On campus in the early morning, by the lake, the breeze is breezy and has a slight smell of moist earth. The lake glows with a faint golden glow in the morning light, and everything seems so peaceful and beautiful. In this quiet corner, Xiao Xunlong sat alone on a smooth stone slab, his gaze deep, as if he was contemplating something.
Xiao Xunlong is a young man full of wisdom but complex in heart, he excels academically, but he seems a little clumsy in interpersonal communication. He always tries to interpret the world through logic and reason, but ignores the importance of emotions in human relationships. Recently, however, he had a problem that made him doubt his values and lifestyle.
The question came from one of his female friends, Xiaowan. Xiaowan is a gentle and kind girl who always brings warmth and comfort to people. Recently, however, Xiao Wan has become depressed, and her eyes are full of confusion and uneasiness. Xiao Xunlong tried to comfort her with the logic and rationality he excelled at, but to little avail. He began to realize that he might not really understand Xiaowan's needs.
Early that morning, Xiao Xunlong sat by the lake again, thinking about how to help Xiaowan. He recalls his relationship with Xiao Wan and tries to find the answer. He remembered that Xiao Wan had mentioned that what she longed for most was to be understood and supported, not to be blamed and denied. This discovery shocked Xiao Xunlong, who realized that his previous actions might have inadvertently hurt Xiao Wan.
At this moment, Xiao Wan also came to the lakeside. She saw Xiao Xunlong sitting there alone, so she walked over and sat next to him. The two were silent for a moment, and then Xiao Wan began to talk about her recent troubles and confusion. She told Xiao Xunlong that she felt ununderstood, as if she couldn't get the approval and support of others no matter what she did.
Xiao Xunlong listened to Xiao Wan's story quietly, and his heart was full of guilt and self-blame. He realized that his previous actions had indeed ignored Xiaowan's feelings and needs. He began to try to communicate with Xiaowan in a more gentle and understanding way, trying to give her support and comfort.
In the conversation, Xiao Xunlong gradually realized what women need most - to be understood and supported. He realizes that everyone has their own emotional needs and inner world, and that understanding and support are the keys to building good relationships. He began to reflect on his previous behaviors and attitudes and decided to change himself and become a more understanding and supportive person.
Over time, the dragon gradually changed itself. He began to actively listen to others and try to understand their needs and feelings. His changes not only won Xiaowan's gratitude and trust, but also made his interpersonal relationships more harmonious.
By chance, Xiao Xunlong saw a book on female psychology in the library. After reading it carefully, he found that many of the ideas mentioned in the book coincided with his insights. The book mentions that women's psychological need to be understood, respected, and supported is a universal phenomenon, not just Xiaowan's personal troubles. Xiao Xunlong was deeply shocked and proud that he was able to comprehend this.
After that early morning by the lake, Xiao Xunlong and Xiao Wan's relationship became even closer. They often walk and chat together, sharing each other's thoughts and feelings. Xiao Xunlong also began to take the initiative to care for other female friends around him, trying to give them more understanding and support. He gradually found that when he tried to understand and support others, he was not only able to help others solve their problems, but also to gain more happiness and satisfaction.
Over time, the dragon became a popular and respected person. His relationships have become more harmonious and harmonious, and his life is full of sunshine and hope. That early morning by the lake, he found his answer, and also found the true meaning of life - to warm others with understanding and support, and to warm himself at the same time.