation and struggle I had at the beginning, and I feel that it was all worth it. Because in the end, I found the real person in my heart, and I was with Liu Xin and felt full of happiness.
Love is an encounter, but also a spiritual fit. I am glad that I have found my other half in the vast sea of people, and I am willing to walk with him every spring, summer, autumn and winter for the rest of my life.
As the days passed, my relationship with Liu Xin became deeper and deeper. We have had many wonderful times together and have experienced many challenges and difficulties in life.
"Xiaohan, I want to go on a trip with you." Liu Xin said to me suddenly.
"Going on a trip? That's a good idea. I nodded excitedly, "Is there any place you want to go?" ”
"I want to go to Yunnan, I heard that the scenery there is beautiful." Liu Xin said with a smile.
"Yunnan, that's a very good choice." I also like, "When are we leaving?" ”
"How's this weekend?" Liu Xin suggested.
"Okay, I can take a leave of absence." I immediately agreed, "Let's go and enjoy this wonderful holiday." ”
The weekend soon came, and Liu Xin and I embarked on a journey to Yunnan in high spirits. There, we enjoyed the magnificent natural scenery, tasted the local cuisine and experienced a different way of life.
"Liu Xin, look, the scenery over there is so beautiful!" I pointed to the mountains in the distance and said to him.
"yes, it's really beautiful." Liu Xin also showed an envious expression, "It's really worth coming here with you." ”
In every corner of Yunnan, we have left good memories. I feel that this trip not only deepened the relationship between me and Liu Xin, but also allowed us to get to know each other better, and this tacit understanding and harmony made me feel extremely happy.
After returning home, my relationship with Liu Xin became closer. We started talking about future plans and imagining life together.
"Xiaohan, are you willing to marry me?" Liu Xin suddenly proposed to me.
I was shocked for a moment, then smiled, "Of course I do, I've wanted to marry you for a long time." ”
Liu Xin happily hugged me, "That's great, I'll take care of you." ”
"I will also cherish our relationship." I hugged him and felt the happiness and warmth.
The preparations for the wedding made me feel excited and a little busy, but every little thing made me feel full of happiness. On this special day, I want to walk into the palace of marriage with Liu Xin and spend every future day with him.
"Xiaohan, are you ready?" On the day of the wedding, Liu Xin was waiting for me at the door.
I walked up to him in a white wedding dress with a smile on my face, "Ready, let's go together." ”
We walked into the wedding hand in hand, and all our family and friends were present to bless us. I felt their love and blessings, and my heart was filled with gratitude and joy.
Under the guidance of the host, Liu Xin and I exchanged vows, wore the wedding ring given by the other party, and finally, we kissed each other and declared our love for each other.
"Congratulations, from now on, you will spend every day of your life together." The moderator announced.
Liu Xin and I hugged each other tightly, our eyes full of happiness and expectation. From now on, we will face everything in life together, take responsibility together, and create the future together.
After the wedding, we started our newlywed life. With our joint efforts, our career and family have been continuously developed. Although there are some small conflicts and difficulties in life, we are all able to communicate and solve problems with our hearts.
"Xiaohan, you see how happy our children are smiling." Liu Xin smiled and pointed to the child and said to me.
I smiled and looked at the child, "yes, our child is so cute." ”
In the company of children, our family is more warm and happy. I feel very lucky to be able to build this wonderful family with Liu Xin.
I kept telling myself that I had found the most important person in my life, and I was willing to walk with him hand in hand for the rest of my life.
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